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Mallie, 50

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About Me

All I'm really trying to do is to live the best life I can, make some friends along the way, and maybe make a difference. I live very simply. I just appreciate all I have and don't want for much. Having said that, I do enjoy indulgences from time to time, like my yearly 2 day retreat. (My profile picture was taken on October 27, ***while relaxing and reconnecting with me.) I am a nurse by profession, which means I am a nurturer to a fault, and sometimes I forget to take care of me. So, I escape from time to time to just "be". Not many can understand that. But they don't have to. It makes me a better person and I understand it. I am a contradiction on most days, and as a Gemini, sometimes hard to keep up with. I don't apologize for being me, but will apologize for how that may make you feel at times. I am honest and I am loyal. My favorite quote is from my favorite film, The Shootist: "I won't be wronged. I won't be insulted. I won't be laid a hand on. I don't do these things to others and I require the same in return."I do believe people can change under extraordinary circumstances and those circumstances cannot be imposed by another person. So, no, I don't try to change people. I accept them for who they are and hope they accept me for who I am. That doesn't mean I wouldn't want to be a better friend or lover. I just know that expectations can really ruin a relationship.I like a man who is polite and protective, but understands that while I am a strong and independent woman, sometimes I need and WANT to be taken care of. Not in a materialistic sort of way. there's a difference between taking CARE of me, and taking care of ME. He can expect the same in return. I want someone who can share some of my interests, but also introduce me to his. It's okay if we disagree, respectfully. But just as I'll try his activities at least once (twice to be fair in my assessment), I like him to try mine as well. So for my favorites that are kind of non-negotiable, I mean, real deal breakers...; Orders, CSIs, NCIS, Criminal Minds, etc.), and spontaneous drives on beautiful days with the top down and no particular place to go. I'm also a fan of experimenting with food, flea markets, tourist traps, and sleep with windows open and the fire roaring on a cool night. My perfect match will be mature enough to respect boundaries. I am interested in a long term relationship but am in no hurry to get there. I don't give out my phone number after one ***, but I also don't like to engage in endless *** text messages. I pay a hefty sum to Verizon to talk on the phone and prefer that method of communication once we've agreed we'd like to talk to get to know each other a little before we set up a "date".If any of this sounds interesting, why not ***? An *** a response; winks do not. I still can't believe I'm doing this.;call the LAFD"

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Merna

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I'm fun single and ready to mingle. Lol... that was silly! huh! I love country music, cowboys, nascar. Anything Out doors. gardening, quilting. I'm in the medical field and I work a lot and hard! Anything casual . Lets just see what happens y'all!

  • Elvie

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    If I were to be totally honest here I am not quite sure what I am expecting. I am just trying to figure this out one day at a time after ending a ten year marriage (happily divorced as of Feb). I have two wonderful children who keep me very busy but I miss having time to do things with a partner or adult. I enjoy dining out and movies, seeing new places and keeping busy. I have a lot of great friends where I live and who I socialize with but ALL of them are married so I guess this is how people meet other people these days so I thought I would just give it a try. Honesty is HUGE with me so if you aren't then please don't bother reading any further or contacting me. I am straight forward and mean what I say..reliable in that if I say I will do something it means I will and I am looking for the same . As such, I am not here to waste my time or yours if I don't think we have anything in common or wont make great friends then I may not reply back and please don't take that the wrong way as I wish you well regardless :) Also...because the photos may not show it my hair has many tones and I do have tasteful and colorful tattoos ..soooo..if that offends you I wanted you to know now ;) oh..I also have cats so if you're allergic I'm not your gal either...and lastly...I wanted to just put this out there as well..though I have a good sense of adventure most of the time I myself don't ride on motorcycles...I have no problem and don't mind if you do..but..if having me enjoy this with you is a "must" then again...I'm not your gal but wishing you all the best just the same..I figure it's best to get these things out there up front ;)

  • Jacqualine

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I absolutely hate drama bs. I've seen enough of it and despise it. I'm easy going,and down to earth. I'm simple. I love the mountains and lakes. Drives to anywhere, hide away in a cabin somewhere. Malls suck.They're too busy and full of fake idiots. Car shows rock! I love classic cars and trucks. My dream truck is a ***Chevy C10 short bed fleet side. I really enjoy farmers markets, flea markets, family /friends cook outs, camping, fishing, music,campfires and so much more simple things. I have a grown son and I am a grandma of a baby girl. I love cooking and baking. I like cuddling up and watching a movie. I love animals, too. Wanna know more, ask! Oh,and I'm not into the long political discussions. I do think our government blows, our current and veteran military are whom I will always respect and honor and our so called commander and chief is a total douche!!! So there ya have it :-)

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