SIMILAR PEOPLE
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HassieOffline
Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
~ Its crazy that cyber~dating is just like going for a job interview; Such a sales pitch. After my first attempt to swim around in this pond, I took a break from the "catch and release" that was happening. So Im back to the watering hole to see what might come of it .....Alright , I'll give a few adjectives to describe myself ~. Im intuitive, a good communicator (I've learned the art of listening), Im relational, social, affectionate, sensative, hardworking, opinionated, silly/playful, intentional, adventurous, generous, creative productive, tranparent, forgiving, nurturing. I love the laid back livestyle where i live here on Whidbey Island ~ I enjoy what island living has to offer, kayaking out to the mussel beds to see the resident seals, beautiful hikes along the cliffs at Ebeys Landing, beachcombing and rock picking on our shores. My exercise of choice is hiking, walking, & swimming. Health and nutrition are important to me. Cooking is a pleasure. Its an art form, since I rarely follow a recipe. I have a small garden. Eventhough Im not an "over the top" greenie, i get into recycling, composting and generally attempting to minimize and simplify. its turned into a kind of purposeful hobby. Im also an aspiring writer. Im working on a book and a memoir for my kids. I studied interior design *** My home is a reflection of my creativity.My 2 youngest are still in my nest and my 3 goregous, accomplished older daughters are young adults, living their lives. All of my kids amaze me. wherever we are or whoever we are with, people constantly tell me the impression they've made, and how interesting and enjoyable they are. I could never accomplish a greater goal than to produce and raise such wonderful human beings. I love being a mom ~ I love being their mom!Well guys, thats me in a nutshell ~Please do me the courtesy to 1st be fiscally and relationally responsible ( by that I mean, that past loves and family relationships are reconciled and cleaned up) and please be employed ~ I have that in place and would appreciate the sameNot that I have a criteria that is set on stone. I've never had a "Type" when it comes to men, but there are some qualities in a man that really "get me". ~ a masculine, strong, sexy voice~ the rugged, casual type , but underneath the sweat of his brow, you can see that he cleans up nicely~ the comfortable, cuddly type ~ i feel easy in his presence , & everybody else doesa hint ~ real ladies are responders not initiators. Be the man, take the lead. Let us real women be the woman we want to be ~ if we are interested, we will always respond to every and all of your advances, but we wait for you to make the moves. Its not a feminine qualitiy in my book to pursue, but its to be pursued in the courting stages. More times than not, you guys end up with some trouble from women who take the mans role, but I realize with "womens lib" , its now the norm, and men expect women to be a part of the pursuing process So if you are waiting for the a lady to get a hold of you, make the first move, or keep the ball rolling, you may be missing an opportunity to be with the right kind of feminine women. ~For what its worth~ A cafe or restaurant with a cozy corner where we can visit and get to know each other. if we still would like to let the time linger because things are going well, it would be nice if we were located near an area where we could take a walk around. This is conventional enough so that one of us could leave if its not working out, but if it is, there are other options
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MyrlOffline
Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
Update: I have found a wonderful man on this site... Good luck to all those fishing out there! I'm off the market! :-)I am a relaxed woman, down to earth, calm and patient. Does that mean I don't have any pizzazz or a sassy side? Absolutely not! I have plenty of that! I have come to the time in my life where I am comfortable in my skin and that is liberating! I am the commander of my own ship, but that does not mean I don't play well with others.I am a dental assistant and enjoy interacting with people in the health field. Love my work, but am also always a work in progress.. There's so much to learn and enjoy!I love cooking a good meal, enjoying the process, drinking red wine while the meal is simmering and great conversation, good food takes time!Of course I love the beach and walking on it, but more so on an overcast or cloudy day, when there are no people. Setting out a blanket and reading and listening to the surf is delightful and my kind of simplistic heaven... same goes for a park under a shady tree!Sports are good... love cycling. I usually ride between ***Keeps my heart happy and healthy! And yes, I'm a girl, and I do yoga.. I know it's so cliche!Movies, books and music are great get aways for the mind. For music I rather unconventional for my age... I enjoy the newer stuff more than the older "timed" classics of my generation. I do have an affinity for big band, 20's,30's and 40's music. Classical is timeless! That's a bit about me! I think, unless one has taken some time to get to know the other person, the coffee/tea date is a good start. Usually the setting is quiet, so the two can get to know one another, without too many distractions. After that, whatever the two decide to plan.
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IngeborgOffline
Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 44-54
HI. Thanks for looking me up. I am high energy and fun-loving. I like to workout with my friends, take group exercise classes, travel, hike, hang out in bookstores and at the coffee shop with friends, but I also like my alone time and I can do all the above alone too. I am independent and don't necessarily "need" anybody in my life; I want someone kind, smart and fun to share time in my life. I think that is what sets me apart; I am not looking for someone to "save me," I am looking for someone to enhance my life. I have never been married or had kids and that is unusual for someone my age, but I don't feel like I missed out on that; I don't necessarily need that. I want to share my life with someone else because I feel I am a good and fun person and I have a lot to offer.I am hard a worker; I am a manager of approximately 40 people, and enjoy my work even though, like everyone else, I get frustrated with my job sometimes. But the next morning, I get up and do it again without reget. If I sound interesting to you, drop me a note. I look forwared to hearing from you. YOu won't regret meeting me; what you see is what you get, no games here. First dates are really scary unless you have communicated on the phone or through *** We both have preconceived notions of what we want but have no idea what the other really truly wants.Hmmmm, what do I want, I want to meet you at a casual restaurant where we both feel comfortable. We will order and then the next ***hours will melt away because the conversation flows without any awkward silences. I don't want you to be exactly like me, I want you to be you and you to know who that is and what you want in life. After dinner we take a walk because we don't want the night to end and we finally end the date excited to talk to each other again. We are physically and mentally attracted to each other and we both know it. That would be a perfect night. :-)