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Alida, 46

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About Me

Hi! Thanks for stopping by.I work in an office, so I love anything that gets me outside. I enjoy long walks , either by myself or with someone special. Hiking on the trails brings me next to nature. I have a zest for life and would like to experience all the good and fun things that life has to offer.My friends know me as an honest, responsible, and genuine and fun loving person who has a great sense of humor. I am a positive person and look at life's challenges as lessons from which we can grow and become stronger.I am looking for that special someone to share my experiences with and hopefully the future with as well. I desire a relationship that that is based upon trust, respect and keeping one another focused on our mutual goals in life.If you think this description fits you, then I would love to hear from you! Coffee place, talking walk

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Hassie

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    ~ Its crazy that cyber~dating is just like going for a job interview; Such a sales pitch. After my first attempt to swim around in this pond, I took a break from the "catch and release" that was happening. So Im back to the watering hole to see what might come of it .....Alright , I'll give a few adjectives to describe myself ~. Im intuitive, a good communicator (I've learned the art of listening), Im relational, social, affectionate, sensative, hardworking, opinionated, silly/playful, intentional, adventurous, generous, creative productive, tranparent, forgiving, nurturing. I love the laid back livestyle where i live here on Whidbey Island ~ I enjoy what island living has to offer, kayaking out to the mussel beds to see the resident seals, beautiful hikes along the cliffs at Ebeys Landing, beachcombing and rock picking on our shores. My exercise of choice is hiking, walking, & swimming. Health and nutrition are important to me. Cooking is a pleasure. Its an art form, since I rarely follow a recipe. I have a small garden. Eventhough Im not an "over the top" greenie, i get into recycling, composting and generally attempting to minimize and simplify. its turned into a kind of purposeful hobby. Im also an aspiring writer. Im working on a book and a memoir for my kids. I studied interior design *** My home is a reflection of my creativity.My 2 youngest are still in my nest and my 3 goregous, accomplished older daughters are young adults, living their lives. All of my kids amaze me. wherever we are or whoever we are with, people constantly tell me the impression they've made, and how interesting and enjoyable they are. I could never accomplish a greater goal than to produce and raise such wonderful human beings. I love being a mom ~ I love being their mom!Well guys, thats me in a nutshell ~Please do me the courtesy to 1st be fiscally and relationally responsible ( by that I mean, that past loves and family relationships are reconciled and cleaned up) and please be employed ~ I have that in place and would appreciate the sameNot that I have a criteria that is set on stone. I've never had a "Type" when it comes to men, but there are some qualities in a man that really "get me". ~ a masculine, strong, sexy voice~ the rugged, casual type , but underneath the sweat of his brow, you can see that he cleans up nicely~ the comfortable, cuddly type ~ i feel easy in his presence , & everybody else doesa hint ~ real ladies are responders not initiators. Be the man, take the lead. Let us real women be the woman we want to be ~ if we are interested, we will always respond to every and all of your advances, but we wait for you to make the moves. Its not a feminine qualitiy in my book to pursue, but its to be pursued in the courting stages. More times than not, you guys end up with some trouble from women who take the mans role, but I realize with "womens lib" , its now the norm, and men expect women to be a part of the pursuing process So if you are waiting for the a lady to get a hold of you, make the first move, or keep the ball rolling, you may be missing an opportunity to be with the right kind of feminine women. ~For what its worth~ A cafe or restaurant with a cozy corner where we can visit and get to know each other. if we still would like to let the time linger because things are going well, it would be nice if we were located near an area where we could take a walk around. This is conventional enough so that one of us could leave if its not working out, but if it is, there are other options

  • Gaby

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I'm forty somethin...feel 30 somethin...and want a man who is the same :) I'm really much better in person, but I'll do my best to show you who I am in writing...I'm outgoing and easily make friends...I have a huge heart (willing to share lol) and I can have fun doing almost nothing with the right person. I don't mind a guy who is a little shy or quiet at first, as long as he has a sense of humor and a great personality underneath it all. I promise you will have fun when we spend time together!! Although I have lots of energy and can keep up just fine with my younger friends and family, I have a relaxed side too...I equally enjoy going out for sushi, going out dancing (to hip hop - haha, I'm serious, I love dancing to that!!), concerts in the park, backyard barbeques, out to the movies, golf...(well, minitiature golf, but I would love to learn how to play the real thing...will you teach me?!!), and kicking back at home to take in a movie or watch a football game with you - we can cuddle on the couch, or have a bunch of friends over to watch the game - I'm good either way!! I want somebody who's not afraid to cut loose and have a good time...we don't have to be serious all the time just because we're 40 something!! But at the same time, I want to be able to just relax and hang out at your house or mine sometimes and enjoy each other's company. I like to listen to all kinds of music...not a fan of constant country music or oldies tho...if you are, you may have to work hard to get me to enjoy it - I'll try, but no guarantees!! Again, I want somebody who's fun, not necessarily the life of the party, but somebody with "life" in them!! I like tall guys, 5 ft 10 in or more, but I'd never say no to someone not quite that tall if they had beautiful eyes, or a great smile...the most important thing to me, other than the obvious which is that we have chemistry and a natural attraction, is that we enjoy one another and the time we spend together. This is a *** who I truly am...if it appeals to you contact me...If not, we probably wouldn't be a good match anyway so no worries :) On a first date I'd like to meet you for a drink or coffee and see where it goes from there...BTW I'm not looking for a pen pal, I want a real live man lol...so I'd rather meet you sooner than later to see if there's any attraction and chemistry between us vs messaging back n forth for weeks on end. If you've been on here for a month or more you probably know exactly what I mean ;)WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

  • Karine

    Online

    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I have 2 sons that are grown. I am a big animal lover. I have two cats. I like dogs too just don't currently have one . I grew up around horses, cows and yes even some chickens. I am a country girl at heart. I like to wear my cowboy boots, jeans and my western belt with a nice top. I have a great job of over 17 years. I am a very upbeat person with a great sense of humor. I am a honest, and considerate person. I like to get out and try new things . I am compassionate and can be spontaneous at times. I like to stay active and spend as much time outdoors as I can. I like to travel and check out new places. Dressing down is good at times as well for a night in or a day at the beach. I like to cuddle, hold hands, and kiss with the right person. Stay in and snuggle to a good movie. Communication with a partner is important. I enjoy most kinds of music, classic rock, Christian, Country as well as various others types. I go out line dancing at times as well. Love to go to live concerts. I I love to BBQ and sitting in the back yard to a fire in the fire pit. I'm looking for someone who has some of the same interests as I do. Someone who likes to laugh and have fun. Who takes care of themselves, honest caring and compassionate. Someone who can communicate well and open to share thoughts and feelings. Someone who has time to go out and enjoy life & time to dedicate to building a friendship than see where it goes. Has a good sense of humor and laid back. First date would be go some where and sit and talk over lunch, Dinner or even coffee Just learn to get to know that person and see if there is a connection.

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