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Shaun, 49
United States, Indiana, Hagerstown

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UPDATE : If you don't want to hear the answer, don't ask the question. Don't waste my time or yours with the usual bs just to stop dead in your tracks or block me because I gave you MY honest answer to YOUR question. Think before you type and don't be suprised, shocked or offended.Thank you for checking out my profile. If I spark your interest don't be shy, say hey. I answer all my messages. We are all on here looking for someone we have "chemistry" with, but I think it's very rude to not acknowledge someone that took the time and chance to send a message. I hope you guys feel the same way.A few things you should know: If you judge others, we won't get along. If you are a mean person, we won't get along. If you lie, we won't get along. If you cheat , we won't get along. If you don't enjoy a cold beer (or drink) or " 3" on the weekends, we won't get along, if you don't have a passion for life, we won't get along, AND if you don't believe in treating others as you would want to be treated, we will not get along.I am looking for someone that wants a relationship. I know a relationship develops thru friendship, trust, passion, & over time, hope you feel the same. I am looking for my lover AND best friend . I don't need to be taken care of . I have a job & can take care of myself. I'm not going to pretend to be someone I'm not and I won't try to change you, I expect the same from you.I love to laugh & have fun. I enjoy rides with no destination. Walks on the beach. Dancing in the rain. A bottle of wine in the park. Live music. Hole in the wall places. Beach bars. Cooler of beer & something on the grill with that special guy & friends. Cooking together is the BEST but, I don't mind cooking while you sit, talk to me & keep my glass full. I have 2 kids that live with me. They are 18 & 21 & do their own thing but we still have family time. I don't mind if you have kids & I understand the time you need to give to them. There will never be any issues with me when it comes to the time you spend with your kids & ask the same. I am very open & honest to a fault. Anything else you want to know, just ask. Just make sure you really want to know the answer. :-) I am not afraid to speak my mind & have been told I am a very strong woman. If anything you have read is what you're looking for, lets chat a couple of times then meet. We will either say goodnight wanting to, or have made plans to, see each other again or have decided there's nothing there to explore.We are all adults here &-) Meet for a drink & converstion.Keep it simple. Anywhere without much noise so we can talk & get to know each other. I believe there is someone for everyone. Here's to finding the one! Cheers

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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