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Vicenta, 48
United States, Indiana, Highland

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About Me

;My son, there's a battle between 2 wolves inside us all. One is evil, it is anger, jealousy, greed, resentment, inferiority, lies and ego. The other is good. It is joy, peace, love, hope, humility, kindess and truth." The boy thought about it and asked, "Grandfather, which wolf wins?" The old man quietly replied, "the one you feed." So, a little about me: I am the oldest of six children. I am close to my family, although I don't get to spend as much time with them as I'd like. I have two daughters, 11 and 12, both are very smart and they do make it all worthwhile. I am passionate, expressive, playful, generous, thoughtful and fiercely protective of friends and family. I am slow to anger, but a good person to have in your corner if you have been treated unfairly and need an advocate. I will not run from a fight, but I believe in choosing my battles. When I love, I love completely and with abandon, much like Ronny and Loretta in "Moonstruck". If you are looking for a playmate only, please don't respond to me. The word "intimate" has nothing to do with sex although many people make the mistake of believing that they are one and the same. True intimacy is the deep connection of two souls, and I won't accept anything less in my next relationship. Some things I like in a man: Honesty for one, for ***, exclusive means that you don't see other women romantically (a duh moment, I know) I like someone who can take charge, without being bossy. Someone who knows enough about cars to hazard a guess as to the cause of a smell or a sound emanating from the engine but doesn't know TOO much. I like a man who will wrap his arms around me and pull me in close when its cold or when I'm sad or worried and make me feel as if the world can't stop spinning as long as his arms are wrapped around me. I like a smart, educated man, that can match wits with me and that realizes I am truly a prize and doesn't take me for granted. I don't need to be catered to or pampered. I do, however, value attention from the man I love and reciprocate gratefully. But you should know that all the things that make me interesting can also make me challenging at times (I've been told) and if you can't handle a strong woman who will challenge you to be your best self, than move on to the next profile. When we meet for the first time, I may be quieter than you are expecting. I will likely listen more than I talk because I want to know what makes you tick and whether together we are a "yes" or a "no". I don't like endless *** phone conversations with men I have not yet sat across a table from although a short initial conversation is totally okay in the beginning. If you have had or still have women in your life with whom you've had on again off again relationships that never really ended, please don't *** used to tell people that I never re-cross a bridge and I didn't really understand why I felt that way. I have discovered that when relationships end, there's a reason, and revisiting those relationships often creates an endless cycle of heartache and dysfunction. I am learning to accept the ends of things and be open to new opportunities. Whether it is physically or emotionally, I strive to be healthier every day, and be true to myself. I know that I'm never going to stop falling in love and that I will always be risking a broken heart. It is a risk that must be taken. I know that when I meet the one I am supposed to be with for the rest of my life, I will continue to fall in love with him every day until I take my last breath. There is no true victory without significant risk. Something casual. Happy hour works well for me....coffee on a Saturday morning...anything that will allow me (and you) to know whether there's a spark.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Roselia

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Just moved back here from Fla. I have a 16 year old son and I try to do anything I can with him. of course I am Nana to all cuz I just don't look like a grandma and the older ones meetville me with Nana cuz the said I aint wrinkled and old like most grandmas lol. I am prettty much an open book so if ya want just ask. I have def lived my life the way i chose to. you only have one so do things that make you happy and take chances dont tiptoe through it because you miss some very big things take chances thats what its about. I do have tattoos and quite a few of them jus sayin lol..... As you can see by pics I am NOT the girl next door and if your looking for the June Cleaver type that wouldn't be me lol I am an awesome cook and I love to bake .If your easily intimidated i guess u should just keep goin i stand up for myself and if that embarrases you oh well. I guess that people should specify. what it is they are looking for if your wanting a relationship then say what you want not what would be fun right now. Well good luck I hope you find all that ur looking for...........If you don't have a current { and by current I don't mean last Christmas it has to be at least a couple months old no older } pic or don't have a pic at all don't bother I will not respond depends on this lovely Mich weather and who you are

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  • Donetta from Highland | Woman | 47 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am still working on me, but I find that as I meet more and more people, I find out a little more about myself which is a really cool thing.I am looking for just a friend right now and then see where it goes. I am looking for someone who is intelligent and is a good conversationalist with a great sense of humor. I am also looking for someone who is as interested in me as I am in them. Someone who asks questions. I am very inquisitive and I will ask a lot of questions, because I want to know you. So please dont start with just "hi". Ask me a question. Show me that you read my profile and care about what I do or think. The ones that get responses are the ones that started with something more creative or a question. Show that you are really interested in getting to know me.Taking things slowly. I am outgoing, enthusiastic, passionate and like to give and receive little romantic gestures. I like to be spontaneous and take spur of the moment road trips. I think that its the small things in life that count the most. I love to laugh and make others laugh. I am very involved with my kids and community and feel that family comes first. I love to be outdoors even if its just sitting on the porch with my cup of coffee listening to the birds and watching the dog roll in the grass.I love to camp, fish, hike, snow shoeing, snowmobiling, swim, kayak and anything around water. I love to have a glass of wine or a couple of beers with friends or with someone special around a campfire. I like going to local bars/restaurants and listening to local bands or just live music overlooking the lakes.I also cook, read, garden, landscape and like to bike but I need a new one! I love to go to sporting events from hockey to football to softball games. Like to snuggle on the couch or even some fun competition on whose team is going to win. Anything that involves water, good food and good conversation.

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  • Kaye from Highland | Woman | 47 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    *I don't photograph well!!* I am always told that I am more attractive in person. Just thought I would toss that out there. :)I'm an independent woman and not looking for a sugar daddy, nor am I looking for someone to support. I'm not difficult to please, I enjoy the simple things in life and am so looking forward to the day when I have someone to share the day-to-day life stuff with....preparing dinner together, going for walks in the evening, grocery shopping, folding laundry, snuggling on the couch while we watch a movie, cheering on our favorite sports teams...you get the picture. :)I believe that good communication is CRUCIAL in any relationship! If you don't, we won't be a good match. You will drive me crazy by making me try to guess what you are thinking, and I will drive you crazy with questions about what you are thinking. I read a quote once that said "Women spend more time thinking about what men are thinking about, then men actually spend time thinking." LOL While I don't necessarily believe that to be true, I think in some *** could be. Please be ready for a REAL relationship....one where we spend time together, stay in contact via text messages, etc. I want my guy to be my best friend too.I am faithful, honest, kind-hearted and have just enough "bad girl" in me to keep things interesting. I love alternative rock, contemporary Christian and country music. I'm definitely more of a country girl at heart--I am most comfortable in jeans and a t-shirt or yoga pants. (But I don't do yoga.....). I like to attend auctions and flea markets and truly enjoy the simple things in life. I'm a give-it-my-all type of person. If I am in a relationship with you, I am in 100%. My goal is to make and keep you happy. I will pamper you with massages and shower you with affection. If you aren't an affectionate kind of guy, or believe that the only time to show affection is prior to sex, we will probably not be a good match. Looking for a guy that knows what he wants, isn't afraid to go after it, and understands that NOBODY is perfect. At this stage in the game, we all have little quirks and are sometimes a little too set in our ways. Compromise is key.Let's talk and see what we might have in common. I like for the first meeting to be something simple and relaxed. Maybe some ice cream, or a light lunch or soda. If we feel mutual chemistry, we can always extend our time together. :)

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