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Alena, 33

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About Me

Hi, I am Mellisa(pronounced mel-leesa). I have an 8 year old son, who is my life and he will always come first. Just needed to make that clear. I work nights and work hard to make sure he has everything he needs, which has made dating sorta difficult. I want to try dating again if anyone would be willing to bear with me and understand that my available time varies. I am a woman with curves and I am fine with that. I will not change to please someone else. I would rather be who I am than a skinny b**** with a bad attitude. At the end of the day, you can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.I like to laugh and I appreciate anyone that has a sense of humor. If you have a witty and sarcastic sense of humor, we will get along just fine. I love music and I listen to just about everything. My favorite genre is classics rock and my favorite band is the Beatles. I am such a huge nerd for them. Since I am a mom, I also watch cartoons. I have taken a liking to Adventure Time and Regular Show(I know, it's kinda lame).That is the short story about myself. If there is anything else you want to know, please feel free to ask. I welcome all questions. I don't like doing the dinner thing. Honestly, who can carry on an intelligent conversation with someone when they're stuffing food in their face?Let's try a coffee and go from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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