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I'm new to dating -after a relationship of 19 years.Hopefully You know how to find your own happiness and fulfillment. Im not here to make you complete- I'm here to add to your joy in life. I have zero tolerance for harmful drugs, tobacco, liars, cheaters. Been through it all and never going back. I'm not into head games. I am genuine, open, intelligent, very caring, social, adaptable, camping- opera , family oriented, good mother, well rounded woman...and much more. Im a Gemini.... true to my sign. I'm a real woman with real features, the only fake deal about me is my hair color and my eyelashes. I care about myself in body and mind and soul. I really prefer a man who has faith - in God's word, life, healthy love and in himself. Believes in value and sanctity of a marriage.Doesn't need to rush into anything yet knows inportance of communication and effort.Someone kind, selfless, confident, secure and accepting. Hopefully a man who understands a woman needs love to be nurturing and supportive. Maybe you're someone who's been around through many challenges and made mistakes but learned from them to improve. I do the best I can with what I have, I love what I do, and it gives me freedom to be available for my children. I'm not high maintenance- wish I could be - but didn't come from a privileged life. Although I enjoy quality when I get it. I'm easily pleased and appreciate the little things. Im fairly frugal - as in smart shopping and purchasing. I tip well if deserved because people need that and I know what goes around comes around. Share what you have with those in need. Don't ask me to drive far because I get about 10mpg... I dont take things for granted and i dont feel entitled. Im grateful for what I do have. Like I said- I deal with what I'm blessed with , or not blessed with. I like being near a big city but I prefer country living. And I would definitely be up for moving somewhere greener and cooler someday! (Not for a few years though..kids are in good schools right now). Although I do enjoy looking at Superstition mountains every day. So yes-.I will cry when watching movies...or documentaries. Just roll with it ;-)I'm very empathetic. Love nature and being in fresh clean air surrounded by greenery and life.I have dogs - yes plural! They are a big part of our family and dear to our hearts. They are well behaved and a lot of fun and all different. We also have cats. So if you have pet allergies real bad then you probably can't be a match for me. We have 5 chickens and I love getting fresh eggs every day. Cant beat it!I have two children. I have them all the time right now. So I want a positive healthy ( male) role model for them. Its very important to me. You don't have to be their whole father role, just a good example of a solid positive person. If I haven't scared you off then great! I very much desire to travel the world. Never have been much of anywhere. Except in my dreams. If you're heavily into sports than I may not be for you. I enioy going to games and events however I'm not into watching them on tv. I don't mind if you do that though I'm ok with supporting your interests. I don't watch tv much anymore unless I'm sick. Too busy to have the time. Gotta love the tivo though! I am a very good cook. I would like a man who can rock the bbq!! Definitely casual and in a spot where we can make it short in case we don't click. Love Starbucks. .yeah I know its the most cliche. .. .but I have my gold card and its the best!If we spark then lets go to Disneyland! ...ok..maybe not feasible but you get my point..I'm up for trying pretty much anything / any place. Unless its a casino. ..not my thingThanks for reading. If you got this far - congratulations!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am someone that recently found a serious love to dance and work out at my local gym. I have really gotten into shape and changed my eating habits. I am starting to run and thinking about entering in some races just for fun and motivation. I work long hours but love to be active when I am not working. I am very family oriented and loyal, almost to a fault. I have a strong faith in God and His son Jesus. I love to attend my church and sing praise and worship. I listen to all kinds of music except rap....haven't found much of that genre that I like. I love to read and watch movies for relaxation when I need to be less active. I am told by my friends that I am very tenderhearted....so there it is. I am not interested in cheap encounters so please don't message me if that is what you are looking for. I am looking for someone that will be patient as I learn to date again, but I do want someone that loves to have fun and wants to grow together in whatever life brings our way. If you are in a hurry to get married or move in together then I am not for you. I want to take my time and be sure we are right for each other. I would prefer someone closer to my own age - say anywhere from ***. As they say...happy fishing.

  • Vashti

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Open minded, honest and direct...I know what i want don't like to waste my time and yours....Love to dance i listen to pretty much anything except Jazz unfortunately can't stand it...I treat people the same way i am treated...PS No Pics don't bother i hate not knowing who i'm talking to.... Anything is good as long as we're having a great time...stress free if something comes out of it...it was meant to be if not it's always a pleasure to meet new people.....

  • Arnetta

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am a easy going fun loving person with lots of love to give. I have been single for 8 years now (my choice) and have had lots of time to heal and grow. Now i am ready!!! :)I like all kinds of music ( Jack FM is my fav radio station) My kids are all moved out and I am loving life...have no responsibilities and live like a teenager, lollooking for someone who has it all together both financially and emotionally and wants to find his soulmate...I am a strong and independent woman but with a soft heart and touch... Looking for a tall handsome man who likes to be active and has lots of energy...I don't do drugs but i do smoke pot on a regular basis, I like to dress casual and dressing up for me is jeans and a nice top. Oh though as am getting older the more I appreciate "the finer things in life" ;)If I had the space and the money I would love to have a drum kit and a race car!...am a bit of a tom boy...lolMy main hobby now a days is spirituality, I believe in God and Jesus, but also know there is so much more to it all. I don't like any organized religion, as I find that people with their greed for money and power has corrupted it all!... I also believe in other spiritual stuff, I have many friends that are mediums and I like to play around with taro cards, pendulum's and Runes etc. I "Smudge" my home and self frequently, and I also meditate and believe in reincarnation, and karma! As you can see am a very honest person and will tell it as it is...honesty and consistent communication is very important to me! I do not believe in casual sex and want to really get to know you before going there, I think we should have fun, play and laugh, and I also want to see how you react in different situations, I want to meet your friends and family before going to the next step.(in my last relationship we went to fast and I did not have a chance to really get to know this person before we got married/moved inn together, turns out he was very abusive and had I taken the time to really study him and spoken to friends and family first, I could have ended it much sooner.) I have experienced that sex changes how you feel for a person and I would like to have those feelings even without the sex. Good sex is a bonus but lets face it, not the most important part of a long term relationship! I want to be able to sit in our rocking chair and talk all night long, even when we are too old to "get it on" Friends first lovers second!. lol...if this appeals to you, great! can't wait to hear from you, otherwise good luck fishing! Love and Light...PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME IF:-you still live at home or with "booty call"-you do not have a good job or car-you just came out of a relationship (less than 6 mon)-you have small children living with you or wanting children (am sorry but been there done that, I want all your attention now)-you have mental problems or addictions-you see life with the "half empty glass" life is way to short to spend it with negative people!!-your NOT wanting a long term relationship or prefer "just dating" (am not getting any younger, and want to find someone to grow old with)-your expecting to get laid after ***dates, I really want to get to know you before I share my self that way-and last but not least, your NOT open minded...one of my favourite quotes: “It’s easy to take off your clothes and have sex. People do it all the time. But opening up your soul to someone, letting them into your spirit, thoughts, fears, future, hopes, dreams… that is being naked.” - Rob Bell Impress me! ;)

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