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Effi, 42
United States, Indiana, Greencastle

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About Me

I Love life and finding out ways to enjoy it more. Always smiling and laughing. Down to earth and easy to get along with. I know who I am but not a bit of arrogance in me.If your looking for someone with lots of personality/spunk/witty/confidence/ smart alack/downtown gal who also enjoys the outdoors/a kind heart/and a good all around gal..you won't be disappointed with me. :)Love the outdoors especially in the summer. Hiking, exploring new places, biking, camping, new restaurants, concerts and open to trying anything at least once. I enjoy going to the gym 4 to 5 times a week and working on getting into the best shape of my life. I"m more on the curvy side but with muscle. :) Would love to travel more and would love to find a partner to have those experiences with. I'm passionate about music! Going to concerts and finding local new bands. Spontaneous is aways fun!Enjoy my friends and meeting new people and going to new places. Great food, great wine, and great company! Have two great kids that keep me busy part time but there is still time for me and the things and people I enjoy Hoping to find a guy that is honest, fun to be around, won't put intimate encounters first, ACTUALLY wants to know me, spontaneous and loves to laugh. The qualities I look for in a man is who has chemistry, knows how to enjoy life, integrity,is open minded, educated, who knows the right moments to be serious, witty, naughty and nice. Someone who is outgoing and no hiccups to be themselves. Communication is a must. *I'm not attracted to Black men. Sorry"Geez, Are there really any men out there that want more then a hook up? I don't want to go to Match. I'm truly wanting a long term friend in my life. Meet for coffee or a drink and see how the chemistry is

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Canadian French Vietnamese History Horror Romance Sport Ice Hockey
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