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Elwanda, 38

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About Me

PLEASE DON'T BE CREEPY! I enjoy travel, the sun, BBQ's, cooking, concerts, dining, wine and just fun.I think of myself of someone who has range who loves to dress up or be very casual and shoot pool at a dive bar. Variety is important to me.I really am trying online dating which is a stretch for me because I would like to meet someone and I'm not hanging out in bars often.I do meet men every day just in business and life...but I just don't feel like I have met anyone interesting in awhile. I'd love to be impressed. I want to meet someone that I can be excited about. I am NOT a fling or one night stand kind of girl at all. If your just a pretty boy looking for a hook up I'm not interested.I appreciate someone with a work ethic, I have a good job and am financially secure. Would expect the same in a match. I do like to travel, restaurants and enjoy nice things so slackers are not attractive in the least. I like motivated and educated people who make things happen. I have successful friends and I like to be around thriving environments.I like all types of music...I've been in the art business for most of my career before going into sales and marketing. The art industry explains the life I love; creative, fun, bright, energetic, open.I believe fitness is sexy and I like a man who takes care of himself. I like tall men. Handsome is a plus. :) I'm attracted to entrepreneurs more than those who work for others...I just admire the risk and vision.I am often approached by younger men which I admit can be flattering but I am really looking for a man my age. I like a refined, smart, witty man who takes the lead. I tried the much younger thing and it was drama which I detest. Really looking for a man not a boytoy.As a woman, I enjoy the girlie things and am ultra feminine. I am a bit old school and love to cater to my man a bit with cooking and staging sexy environments for fun. I love to be playful and have fun in dating. I love to laugh and really love family and quality time. I attend church regularly but am not a christian fanatic but enjoy the lessons and positive messaging to start the week.I have two children who I take great pride in. If you have an issue with children, I am not your girl.My son is nearly 13 and honor roll and I have a baby girl 19mos old. Probably dinner...sushi & sake. Whatever really. I will meet you at the place we choose.I look at a first date as meeting as a friendship with no expectations or pressure. We are who we are.I do believe there has to be a physical attraction to have a 2nd date however I do take things slow.I don't like long first dates. I prefer them short and sweet. 2 hours max.I'm a very busy girl so I just like first dates to be about an introduction, feel things out.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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