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Otilia, 45
United States, Indiana, Greencastle

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Hobbies/activities... cooking, gardening, hiking, outdoorsy type stuff, motorcycles, music, moviesGoals & aspirations... Be the best I can be at all that I do, and strive to be betterMe... I'm happy, positive, loving, adventurous, energetic, but at the same time have a very laid back personality. I have a good sense of humor, with a quick wit, and a bit of east coast sarcasm. I love, love, love to laugh! I am told I am not your average female. I think that has to do with my low threshold for drama, and my level of honesty. Ok, and maybe because I'm kind of a goof. I'm very comfortable in my own skin. Not much mystery in what I'm thinking ;) I stay active and although I'm a busy lady I take care of myself and I like to stay in shape. I'm curvy, but told they are in all the right places ;)I am a keep it simple kind of lady. Life is complicated enough. I love to live life and prefer not to get caught up in the little things... oh, they're all pretty much little things aren't they? Music.....depends on the mood, or the activity. Love christian rock because of the positive message, but I will pretty much listen to anything....especially live!Enough about me!You...hopefully share some, or many of the same qualities and interests. You are not a player, and are not looking for a fling or a one night stand. You're honest. You have values and morals, and integrity means something to you. You are stable and secure. You aren't in the middle of a midlife crisis. You have a sense of humor and don't take life too seriously!Not a necessity, but bonus points if you have a bike, like to ride, and are safe with a passenger, because as stated, I like motorcycles. I don't have one...yet....but I do love to ride!All that being said, if you'd like to get to know me better, message me and let's chat. If I don't respond right away, don't take it personally. I'm probably just super busy. :)Catch ya later...Some after thoughts....Years of experience has taught me that anything worth having is worth waiting for. That being said, I like to take time to get to know someone, and become friends first and see how things go. I am perfectly happy to patiently wait for what's meant to be. Eventually, I'd like to fall in love with someone I can build life with. When that happens, I will give him all the love and loyalty my heart has to offer. However, nothing can be built successfully without a solid foundation. Furthermore, my time is valueable and so is yours. I know who I like to hang with, and I'm sure you do too. If things aren't headed in a favorable direction for one or both of us, its all good. Pushy, over persistant and needy are huge turnoffs and make me really uncomfortable.Lastly, and something I consider trivial, but you may not...when I put this up, my hair was blonde. Today its red. Next week it may be blonde again. I do that sometimes. I get bored. Nothing too radical though, I promise! ;) Call me old fashioned, but I like to get to know someone a bit. I'm not one to want to have the rest of our lives figured out within the next 2 hours. So, let's enjoy talking over a good cup of coffee, or perhaps a walk in the park. If there's something more to explore, we'll get there when we get there. No hurries, no worries

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  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Now that's a storey. -GoodkatWhimsy tid bit- I don't wear purphume because I can't spell it.Update: A friend of a friend said she thought I looked ***yrs. Not quite sure how to take that considering the callow, yet heartfelt assessment of the source- a 21yr old. Guess I'll take it with a grain of salt.Update: I love this time of year. Spring- the buds are budding, the flowers are blooming, everybody is friendly, the flip flops are an option, and the bbq is calling. I'm enjoying the season, and only see more to come.Update: If you ask me how my dating life is going, I will answer non-existent. Otherwise, excellent.Update: If you're using a photo that is not a true representation of who you are, please DO NOT *** I happen to ***, DO NOT reply. The wool over my eyes will soon be uncovered. Not cool. Copy that? Copy that.Question: ( Courtesy of a fella trying to stump me- Got it in 2 tries)- Add 5 to 10 to equal 3.Observation: I realize everyone has unique/different genes. It appears many have the "you-look-old-for-your-stated-age" gene. Translation- there's no effin way you're 38 when you look 51. Just sayingQuestion: If you give 100% of 10%, how much did you give?Update: I don't care what anyone says, minus (any temperature) is too cold. I'm a summer girl.About moi: Playful- it's funSmart- I can do some mathFunny- I make every one laughFriendly- Your friends will love meHonest- Tell it the way it is, with tactCaring- I will babysit your dog..... Edit that- I will walk your dogEmpathetic- See things from your pointSarcastic- Cause I can't punch you in the eyeballImpatient- In traffic..."move your Honda Civic a$$" Note: I don't have road rage, but it's the perfect place to verbally vent. Just looks like I'm singing.- I love to develop great tasting food, therefore I'm a very good cookAttractive- I look good... and youngAbout you:Integrity- You're full of itFunny- Nothing like making a girl laughEmpathetic- You're self-awareWitty- Goes with funny and sarcasticEdgy- Just cause I like thatAttractive- You look good toOther stuff: High emo IQ, you live somewhere other then your mother's basement, you have introduced yourself to the kitchen and not just the *** & box-o-cerealNo, I don't live in a world of magic and unicorns, but optimistic you possess a few of the above attributes..they may even overlap.About us: Let nature take it's course.A little poem: I'm sugar and spice and everything nice- so, bite me!Note: Not all my children are over 18, one is, the other is close enough. Put some ideas into a hat.

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  • Francisco from Greencastle | Woman | 42 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm looking for that one special man to sweep me off my feet. I want a companion, and best friend to enjoy life with. My kids are my priority as you would expect and keep me busy but I still have plenty of free time. I love the beach and anything to do with the water , driving the car a little faster than the rest of the people on the road and turning up the stereo with my favorite songs....Cold beer on a friday night; pair of jeans that fit just right. ( I think all of mine do that ;) ). Love watching football and basketball. Go Bears!Live music venues are great. Brewsters is great place!! Dancing and singing with the stereo cranked up are a must! Liking country music and knowing how to dance to it are high on my "must-haves" list. And if your not good at it need to be willing to learn. I'm not looking for someone to tell me how to live my life but for someone to enjoy it with and make me feel wanted. romance, something unique, dinner and drinks are cool but for a man to plan something special says a lot about him

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  • Asha from Greencastle | Woman | 43 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    ...lol I enjoy reading the: BIBLE, The Confident Woman, and How to Hear from GOD... by Joyce Myer I enjoy meeting new people and trying new things in life Best Features: I LOVE my hair....... About Me: I have doUstream.Tv and done Radio Talk Show Host, as I am starting over now, from being in hospital for awhile. I also do Beauty Pageants..... I am a strong woman that knows what she wants in life and will not settle for anything less, I am looking for an intelligent MAN who has his act together. Must have job, car, and a non-smoker. I want a REAL man Not a PLAYER OF MY LOVE AND EMOTIONS . I enjoy the warmth of a loving man by my side as we become one in body, mind and spirit.... If that sounds like you ... send me an *** so we can enjoy each others company to see how we interact together

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