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Tomeka, 44

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About Me

Helllo, im coming out of a 22 plus year marriage,only been divorsed on paper since Nov,***,,,,,,but hes been out of the home for almost 2 years ! I have three wonderful kids whom 2 live at home, and 1 lives with his dad and they are my world! Just want to get out and have some fun, aldult conversation and hofully one day find my best friend and partner for life! Im a very honest, caring, hate liers, im not a girly girl, not fancy, little shy around crowds, i love to laugh and have fun! I love to go to the movies and dine out! lol! I love to go for walks, hold hands and just snuggle up on the couch and watch a movie! I like things organized, my friends call me a neat freak! This on site dating is kinda getting old... so i thought i would give it another shot!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Cayley

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am very passionate about life, whether its work, family or sports. I am a competitive athlete in a sport that most people burn out of by the time they are 14. When I'm not with my family, working, working out, I coach a team of kids. Happiness doesn't come to you; you need to create opportunities in which happiness will be there.I'm not willing to settle, nor should you. If we meet and there is chemistry, it needs to be from a physical standpoint but just as important there needs to be an emotional and intellectual connection. I am looking for someone with whom I can feel passionate about and they feel the same about me. If it’s not there for both people, that's ok. Whoever said that finding someone special would be easy? I can wait as long as necessary to find that special someone who makes my heart beat faster when we see each other. When you call or text me, I want to feel excited to hear from you. When we get together I want to feel excited to be with you...whether it’s just hanging out at home cuddling, watching a movie, going out to dinner or hanging out with friends. And just as importantly you should feel the same about me. Whatever we do...let's have fun!I've been through a lot in life and I still wouldn't change any of it. I view it all as an opportunity to learn more about myself. I am always looking to learn more about life and more about myself. I am a really positive, optimistic, driven and very even keeled person. .Complacency breeds boring so I like pushing my boundaries...makes life much more exciting and worth living.My three kids are my best accomplishment. I strive to ensure that they become confident, intelligent, optimistic and passionate people. They are all in High School and Middle School so it does make going out much easier.I am pretty happy with where I am in life but would love to have someone to share it with. I'm looking for that special someone to share quiet moments with as well as exciting adventures. I would love to go Skydiving, hot air ballooning, travel, repelling, etc...I'm up for an adventureIf we click, it won’t matter what we do because spending time together doing anything will be enjoyable. Someone who is athletic lives a healthy lifestyle and has a real zest and a real passion for life. ***Someone who is secure and confident with who they are and who is a good communicator. ***I value honesty and integrity above all else.*** Because I am extremely athletic, I need a partner who is also very much into athletics and staying fit. This isn't just to look good, but because it is part of who you are. Work hard, play hard, that's my motto! I believe that every opportunity, either positive or negative, is an opportunity to learn something and grow. Drama, Comedy, Mystery, Romance...it's all good.Food: I could live on Sushi and homemade chocolate chip cookies!.The five things I could never do without 1. My family and friends2. Sports/Working out3. Romance4. Music5. Ocean/BeachIdeally I am looking for•Ages ***always exceptions)•Near me (no more than an hour)•TALL ...that means 5'10 or aboveYou should message me if you actually made it this far in my profile and...You are ATHLETIC and SPORTS MINDED, smart, funny and passionate about living your life and you have to like kids and dogs! Honesty and integrity are SUPER important to me. Communication is key.**Contact me if you are serious about meeting. Also you must have a picture. After all this is a place where we are here to meet people and physical attraction is a critical component.*** Drinks, dinner... Anywhere where we can talk to see if there is a connection

  • Arnetta

    Online

    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am a easy going fun loving person with lots of love to give. I have been single for 8 years now (my choice) and have had lots of time to heal and grow. Now i am ready!!! :)I like all kinds of music ( Jack FM is my fav radio station) My kids are all moved out and I am loving life...have no responsibilities and live like a teenager, lollooking for someone who has it all together both financially and emotionally and wants to find his soulmate...I am a strong and independent woman but with a soft heart and touch... Looking for a tall handsome man who likes to be active and has lots of energy...I don't do drugs but i do smoke pot on a regular basis, I like to dress casual and dressing up for me is jeans and a nice top. Oh though as am getting older the more I appreciate "the finer things in life" ;)If I had the space and the money I would love to have a drum kit and a race car!...am a bit of a tom boy...lolMy main hobby now a days is spirituality, I believe in God and Jesus, but also know there is so much more to it all. I don't like any organized religion, as I find that people with their greed for money and power has corrupted it all!... I also believe in other spiritual stuff, I have many friends that are mediums and I like to play around with taro cards, pendulum's and Runes etc. I "Smudge" my home and self frequently, and I also meditate and believe in reincarnation, and karma! As you can see am a very honest person and will tell it as it is...honesty and consistent communication is very important to me! I do not believe in casual sex and want to really get to know you before going there, I think we should have fun, play and laugh, and I also want to see how you react in different situations, I want to meet your friends and family before going to the next step.(in my last relationship we went to fast and I did not have a chance to really get to know this person before we got married/moved inn together, turns out he was very abusive and had I taken the time to really study him and spoken to friends and family first, I could have ended it much sooner.) I have experienced that sex changes how you feel for a person and I would like to have those feelings even without the sex. Good sex is a bonus but lets face it, not the most important part of a long term relationship! I want to be able to sit in our rocking chair and talk all night long, even when we are too old to "get it on" Friends first lovers second!. lol...if this appeals to you, great! can't wait to hear from you, otherwise good luck fishing! Love and Light...PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME IF:-you still live at home or with "booty call"-you do not have a good job or car-you just came out of a relationship (less than 6 mon)-you have small children living with you or wanting children (am sorry but been there done that, I want all your attention now)-you have mental problems or addictions-you see life with the "half empty glass" life is way to short to spend it with negative people!!-your NOT wanting a long term relationship or prefer "just dating" (am not getting any younger, and want to find someone to grow old with)-your expecting to get laid after ***dates, I really want to get to know you before I share my self that way-and last but not least, your NOT open minded...one of my favourite quotes: “It’s easy to take off your clothes and have sex. People do it all the time. But opening up your soul to someone, letting them into your spirit, thoughts, fears, future, hopes, dreams… that is being naked.” - Rob Bell Impress me! ;)

  • Fatimah

    Online

    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am a fun, caring, honest person who put family first! My children are grown and on their own but are still a big part of my life.I have two dogs a great job that I love. I am a bit of a sports fan but I do not have a head full of stats! I love to go to live games but watching them on TV with good beer and some nachos is a great day as well! I like movies and concerts and many genres of music... mostly listening to country these days. I enjoy the outdoors, fishing, hunting, hiking, and camping. A good first date would be very casual, maybe a cup of coffee and conversation.

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