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Petula, 48

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About Me

Please DO NOT contact me if you are only interested in a sexual encounter...if you are married or in a relationship...if you are not ready to explore something real and/or perhaps permanent. I am not on here to play games, so don't waste my time or yours.I do not like to let the grass grow under my feet. I can plan a nice vacation and at the same time throw on a hat, jump in the car and take off for the day at the last minute. I am the type of girl who can hang out with the boys during the day and then dress up for a nice night out on the town. I am romantic and like to show off my partner, so public display of affection is a must. I like to dress nice, put a sexy outfit on and have fun with man I am with. "A woman has to be intelligent, have charm, a sense of humor, and be kind. It's the same qualities I require from a man."It takes two to make a relationship work. A wise old man once told me that a relationship is not ***, it is ***. I believe in having fun and that laughter is the best medicine. Life is too short to let the little things get to you. If you like what you read then give me a shout. We can find out more about each other.I am a straight shooter and will tell you anything. Except if I feel it is none of your business...then I won't tell you. But honestly guys...what do you mean by "no drama"? We are females and even us "drama free" types are a tiny bit dramatic. It's in our nature to be this way, accept it. You just have to be lucky enough to find those of us who can tone it down more than others. I can be sarcastic at times, and tend to get in trouble when I am texting and it doesn't come across that way to the recipient. But when you get to know me you will know the difference. I don't have a mean tendancy towards anyone. I stop to smile at children, the elderly and pet any dog that will let me...sucker for all three. I smile or say hello to anyone I pass...why not make their day better if it is not so already?If I don't respond to your *** don't get insulted or think I am a ****. If I don't think it will be a match, I won't respond. Men do it to us, why not the other way around? Don't hesitate to *** you think that we should meet face to face or could just be friends. I can be a great wingwoman. Can't have too many of those...Good luck in your search! For a first date I like to meet for a glass of wine or coffee so we can chat and get to know eachother. If appetizers or dinner are next then that means we have made a decent connection are having a good time.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Arica

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Well, I'm back. After almost 2 years of not coming on here I find myself back. Things do happen for a reason.... . I like the simple things in life, what kind of car you drive wont impress me, the money you make either, it's about the person you are, how you treat me and how we are together...thats what matters to me...l Like the "scruffy" look! I'm looking to meet a great guy, but know along the way I will meet ***not so great guys, I've done this before and it's no fun.....UNTILL, you meet the amazing one that rocks your world. A couple things I'm NOT a big fan of....short guys,UCLA, ugly feet...and I'm sure there's more...lol. Any way, let's chat. Have a FABULOUS day. Oh....and if you're NOT a USC football fan.....well we will just have to talk about that! Stay fabulous y'all ? Somewhere we can grab a drink and talk, get to know each other. Coffee, beer, shots.....you call it..hahaha.

  • Mallie

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    All I'm really trying to do is to live the best life I can, make some friends along the way, and maybe make a difference. I live very simply. I just appreciate all I have and don't want for much. Having said that, I do enjoy indulgences from time to time, like my yearly 2 day retreat. (My profile picture was taken on October 27, ***while relaxing and reconnecting with me.) I am a nurse by profession, which means I am a nurturer to a fault, and sometimes I forget to take care of me. So, I escape from time to time to just "be". Not many can understand that. But they don't have to. It makes me a better person and I understand it. I am a contradiction on most days, and as a Gemini, sometimes hard to keep up with. I don't apologize for being me, but will apologize for how that may make you feel at times. I am honest and I am loyal. My favorite quote is from my favorite film, The Shootist: "I won't be wronged. I won't be insulted. I won't be laid a hand on. I don't do these things to others and I require the same in return."I do believe people can change under extraordinary circumstances and those circumstances cannot be imposed by another person. So, no, I don't try to change people. I accept them for who they are and hope they accept me for who I am. That doesn't mean I wouldn't want to be a better friend or lover. I just know that expectations can really ruin a relationship.I like a man who is polite and protective, but understands that while I am a strong and independent woman, sometimes I need and WANT to be taken care of. Not in a materialistic sort of way. there's a difference between taking CARE of me, and taking care of ME. He can expect the same in return. I want someone who can share some of my interests, but also introduce me to his. It's okay if we disagree, respectfully. But just as I'll try his activities at least once (twice to be fair in my assessment), I like him to try mine as well. So for my favorites that are kind of non-negotiable, I mean, real deal breakers...; Orders, CSIs, NCIS, Criminal Minds, etc.), and spontaneous drives on beautiful days with the top down and no particular place to go. I'm also a fan of experimenting with food, flea markets, tourist traps, and sleep with windows open and the fire roaring on a cool night. My perfect match will be mature enough to respect boundaries. I am interested in a long term relationship but am in no hurry to get there. I don't give out my phone number after one ***, but I also don't like to engage in endless *** text messages. I pay a hefty sum to Verizon to talk on the phone and prefer that method of communication once we've agreed we'd like to talk to get to know each other a little before we set up a "date".If any of this sounds interesting, why not ***? An *** a response; winks do not. I still can't believe I'm doing this.;call the LAFD"

  • Racquel

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    i like 2 go camping hiking rides bikes and spending time with my family. I'm a very fun loving person who loves to laugh! I love hanging out with my friends.and family i want to find a honest good hearted man. i hope to find a man to share the rest of my life with. I'm not looking for just sex or a one night stand.

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