Total users: 61,125,912 Online users: 219,766
Tibby, 36
United States, Illinois, Waterloo

Offline, last seen Thu, 29 Jan 2026 13:59:15

About Me

Well I'm perfectly normal. I have a head, shoulders, knees and toes, knees AND toes, eyes and ears and whiskers on my nose. Well, maybe not the whiskers on my nose - on my face yes! But I think you'll find that I'm super-sweet and honest and cool and everything you need in a man. So like, errr, let's go out and stuff!!!Nah? OK I'll get down to the tawdry business of writing all about me!I have, on occasion, been called an "individual", "unique" and "a bit of a nutter" in equal measure. I've never really got to grips as to whether these are compliments or criticisms?!Soooooo, I work in publishing but it's not as good as it sounds, especially in the Twenty-first Century. I travel round the South loads for the job (I avoid The North like the plague, obviously). Don't actually hate my job at all, but it is a means to an end. My real love is theatre. I act, direct and produce plays for a local theatre company and it's all rather lovely, sweetie- I do it because it's fun and creative and that's a turn on for me. It takes up a huge part of my spare time to be honest. Consequently I'm rarely in and never watch TV at all these days. I tend to direct two or three plays a year and lately I've been trying my hand at adapting scripts with a view to write my own. I absolutely live for this stuff! Eventually I'd like to take the huge leap into film-making.Music is a huge part of my existence. In fact, when I prepare to direct a play I spend about three weeks just thinking about tuneage, and then panic because I've done very little reading of the old script, which is always a regret because that's the whole point when you come to think of it really isn't it?! I seek the alternative. That applies to most of my artistic pursuits really. I'm the sort of person who deliberately celebrates different and alternative view points. I guess I'm a fairly recalcitrant type of person and therefore need stimulation that is not of the norm.With music these days I do tend to go electro. Ooh yeah! And I own a Moog. I don’t understand it, but it excites me because it makes all sorts of very odd sci-fi like sounds. I love to dance like a massive camp bear, it's wonderfully liberating. Live music is the best, although I fear that most festivals these days are just cynical commercial money-making schemes.Be sure to know that I read (a dying pastime), like sports, but am a bit of a geek too. Particularly geeky when it comes to film and cinema. Explosions are silly. And I just can't understand this whole 'adults going to watch super-heroes thing'. It all seems rather absurd to me.; Oh and Kubrick too.I am:a man (cripes chief, it's true; meat and two veg!),a rather outspoken leftie,a hater of fascists (I include Tories in this bracket), racists, misogynists, homophobes, climate change deniers,an atheist (vehemently so),a seeker of the alternative,a person without an ego,a lover of Art galleries,a fan of desert cats,a guilty meat eater,an on/off, on/off self-loathing smoker,an amazing singer trapped in a rubbish singer's body,the sort of massive jessie who cries when I read books, watch films, listen to music, and see theatre,a fan of largely unknown Victorian Gothic Revivalists,a lover of slow, long kisses, and general smouchiness,a drinker of espresso,very uncomfortable with celebrity culture. In fact I detest it!-versa,a reader of lots of books at once without necessarily finishing any,a fan of poncey Art films,a huge believer in the notion that a photograph can change the way people think,a believer in human rights,a campaigner for Amnesty International,a supporter of difference,someone who really dislikes narcissism and egotism. Blah! These are such dull qualities,an entirely non-judgemental person (except when it comes to fascists!),liable to the ocassional rant about Society,A graduate of Architectural History and am a bit geeky about buildings, especially Victorian Gothic Revival - my absolute favourite!A geek generally,a night owl,a rubbish getter out of bedder (because I'm a night owl),a thinker,a drinker of real ale,a good accent copyier,a starter of inappropriate conversations,typical boy because I laugh at farts and pooh conversations, and words that sound vaguely sexual,good in someone else's crisis,rubbish in my own crisis,a good talker,a good listener,tactile,a bit too needing of affection sometimes and it annoys me because it makes me feel like a wuss,painfully honest,impossible to embarass,somone who goes to the gym for a few months, then stops for a few months, then goes for a few months, etc,a rather recalcitrant person,an avid Radio 4 listener,a boy with a thorn in his side,a monkey... but aren't we all?If none of this works for you then, well, I do have dimples! They've managed to help me out of all kinds of situations in the past! Meet at a decent boozer (serves good real ale, wine, scotch and/either/or brandy - I'm a boozing traditionalist), talk about stuff and thingamys, go somewhere nice for a meal, preferably with a view, and perhaps a gig, see a comedian, or something depending on how we're getting on. Or just home if you think I'm a t**t!If you think that I'm all right then, wahey! The World is your oyster! Or maybe just the night, or perhaps next week same sort of time?! I don't know really, maybe you should decide; you're the grown-up female here! We're all old and experienced enough to know that blokes are "always available", as it were, and on these sensitive issues, it's really up to the woman isn't it?!Maybe a good snoop around a decent Art gallery too if it's a daytime date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Caribbean German Mexican Turkish Social Networking
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Orville from Waterloo | Man | 40 years old | Pisces
    Orville

    Offline

    Man. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 37-47

    hiya am fun loving guy who is looking for someone to share fun times with and hopefully leading to more. most of my mates are settled so its not always easy to meet new people so i thought i would give this a go. only here because thats where the job took me but that will change sometime. am very happy cheerfull guy , few words to describe my personality would be cheeky, little sarcastic, caring, adventurous, loving, reliable, laidback,faithfull. impulsive probably a few more but theres just a few. looks wise is a hard one as i have no one main image in my head a pretty face and a cute smile is a great start. like a few sports and go gym quite a bit so sporty type be great but ok if not her thing. Meet somewhere for a coffee / drink in a nice bar somewhere so we can chat and see how we get on.

    Chat
  • Hue from Waterloo | Man | 40 years old | Sagittarius
    Hue

    Offline

    Man. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 37-47

    Looking for an attractive, fun, professional single girl with a curiosity about the world.If ***, soaps and coffee rock your world then we are probably not compatible.Integrity and honesty are important to me as is the ability to be able to be open and discuss with each other.Some say that i can be a moany old git ... and its true I can be ! ...although I can also be fun and exciting.Would like to think theres more to life than a house and family.... which would be lovely by the way.Sorry to say that im not a foodie.Lets chat on here and see where it goes... Oh and the long hair... Oh yesss..Motorsport, BTCC, F1 DIY Design Architecture.TravelHomeland Wine gumsEccles cakesOh no...Coffee shops Good booksRed WineReality shows... Ps im a Scorpio if that matters....not sure why meetville says other. Probably best if it isn't a coffee shop. Maybe a quiet..ish pub or Bar by the river.

    Chat
  • Nogah from Waterloo | Man | 40 years old | Libra
    Nogah

    Offline

    Man. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 37-47

    I AM 39 YEars old. ive been there and back. i dont and wont play games. ive made mistakes im not proud of but have learned to live wii am a family man have 3 kids that are my world.noone or nothing comes before them.im a sports person love to play and watch very active in youth baseball. i have a passion for reading and music. country being my fav.im looking for friendship first. dont want nothing to fast. i am very sweet and vey loveing have as much fun watching a movie and cuddleing as i do anything...... i work alot and want someone that would understand this.when im not working that special person would be the center of my attention if you want to knnow more you know what to do........ Afternoon dinner a long walk then head to the beach sit and talk and watch the sunset..

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: