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Ithai, 39
United States, Illinois, Virginia

Offline, last seen Fri, 26 Jun 2026 14:24:00

About Me

In general I'm a pretty laid back yet confident, salt of the earth, non-assuming, and fun guy that can definitely keep the conversation going... especially around my friends and tennis buddies. If you were to ever just bump into me at work (get it "bump into" - ladies that is why you should always carry protection, just in case! KIDDING!!! :) ), at a social function, or even on the street, that would probably be your first impression. That said, I think it is important to market myself here, less I risk blending in with the thousands of other Joe-averages on this site, as this is not a natural situation in which people meet. In some ways I am average and in other ways I excel, a glimpse of which you may see if you continue reading.I believe chemistry is a vital element to the sustainment of a special relationship; when it's truely there you just know when it's right.I bring to the table mental, emotional, physical, and financial strength (as a self-made millionaire I'm comfortable, although said status doesn't mean what it did in my parents generation, as I still need to build more wealth before I can comfortably retire) combined with a kind, gentle demeanor coupled with a great, slightly off-..My friends and family would describe me as determined (in a good and reasonably flexible way), energetic, witty, enthusiastic, opinionated, bright, caring, passionate and possessing strong values. You will find that I challenge and push myself in all areas of my life but also like to be challenged and inspired by others.As a downtown professional with my own house, yard, and physical being to maintain my weekdays are generally very busy. Weekends however, are another story - plenty of tennis coupled with unstructured time to enjoy friends and that special someone.Go ahead and take a chance... as the old saying goes, you miss 100% of the opportunities you don't explore! Start with a quick coffee date, go for a walk and see where it leads... the sky really is the limit!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Cricket Sailing
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