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Hiedi, 47

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About Me

Hey…’t willing to drive here to meet me, don’t bother…I’m not coming to you! If we get past the first meeting, then we can share travel time. I’ve been independent for a very long time and have developed a bit of an attitude about stupid people, please don’t be stupid because I will call you on it. I am NOT looking for a booty call I don’t need this site to get one of those! DO NOT ask me for pics of my body parts! They are spectacular but I'm not sending you pictures or showing you on cam...get a grip and go buy a magazine!!!!Okay…now that those are out of the way I’ll tell you what I want from you. I want honesty, respect, and a partnership. I’m mature enough to know that we both have pasts and some of that baggage will follow, but it shouldn’t define ‘us’. I have no regrets in my life. Everything I’ve done has made me who I am. I wouldn’t change anything because if I did, everything after it would change as well. I want you to always tell me the truth even if it hurts…I can’t change or deal with things I don’t know about. I want you to respect me and what I have to offer our relationship…I’m not dumb or inferior to you in any way. I want a partner…someone who asks my opinion on things that affect ‘us’. I won’t stop you from doing things you want to do, but I want to know about them before you do them. I know that a partnership is not always ***, it’s a give and take, but neither of us should ever feel that we are giving more than we are getting back. I'm not looking for someone to look after me, I've done a pretty good job of that for the last 28 years, and have no intentions of handing over control to someone else. lolIf you’ve made it this far I thank you for reading my profile. I’m hoping this one gets me closer to finding the man that I am looking for. I know he’s here. He just has to trust himself enough to reach out and give happiness a try. There is much more to me but I have to leave something to talk about when we meet. PS If I send you a message it doesn't mean I want to marry you, relax and take what I said as a compliment! F*** some men on here are so full of themselves!!!!! Surprise me! I love surprises!!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lady

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-53

    Hi! My name is Lady. I am separated other caucasian woman without kids from Jeffersonville, Indiana, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Deja

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I read a lot. My daughters and grandbabies are my favorite people. I'm good spirited and outgoing. I'm very intelligent. I'm open to a lot of things. I'll try anything at least once. I'm funny(at least I think so) and very sarcastic and I believe life is too short to be unhappy so I make sure sure I am happy.I love to laugh and have the lines to prove it (no they AREN'T wrinkles). I have family, a teenager at home, and lots of girls in my life. That being said, I Hate DRAMA! Not saying its just the girls either, plenty of testosterone drama around too. Don't need it. Everyone says this, but seriously, be HONEST and straightforward. Love pets and little people. Actually I just love people. Cant imagine living without a dog. My daughter has one (mine when she's being good or need anything). I work a lot, it runs in the family. went back to schools a while ago, always loved to learn but didn't realise how much I missed school. All done with that, for now. So, I'm comfortable with myself and my life. I cant wait for new things to happen.Oh, btw, I'm a toucher. Deal with it. VERY IMPORTANT, IF YOU DON'T HAVE A PICTURE, DON'T MESSAGE ME. No offense but I put mine up, you should to.I don't mean to be rude, and no offense, but I DON'T date older men and if you are in terminal pity party mode, don't waste your time and mine. Be afraid, be very afraid!!! I have found that dating is awkward and most of the men I've gone on first dates with, don't make it to the second.......too serious. Dating is supposed to be fun not agonizing and worrying over what is going to happen next. You are supposed to be getting to know each other, not wondering when you are going to go to bed with and/or get married. Good gracious. That's all I have to say about that. (Did you catch the movie reference)

  • Katey

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hello-thanks for stopping by! :o)A little about me: I am a very caring, giving and loving person! I am passionate, deep and kind! I have respect, patience (most of the time) and tolerance! I am a little reserved, old-fashioned and cautious! Sometimes though, I can be pretty care-free, I will dive into the unknown and take risks-I will put myself out there and take that leap now and again, even though it may be against my beliefs-sometimes you just have to do that, even though it may not work in your favor, and you might get hurt because of it! Nothing worth having comes easy, my father told me more than once, and that beauty must exist from within, before it glows on the outside! I so get that now! :O) Love this time of year-leaves are changing into beautiful colors-almost like artwork...I can turn the oven on without feeling guilty; I really enjoy baking-a brisk walk is nice when you don't have to sweat from the heat or if you suffer from allergies...and it just prepares you for the winter freeze; hibernation time-ha! I like to think we are just being "preserved"-If you need chemicals in your daily life to feel "normal" or to have a good time, I am not the one for you! IF you are looking for a roll in the hay or a one-nighter, yea, that's not for me either! If you are willing to make the time, effort and build a friendship, I would really like that! :o) I can be your cheerleader, your support system, a listening ear when you need it and assist in problem-solving. I will be your best friend whom you can trust and confide in! And also the one you can have fun with, laugh with and be silly at times with! I don't mind getting dirty and playing outside either. When was the last time you jumped in a puddle, ran out in the rain or made a mud pie? :o) Ok, I'm busted-not part of my normal activities, but I do have a grand daughter who needs to know and experience some of those fun, free things that put a smile on anyone's face! I enjoy time at home playing cards with my partner, or whatever we do to share time, making a mess in the kitchen, raking leaves, having a bon-fire and sharing a story at bed time-I still enjoy being read to and it is quite a nice thing to share, even in adulthood! I try to treat others as I would like to be treated, so with that said, I will tell you I am not interested, and end the conversations between us and NOT leave you hanging. I think that is just plain rude and disrespectful. Aren't we all adults here??? Yes, I am rolling my eyes! HA!LOVE 80's hairbands and shooting video was an enjoyable hobby in my younger years. I have met alot of awesome musicians, local and National-still like to get out and hear some of my friends play, or attend jam sessions now and again. I just enjoy time with my family and friends, where ever that may join us... A favorite quote: "Trust is earned, respect is given and loyalty is demonstrated. Betrayal of any one of those is to lose all three"Best of luck to you all in your search for that 'special" person you are looking for! I hope you find it-me too! And when you do, make sure you do what is necessary to hang onto them! Ciao for now! :O) some place where we can talk and get to know one another-quiet is good for conversation, maybe a coffee or something...of course, somewhere public until that comfort level is reached for more private time...

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