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Maxie, 45
United States, Indiana, Greencastle

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I like to travel and see the world. I love beaches and walking . I love to laugh and I cant stand drama and negativity. I am a very honest and caring person and I am looking for a friendship to start and then maybe a relationship . I cant stand over confident people, it is good to be confident but not to the point were it is overpowering and gives the wrong impression and seems fake ! I like all music ,and I love to go dancing especially to latin music. If you want to know more you will have to contact me. CHOOSE TO ENJOY!Make life more enjoyable by choosing to see more of it as enjoyable. *** assuming that what you’re doing is unpleasant just because everyone else thinks so, see if you can find a way to enjoy it.Much of what makes life unpleasant is your worry that you’re missing out on something more enjoyable. Let go of that worry, enjoy the moment you’re in, and feel the genuine beauty of life that lives within you.The distinction between work and play is nothing more than a judgment call. *** making that judgment, make the choice to put meaning and fulfillment into whatever you’re doing.It’s easy to feel confined by your commitments and obligations. Yet when you choose, it is just as easy, and just as realistic, to feel enthusiastic and empowered by whatever it is you must do.Your situation is what it is. However, the way you feel about your situation is completely up to you.It feels much better to feel better, and it makes you vastly more effective at bringing real value to life. So choose more often to enjoy, and happily experience life on your own enjoyable terms. A life with no problemsThe difficulties are not what make life so difficult. What makes life difficult is trying to avoid the difficulties.When you can accept that life is always going to have difficulties, it becomes much less difficult. When you stop running from the challenges, they become much less challenging.Living a good life is not living a life without problems. Living a good life comes from acknowledging, facing, and then transcending each problem as it comes.If you let the problems get you down, you’ll always be down. Choose *** let the problems get you up, get you going, and get you working on solving them.Choose, in fact, to be thankful for the problems. For in each problem is a new opportunity to create value and to move life forward.A life with no problems is no life at all. Live with the problems, work successfully through the problems, and enjoy a rich and fulfilling life. THE POSITIVE SIDE!Your attitude may be the biggest thing holding you back. And that’s great news, because you can change it very quickly.Other challenges and limitations can take much time and energy to overcome. Yet if your attitude is what’s limiting you, then you have the key right here and now to break free.Your attitude does not define you and it doesn’t really control you. It does, however, exert a powerful influence on the way you see the world.The simple fact is that with a positive, purposeful and loving attitude, you are able to see and to connect with life’s best possibilities. And simply by deciding to choose it, you can immediately benefit from such an attitude.You don’t have to let your attitude be held hostage by negative people, events or circumstances. You can choose whatever attitude you wish, no matter what may be going on around you.So give yourself a powerful advantage. Choose an attitude, right now, that will illuminate the positive side of life, and begin right away to reap the great rewards of your empowering focus. Laughing and enjoying the moment to see if it leads to a second date..............

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

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