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Kate, 49

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About Me

Single Apple looking for my other Apple to become a Pear! OK, I am just testing the water :) But I need you to know that I am taking a break from dating, because I have been injured on ***, and now I am in a wheelchair, I broke a bone on my left foot, and not able to walk, it may be temporary or not, so I just have to wait and see how I am going to heal first... Now that this part is out of the way and in open, this is what I think you need to know about me.The best relationship is not the one that brings together perfect people, but when each individual learns to live with the imperfections of others and can admire the other person's good qualities. Humm..what a real woman wants?In a brief conversation, a man asked me: “What kind of man are you looking for?”I sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye & asking, ‘Do you really want to know?’Reluctantly, he said,”Yes.”I began to expound…“As a woman in this day & age, I am in a position to ask a man what can you do for me that I can’t do for myself?I pay my own bills. I take care of my household needs without the help of any man…or woman for that matter.I am in the position to ask, ‘What can you bring to the table?’”The man looked at me. Clearly he thought that I was referring to money.But I quickly corrected his thought & stated, “I am not referring to money.I need something more.I need a man who is striving for excellence in every aspect of life.”He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, & asked me to explain.I said, “I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because Ineed conversation & mental stimulation. I don’t need a simple-minded man.I need someone who is striving for excellence spiritually because I don’tneed to be unequally yoked…believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipefor disaster.I need a man who is striving for excellence financially because I don’tneed a financial burden.I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as awoman, but strong enough to keep me grounded.I need someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships. Lies andgame-playing are not my idea of a strong man.I need a man who is family-oriented. One who can be the leader andprovider to the lives entrusted to him by God.I need someone whom I can respect. In order to be submissive, I mustrespect him.I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. Ihave no problem being submissive…he just has to be worthy.And by the way, I am not looking for him…He will find me. He willrecognize himself in me. Hey may not be able to explain the connection,but he will always be drawn to me. God made woman to be a help- I can’t help a man if he can’t help himself.”When I finished my spill, I looked at him.He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said,”You are asking alot.”I replied, “I’m worth a lot”. Must be fun, adventurist who likes to go on a weekend or a cruise get away... the best way to know each other... Of course if our first date bring a good vibes and positive chemistry...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Marylynn

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I like to think of myself as being low maintenance and easy going. I prefer jeans and a t-shirt or sweater, though I do like to dress up when the occasion calls for it. Life is too short to be too serious, though I'm practical and serious when needed, I like to laugh, play and have fun. I'm a bit of a home-body and I enjoy cooking & baking, banana bread & chocolate chip pan cookies are my specialties. I spend my free time playing with my son, my dog, and when I have time, working on projects around the house & garden, as well as doing my artwork (yes, I use both sides of my brain), hanging out with my friends, reading, or doing nothing at all. Since I have an energetic six year old doing nothing is a luxury ;) It's the company that matters. I'm a single mom and I have sole custody of my son, so I'm looking for someone who understands this. I'd prefer to chat online, IM or *** bit to get to know someone before we meet. I'm pretty much an open book, no games or drama, and I expect the same.What am I looking for? I don't have a checklist, it's about chemistry and personality. We'll know when we meet. I know that sounds corny, but it's true. I'd like to find someone who is comfortable with himself and who is comfortable with me and my son. Someone who likes playing in the rain and doesn't mind spending a lazy day on the couch once in a while. If this sounds like you, please send me an *** *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. Something casual, meet for coffee or a drink. Get to know each other and see where that takes us.

  • Licia

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I'm a firm believer in honesty, trust, the power of positive thoughts, you get what you give and happily ever after! I have a deep passion for seeing the world! I like the finer things in life and I work hard to achieve them. However, it's the simple things that bring me the most joy...a touch, a look, a kiss, a great big belly laugh, driving home from work and having to pull over because the sunset is so overwhelmingly beautiful that I can't take my eyes off of it!The people in my world are positive, happy, interesting, open minded, self evolving and always striving to be their best! I respect those that can see the light even when they are walking through a dark valley...It's easy to be happy when everything is going your way. Your true self comes out through the tough times.This is where character and integrity are built. Some describe their past as having baggage. I call my lessons, "my badge of honor". I've lived through them and learned incredible, valuable lesson and *** becoming jaded, or angry, or fearful. I have embraced all those moments of growth and I'm more open and accepting than I have ever been in my life! I would like to meet someone who is comfortable in their own skin and lives in the moment with gratitude and a smile, who laughs easily and often (nothing sexier, than a child like spirit) Someone with an open heart and mind, a generous spirit and a true passion for the things that really matter in life. If I met a person with these qualities it wouldn't matter what we were doing...Every moment would be special!!!

  • Lysette

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    How are you doing today? Thank you for your interest in my profile..I m a outgoing young lady with a great fun loving personality honest n has a optistmic look on life..I enjoy but not limited to swimming, dancing, hiking, bike rides, cooking and sewing..wwwaaayyy to many to list..I love to stay active but I m not hyper..and I do enjoy the quite moments life has to offer.I m very family oriented and are important to me.I enjoy all kinds of music, everything from enya, areosmith.Enjoy watch movies some my favorite ones to watch is comedy, action and adventure....and yes the chic flix and romances...aaaawwww! I enjoy spending a nice sunny day at the dog park with my two dogs.Now for you..I m looking for one..just one guy who is willing to take a day at a time and let things happen naturally.Your honest ,have a great sense of humor about yourself /life n able to have fun. You must enjoy and love to be around pets I m looking for what you are inside..if your missing teeth or over weight I will over look..its who you are is what counts.A gentle man that is family oriented is a big plus. If you are interested..sending a notification is flattering&appreciated but please write me a text and tell me something fun or special that you have done...now ya got my full attention! Please if you are a heavy drinker, into drugs, play head games, looking for a one night stand or in a commited relationship..ie married please pass me by. I wish you my best. Oh geez..we will meet up for coffee and if goes well lets turn into our first date by having a dinner and a quite place where we can talk, and decide what we would like to do!maybe hit the mall and walk around ! We can finish our fun evening with a hot fudge sundae yum! Or frozen yogurt?? Aw I m sure we ll figure this one out!

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