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Aubrie, 40

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Hi, I am a very curvy, intelligent, self sufficient woman, with a very generous heart. This has burned me in the past, so take it easy on me. I am very easy going and hate drama or conflict so don't bring it. I have an amazing ability to see the good in all that life has to throw your way, you can’t dwell on the negative or you will never be happy. I LOVE to laugh!! I'm quick witted and have an awesome sense of humor... probably one of my better qualities...hence the tomboy part of my headline :) I was a very rough and tumble kinda girl growing up, I can dress up, (would love for a guy to pick out an outfit for me) but I am the most comfortable casual. I'm so glad I don't have to dress up everyday for work :) Must haves in a partner: Intelligence, common sense, trust worthiness, loyalty, honesty, patience, great sense of humor, integrity, strength both mentally and physically, non judgmental, love animals, love children, love sex ;) and oh yeah single. Sanity is a must as well. If you are set in your ways and have no ambition in life please don't even bother me. If you do any drugs other than ***then I'm not interested either. If you are immature and don't know how to have an adult conversation or relationship don't waste my time.Being a single mom of four kids (I always have the youngest, the older three go to their dads a few days a week) can be pretty crazy but I have goals and I'm determined to achieve them. I have lived a pretty full life for my age. I have a lot to offer the right guy. My kids are my priority and I am very family oriented.I know how to treat a man and I deserve to be treated properly. I don't need to have a man "take care" of me, I'm capable of taking care of myself and my four children (3 boy,12 boy,13 girl,15 boy). I have a nice house on 20 acres, where I raise/train dogs and have horses. I like my toys and tools :) I am into muscle cars, I own three. I used to drag race motorcycles and cars. Love snowmobiling and dirt bikes/ATV's (have many). I am probably not like any other woman you have ever met and I’m proud of that, I’m very unique. Best compliment I ever got from a guy was "You are very intriguing and you are the only woman I have ever met that has true common sense." Meant alot more to me than the eye/smile/body compliments...not that I don't like compliments lol I want someone to want me as a person, not because I have big tits and a nice ass, because that kind of attraction fades. To be honest I have always been attracted to guys that are taller than me, nice smiles/eyes and are exceptional at something I'm interested in....muscle cars, dragracing, carpentry, dogs, horses, motorcycles, and hopefully have bigger muscles than I do lol. But I am open minded to a point.I want a strong, supportive man who is not intimidated by an intelligent, strong, independent woman. I realize I have a lot of baggage, but it is how you deal with the curve balls in life that makes you into a strong person. I have been pretty candid with my description, but that is how I am…like I said before I’m not going to settle this time around. I know the ONE is out there somewhere, are you HIM?Good luck guys :)I apologize in advance if I don't get back with you right away or I answer with short replies...probably means I haven't gotten on my computer and I am using my phone.FYII met someone on here about three months ago and hit it off right away, deleted my profile and thought things were going great. We never had a disagreement, had a blast together, etc. Well out of the blue he decided that I wasn't the girl for him without giving me any reason. He even broke up with me though a text message. Positive out of this was I finally realized that I am capable of caring about someone again after my past relationships....negative is that I have no idea what I did wrong and it is driving me crazy. So if you are one of those guys that have no balls and run then don't waste my time either. The best first date I ever had was going to bundy hill

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Verina

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am a strong, intelligent, independent woman. I am highly motivated and always on the go. If you find me sitting still, you better check my pulse. I always set high expectations for myself and I expect the same of those around me. I am big on integrity, honesty and trust. I am an extremely passionate person. I work hard, play hard and love even harder.I currently work for one of the local school districts as a librarian. Please don't delete my profile yet!!! I'm not the "Ssshhhh...be quiet" librarian that you might remember from school. I am of the smart, well-read, sexy variety! In all seriousness.... I have an immensely rewarding job which provides me financial independence and an opportunity to work with kiddos everyday. It's really a great gig. I am truly blessed. (I'm a bit directionally challenged, so if we decide to go on a date, you might spot me a few extra minutes...just saying.) I am really good at fixing and repurposing things....well...most of them), communicating, painting, telling stories, making new friends, being silly, cooking and baking, making kids laugh, flirting and just being me.I have spent the last two years discovering how to live and love life as a single girl again. It's been quite an adventure. The last time I participated in the dating scene I was carrying around a cell phone the size of a small shoe box. YIKES!! Needless to say I have learned an awful lot on this journey. I stand firmly in the belief that it is better to be single than to be in a bad relationship. I'm not in the frog kissing business nor am I looking for perfection. I am just hoping to find that match that is a perfect fit for me. My goal is to eventually find someone that I can love, nurture, honor, respect and enjoy...someone with outstanding character and a belief system grounded in faith....someone with a positive attitude who shares the same passion for life as me...someone who will love me for my strengths and my struggles. I, of course, will reciprocate in kind.With all that being said, you should message me if..... what I had to say about myself made you smile and you want to learn more about me.. You are looking for a sweet girl with a kind heart, infectious smile and great dimples...You are honest, witty, intelligent and a little silly...You love to kiss and hold hands...You have kids, love kids, do not want any more kids and are not planning on giving yours away...You have strong communication skills...You love to grow as a person and learn new things...You love to travel...You believe sending a pretty girl flowers after an amazing date is a good thing to do...You like to get flirty text messages... You like homemade cookies...You look sexy holding a paintbrush...You are potentially interested in being with a woman who will spoil you rotten in every sense of the word...You still believe in true love...You would enjoy showing a new girl around town... You are curious to see what a hot librarian really looks like (we really do exist!)If you think we would be a good match, I would love to hear from you.... Tell me your story.... We librarians love a great story...Disclaimer... If you are a slug, (particularly a slug of the charming variety)...I wish you the best, but please move along.... I have had my fill. Might I suggest, however, that you e-mail the girl with the profile that is next to mine. She told me to tell you she thinks you're really cute.

  • Philippa

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I can be very girly-girl, but I am also not one to wait for someone else to do anything for me. I'm incredibly handy around the house (and I not only know how, but am not afraid to change a flat). I like to be treated like a lady, but not like an invalid. I'm just as comfortable getting dressed up for a night on the town as I am throwing on jeans for an evening of pool and wings. I love to spend time out, and I love a quiet night at home too (okay, starting to sound a bit cliched, I'm going to have to work on this a bit). I love to read, like to cook and hope to take some photography and dance classes (seriously lacking in rhythm, but what the heck). Live music, comedy, and general tomfoolery are big hits with me. Anywhere I'm with good friends is my favorite place.If you are ultra conservative, we will probably not get along. I have an inappropriate sense of humor (though I usually know when to keep it reigned in) and I do some body paint modeling on occasion (in art settings, not clubs) and I love it. I think the human body is beautiful and an excellent canvas for art, so if this is going to bother you, don't e-mail me!While I'm not in a huge rush to get into a serious relationship, I wouldn't be opposed to it with the right person. I've had "good enough", "fun for now", and even "almost perfect", and now I'm ready for absolutely amazing, though am not opposed to just meeting some good people until then. We're all looking for different things, but please respect that I'm not looking for casual sex at this point in my life, nor am I just sitting around hoping that some young stud is going to pick me for his "older woman" phase. I prefer to keep these very casual and low pressure. Meeting for a drink first to see if there is any chemistry is a good plan. If all goes well, moving to dinner or something along those lines is great.

  • Shaquila

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I would like to find someone to have fun with and hopefully it turns into something more. In my free time, I enjoy spending time with friends and family, eating out, the theatre and movies, wine tasting and a fun time at the beach or pool with friends. I am a hardworking business woman... mother to a wonderful son... and looking to find new adventures with someone! Lunch, dinner or drinks... I am pretty open as long as there is an opportunity to have conversation during the date. Physical attraction goes a long way but then there has to be another level ....

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