SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Vicenta
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Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
;My son, there's a battle between 2 wolves inside us all. One is evil, it is anger, jealousy, greed, resentment, inferiority, lies and ego. The other is good. It is joy, peace, love, hope, humility, kindess and truth." The boy thought about it and asked, "Grandfather, which wolf wins?" The old man quietly replied, "the one you feed." So, a little about me: I am the oldest of six children. I am close to my family, although I don't get to spend as much time with them as I'd like. I have two daughters, 11 and 12, both are very smart and they do make it all worthwhile. I am passionate, expressive, playful, generous, thoughtful and fiercely protective of friends and family. I am slow to anger, but a good person to have in your corner if you have been treated unfairly and need an advocate. I will not run from a fight, but I believe in choosing my battles. When I love, I love completely and with abandon, much like Ronny and Loretta in "Moonstruck". If you are looking for a playmate only, please don't respond to me. The word "intimate" has nothing to do with sex although many people make the mistake of believing that they are one and the same. True intimacy is the deep connection of two souls, and I won't accept anything less in my next relationship. Some things I like in a man: Honesty for one, for ***, exclusive means that you don't see other women romantically (a duh moment, I know) I like someone who can take charge, without being bossy. Someone who knows enough about cars to hazard a guess as to the cause of a smell or a sound emanating from the engine but doesn't know TOO much. I like a man who will wrap his arms around me and pull me in close when its cold or when I'm sad or worried and make me feel as if the world can't stop spinning as long as his arms are wrapped around me. I like a smart, educated man, that can match wits with me and that realizes I am truly a prize and doesn't take me for granted. I don't need to be catered to or pampered. I do, however, value attention from the man I love and reciprocate gratefully. But you should know that all the things that make me interesting can also make me challenging at times (I've been told) and if you can't handle a strong woman who will challenge you to be your best self, than move on to the next profile. When we meet for the first time, I may be quieter than you are expecting. I will likely listen more than I talk because I want to know what makes you tick and whether together we are a "yes" or a "no". I don't like endless *** phone conversations with men I have not yet sat across a table from although a short initial conversation is totally okay in the beginning. If you have had or still have women in your life with whom you've had on again off again relationships that never really ended, please don't *** used to tell people that I never re-cross a bridge and I didn't really understand why I felt that way. I have discovered that when relationships end, there's a reason, and revisiting those relationships often creates an endless cycle of heartache and dysfunction. I am learning to accept the ends of things and be open to new opportunities. Whether it is physically or emotionally, I strive to be healthier every day, and be true to myself. I know that I'm never going to stop falling in love and that I will always be risking a broken heart. It is a risk that must be taken. I know that when I meet the one I am supposed to be with for the rest of my life, I will continue to fall in love with him every day until I take my last breath. There is no true victory without significant risk. Something casual. Happy hour works well for me....coffee on a Saturday morning...anything that will allow me (and you) to know whether there's a spark.
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Sarai
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Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
I'm an active, energetic person who likes to do things. I don't want to lie on my death bed, and harbour any regrets...we're only here once. I appreciate the simpler things in life like going for walks along the river, reading good books, listening to good music, and getting together with friends. I do things with enthusiasm and like to do them well. I've recently taken up scuba, and look forward to dives anywhere warm! I swim, cycle and run regularly. This year I'm learning to row. I enjoy gardening, reading, swimming, hiking, music, and travelling. I'm attracted to men who are active, curious, and kind. Initial sparks are welcome, but I value shared interests and activities over sparks that fade over time. On a first date, it's important to find out if the basics are there - chemistry, common interests, a shared sense of humour....do you click? that's essential. I think the best way of finding that out is to sit down over a cup of coffee or tea.
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Clementina
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Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
I’m single again and looking for someone who's a bit old fashioned and respectful, has personal values and integrity. I am looking for someone who, like me, is also looking for a meaningful relationship. It will take someone strong and dedicated who can appreciate me and life "outside the box" a little, not only to earn my love and respect (as I know I must earn yours), someone who can respect my occasional need for space just as I will respect yours - ALWAYS. I'm not into the bar scene to find a partner, so I thought I'd give this a shot. Also not into endless messaging back and forth.....just sayin'! I have a great career that I wouldn’t dream of giving up. Although stressful and demanding, it gives me a tremendous sense of pride to be able to work with various people on a daily basis, as well as be a positive influence and possibly make a difference in their lives.I’m down-to-earth, fun-loving and outgoing, and I enjoy the little things like holding hands, cuddling on the couch and waking up and falling asleep in each others' arms. I like to get to the gym every day as well as bike and jog in the summer. I'm comfortable in anything from jeans, t-shirt and boots to getting dressed up for a night out. I enjoy getting out for dinner and drinks once in awhile, but I'm also just as happy curled up on the couch watching a movie too. I love swimming in the pool on scorching hot days and warm evenings and nights- but it's just not as much fun by myself!!!! I do like to get a bit sideways once in awhile too!!! I'm not looking to be the "other woman" in any relationship, so if you are attached in ANY way, please DO NOT contact me. I don't play games and don't have time for anyone that does. Honesty and integrity go a long way with me - if you don't possess those traits then I am not interested in getting to know you. I'm romantic, spontaneous and energetic also, and hopefully you are too. BTW - SATURDAY AND SUNDAY MORNINGS ARE NOT JUST FOR SLEEPING IN ;)!!!!! I live life to the fullest, I live my life honestly and openly. I work hard and play harder! I want that in a partner too. Try anything once, repeat as necessary! I try to learn from my mistakes and also from any negative times my life - everything happens for a reason, right???? That's something I've been reminded of again quite recently.Happy fishing.......:)Also, if I add you to my favorites, please take it as a compliment ;). I'm adding you so that you are easier to find later to send a message to. If you are going to add me to your favorites or say "YES" in the "Meet Me" feature, it would be nice if you would send me a message (with your picture) and introduce yourself. No picture, no reply!!!*** I really hope you look like your picture when we meet...if you don't, you can buy me drinks until you do! First Date We could meet for coffee or lunch somewhere quiet - take some time to get to know each other and see where it goes....... Meet for coffee or lunch somewhere quiet - get to know each other a bit and see where it goes from there.