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Carlena, 44

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About Me

Hi,I'm a 40-something woman looking for someone who is looking to meet someone cool and see where it goes. I'm a hard working, caring, intelligent, passionate giving person and I give my all in a relationship. I'm not going to jump into anything, but prefer taking time getting to know someone as I believe a lot of people just jump in without taking the time to know the person and build a friendship which I believe is a solid foundation to any relationship. I have my own business, have a home, a few hounds running around the yard and I work a bit, but my job allows for some flexibility so that I can pretty much do what I want. I'm looking for someone who is honest, trustworthy, intelligent, has a good sense of humor, confident, can dress it up in a nice suit and kick it back in cargos and a t-shirt. I love music of all kinds, love live music, and I would love to travel more as well. I'm not a clubbing person, but I do like to go out for some drinks and a good dinner just as much as being home taking in a good movie with the right person.I'm close to my family, most of them are local and have a great set of friends, just looking for the man who i feel chemistry with, is kind, interesting, mentally stimulates my mind, intrigues me and who is excited about starting that next chapter in life as I am. A first date I would think we should do something where we could sit down and get to know each other and see if there's that "connection," so probably meet for coffee or a drink and see how it goes.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Juliane

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    HHHHMMMM???...Well, i am a better listener than talker. I am spiritual..not religious..not into one night stands..believe honesty is essential..Looking for someone who will make me feel like i am the most beautiful woman in a room!!!!! Love movies..all kinds...love to read...just finished 50 Shades of Grey..reading Hunger Games now...love all kinds of music..Like to think im very open-minded..:-)...and so on.. I like to b surprised...surprise me with something unforgettable!

  • Elizabeth

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I grew up in small towns, and am attracted to having some *wiggle*-room, but i also appreciate being close to the city, but far enough away so i can go back to my little sanctuary...I like..; nights, a yummy cuppa joe, cooking breakfast together, mornings, yoga & pilates, nutrition, giving and receiving massages, touch, new experiences and learning something fun and exciting like a class working on a degree or personal enrichment. I would love to... I want to go everywhere, but those just came to me. Learn to play the guitar (I have one, just need now to take some lessons). Metal smithing would be cool too. Fly fish more. Learn to kayak. Be mortgage free and self-sufficient.. the dream! I do...Watch my mouth.. there's nothing trashier than to hear a woman swear like a sailor (such a turn off for us, too). I don't have addictions to alcohol, don't spend my time in the bars, and don't take drugs of any kind. So if you drink a lot or take drugs or have any other strange addictions, then we're probably not a good match. I thrive on being sober, love the feeling. And it's not because I'm better than anyone else, but I do have certain expectations of myself and it's what I have chosen not to have in my life. And, I'm looking for the same in my friends and love. Update: Yes, I do drink socially, but you won't find me hanging around the bars. I've been getting into wine-making so maybe we can share a glass or three =) And if you don't drink, that's fine too. I wont pressure you...much ;) I am...Pretty well balanced, and grounded. Logical. But, dreamy at times. I prefer calmness and harmony in my life, try to avoid conflicts and try to look at things from an outward perspective. Everyone has their own story and I value that. It is how we've overcome our failures and past that has made us. I believe you are what you think. I choose happiness =) I try to keep my distance from those who are quick to anger or who are just generally unhappy with their life and situation. Another issue that seems to need attention is the anxiety and baggage out there. If you have your therapist on speed dial, it's likely we won't be a match. I'm not a hater, but only happy, positive people please.Not...Defined by politics. I know some people take them very personally, but honestly they're not for me. Religion and Politics are two things I don't delve deeply into. I'm not religious, and I'm not politcal, meaning they don't define me. I am spiritual... nature is my church, the earth is my temple. I'm content with my views and will share them with you if you're curious :)I don't follow the latest fashion designs, labels, pretty low-key and low maintenance. I'm no drama mama, just fun and good times. Life is too short to be grumpy and jealous.Movies and Music...Anything with a message. Action adventure, comedies are good, not a fan of TV. I have one, but don't have cable-- Just a colossal waste of time in my opinion. But, love going to the movies on date night. My music tastes are off the charts.. it varies. If it's good music, I'll listen to it. If it evokes feeling or emotion, usually listen to that too. Although I listen to some rock, I've been listening to Celtic, Spa & Meditation, trail songs, anything different than the mainstream norm.Also, I see a lot of very general, "i like to hike, bike, climb, ski and i love sports" That's great, I like adventure and activity, too, but what is it that sets you apart from the other person? Do you have a talent or special interest or experience to share? I'll share mine with you. I won't even make you ask :) For 10 years, I operated a retail nursery greenhouse on the western slope, and I like to think I have a pretty green thumb, a business mind and a strong connection with horticulture and the land. I would actually get back into it with the ideal partner, but never alone again. I like the idea of homesteading. Holistic arts and healing impress me more than western medicine. If you also take care of yourself, and have a healthy mind and body, and you think we might have something in common, I would love to hear from you =) Somewhere we can get to know each other, like a festival or hike... then ice cream or something cool and yummy afterward. Or let's try a craft beer at a local microbrewery. Please no coffee dates ---what a lackluster way to meet someone. I am ultimately seeking a long-term, monogamous relationship, not necessarily marriage, but just you and I, to share experiences together, travel, new culinary delights and all things fun in life. So, if you like what you see, and you have passion for life, and desire to know more about other cultures, travel and adventures, chat me up and say hello! At the very least, we'd have a travel partner ;)Good Luck to you =)reclaim your ***

  • Andrina

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Well the wine bottle wont talk to you but I will. Wine a little..and you will feel better. Anyway, i do like wine and it does seem to make a moment relaxed and a little daring to have a conversation. Not that I can't do that without wine, but i do like it. It's even healthy for you in small amounts. So if you want to meet and have a glass of wine and perhaps dinner if we can still talk, that would be good. The classy side of me likes to listen to a live jazz or blues at a restaurant. However I like the fun music too. I like all kinds of music old and new. Not so much a country girl or heavy metel, but anything that is truly sung with true emotion and calamity is what I like. Got a bicycle? I've done some fishing but unfortunately I prefer someone else to clean the fish-I would if i had to. Hike, bike, tube, canoe, kayak...love it all. I absolutely love cooking over a campfire. I'm very capable. I'm the persone to "go to" if you forgot something to bring. Ask me more.My goal is to find someone who is on the same page with me and likes to do things. I used to frequent the bars being single and I am so turned off by that whole business at this time in my life. Not that I don't enjoy going out for one here and there once in awhile, but would rather be doing something more useful and constructive. I really want to meet someone iniatially to date and see if it develops into something. I want to give love and be loved-what everyone wants. Well, like I said about the wine, wouldn't mind having one on a date. I promise I will not get drunk or silly like that. A wine tasting would be an excellent idea. But certainly don't need to spend a lot of money on just a date so I would rather keep it simple. Could go out for coffee or a lunch outside by the water (when it is warmer out). I'm pretty new at this so...i don't plan on anyting too extravagant. You could always meet me camping somewhere also. Your ideas?

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