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About Me

I am new to this. I have never had to deal with dating men I do not know. Sorry but this is very new to me and I am not used to having an "interview" for a date. I had been married for 17 years which means I got married at 19 years old. I am not the most beautiful but I have alot to offer. Shyness takes it's toll on me. I can say this. I am always a lady in public. I am a peaceful person, slow to anger. If you think you can handle me but not try to control me", then I may be interested. I think the days of shilvery are over. At least that has been my experience. I am the girl. Men that want to be taken care of are not one of my responsibilities. Please if you want to meet me, send me a message *** simply pushing the "meet me" button.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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