• Sullivan
• Illinois
• United States

Online

Man. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

Looking for: woman. In age: 37-47

As a person I like to think of myself as confident but not****. I am a very hard working dedicated person. I am incredibly honest and trustworthy. I would expect my match to have the same qualities. That is extremely important!!I understand that there's a time to give and be loving and understanding. I also believe in standing up for what I believe and not being walked on. I'm always there for my friends and loved ones. I don't run from adversity. I don't care what people think of me because I believe in being the best man I can be. I was raised by a single mother. Watched her get hurt many times. Made me believe how important it is to treat a woman right. My mother also taught me how to have inner strength and not to get walked on. I've had to overcome some shitty things in life and in doing so it's made me a much stronger man.When I'm with someone special I like being spontaneous, adventurous, romantic, surprising them with little gestures, sensual, playful, and basically having that type of fun you see two people who just met in the movies having! Someone to laugh with, hang out with, be spontaneous with, and have fun with! I'm looking for someone who has similar qualities and desires, someone whom I can connect with. I feel there has to be mutual physical attraction for there to be good chemistry between two people. So being fit and looking good are important, as well as sensuality and affection. Something simple, drinks and conversation?

• Sullivan
• Illinois
• United States

Online

Man. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

Looking for: woman. In age: 37-47

I'm a divorced, single dad looking for an honest, professional, classy, athletic woman. I tried this meetville thing about 6 months ago. I met some great people (and others) but nothing permanent. I guess that it's time for round 2...ding ding. I know. I need to smile more in my pics. Yes, I do have teeth. Nice ones too I might add. By the way, if you need braces, get some or if you have bad teeth, it's a deal breaker for me. I've met some otherwise pretty women that looked like they were shot in the face by a slingshot with two packs of Chic-lets.Now, let me cut myself from most of your auditions. The thousands of profiles that say, "Looking for Mr. Right" or something of the sort are comical as well as common. There's quite often something in those profiles along the lines of "If you're looking for a hookup, look elsewhere." Are you trying to convince yourself of something? It's OK; we already know ;). Why would one need to say that? Shouldn't that be standard without having to say so? I applaud you for attempting to change your ways though. ;) If you need to tell men that you're looking for Mr. Right on a dating site and that you don't do hookups, it's understandable why you've been a failure in 100% of your relationships. Don't tell me the obvious ladies. Of course, we're all on a mission of self improvement. Originality would be a good start. On the other hand, I've probably been a failure in 100% of mine because I state the truth when one is expected to say, "Why yes dear, you look amazing in that dress." Fitness and health is very important to me so if you wear black in an attempt to look thin or can't wear a bikini in the summer (without looking ridiculous), then we probably won't make it past a date or two. If you take that little pride in yourself, then how do you care for the one you love?No, I'm a nice guy really! Really, I am! On somewhat of a serious note, I just say loosen up. Don't take everything so **** serious (you see that I really do). Look out for the less fortunate. Be kind. Will it really kill you to feed a homeless person sometime rather than look at them like they're subhuman? Don't be so self righteous or hypocritical. Help look out for those who can't always look out for themselves. If you can logically deduct any of the gibberish that I just spouted off, you understand me and we're already ahead of the power curve. If not, even better. I saved you and me a ton of time. Send you a dozen roses at work with our itinerary, pick you up in a limo with another dozen roses, kiss you on the cheek and take you to your favorite restaurant. We then go walking in the moonlight as if we're the only people in the world....... That's right. Only in the movies, not on my watch. Haha ;)

• Sullivan
• Illinois
• United States

Online

Man. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

Looking for: woman. In age: 35-45

Ok here's the dealio., I'm 38 and I have a a 10yr old daughter that I freakin adore!I roll with the punches and see where it takes me., I like having that freedom cause a lot of people don't. I have direction, But I'm also gonna have fun gettin there.I'm looking for that some one that wants to experience that long journey of life.You know where you can stop and smell the roses.., At our own pace!... :)You Have nothing without your Family and Friends.., Very important part of my life. I like the simple things in life. Like Family gatherings, Amusement parks, BBQ/Bonfires,(but who doesn't***Wheel drivin, Muddin, Paintball, Bowling, Movies, Hell I even like going to flea markets/swap meets.But thats just the tip of the iceberg. Anything worth an adrenaline rush is worth my time. I got some culture in my genes, And I intend to use them. LMAO... That sounded more freaker than I intended..But hey!.,I give respect where respect is due, But I also know how to bust someones chops. But damned if I don't help that little Ol'lady across the street! Only cause the lights green, And we need to go!!!... :) Just playin. I do enjoy doing things around the house and I'm a big fan of D.I.Y., Common sense is the key!And I pinky swear to you, I'm not gonna go all x-rated on you. I can actually hold an intelligent conversation with some one that doesn't revert back to how awesome I am.I wanna hear about you! I want someone that opens my mind. I love to be there when ever I can.If I like you!, I got your back on whatever it is that's troubling you.NO NEED TO READ ANY FURTHER UNLESS YOU JUST WHAT TO KNOW ME EXACTLY... THIS IS ME TO A T....All pure Sagittarians (November 23 to December ***have enormous potential, but by no means all of them fulfil the promise they display in early life. This is because one of the characteristics of the sign is a happy-go-lucky attitude, a carelessness about the consequences of actions, which sometimes results in the pure Sagittarian throwing away success when it is in hislher grasp. If, for example, you meet a brilliant young student who suddenly stops doing any work a few months before finals, there is a strong probability that he/she is a pure Sagittarian. The sudden and unexpected failure of a Sagittarian in some enterprise or activity in which he/she seemed destined to succeed is not always conclusive. Sagittarius is a lucky sign and destiny usually seems to afford pure Sagittarians more than one opportunity of achieving success; for them the old saying about 'as one door closes another opens' usually proves to be true. .With the Sagittarian carelessness goes a freedom-loving personality and an open and generous-hearted attitude towards life. Curiously enough, this seems to repel some people; even the most agreeable Sagittarian finds that some people try to pick quarrels with him or her. The natural talents of the Sagittarians, combined with their tendency to throw chances away, result in pure Sagittarians usually achieving either great success and popularity or ending their lives as rather pathetic 'might-have-beens' .Sexuality and the EmotionsStrongly Sagittarian men and women are both lovable as friends and desirable as long-term partners. As a consequence, they are much sought after by the opposite sex. And yet, paradoxically, they often only establish satisfactory long-term emotional relationships in the second half of their lives. This is because they have a tendency to reject, kindly but firmly, the love that is offered to them. This is not because they do not wish to take on responsibilities for others they will shoulder them uncomplainingly - but because they set an enormous value on their emotional freedom. Once they do settle down, however, Sagittarians make devoted husbands, wives and parents. In spite of this devotedness, Sagittarians are quite remarkably lacking in jealousy and possessiveness.General CharacterSagittarius is a lucky sign, but in youth Sagittarians need every bit of their inherent ability to fall on their feet, both literally and metaphorically. For they are continually taking chances in a way that most people would regard as thoroughly reckless. They drive fast, engage in dangerous sports, are careless with money - pure Sagittarians like gambling and speculation - and seek every type of excitement, physical, emotional and intellectual. All these activities are spin-offs, as it were, from their search for personal freedom - an endeavour to escape from the restraints which bind us all to a greater or lesser extent. They seek a philosophy of life which sees each and every individual as unique and solely responsible for hislher own destiny.The free-and-easy attitude of the Sagittarians extends to others as well as themselves. A Sagittarian is rarely the sort of bogus libertarian who expresses deep concern for his/her own freedom of thought and action but fails to defend the liberties of others or, even worse, endeavours to impose his/her standards of behaviour upon them. With the Sagittarian's love of personal liberty goes a certain unconventionality which, quite unwittingly, can cause deep offence - it is the Sagittarian who blithely assumes that it is quite acceptable to wear casual clothes at a formal social gathering or to take an uninvited guest to a party. It is, to some extent, the annoyance produced in others by the Sagittarian's free-and-easy manners that probably accounts for the fact that, in spite of his/her friendliness, the pure Sagittarian finds that others insist on picking quarrels.These quarrels, which are sometimes responsible for unexpected reverses in the Sagittarian's progress through life, rarely end a friendship definitively - charm, genuine niceness and a certain amount of Sagittarian luck usually result in reconciliation.Life-StyleSagittarians are always versatile and it is quite common for them to change from one career to another that, on the face of it, calls for quite different qualities. But both careers will have in common freedom from dull routine work and will give the Sagittarian a chance to use his/ her versatility and intelligence. Challenge is important to the Sagittarian, and a job which does not offer problems will never be totally satisfactory to him/her, however well paid it may be. e would just have to have an initial meeting first, Cause if we ended up at a carnival and you were scared of clowns, That would make for an Epic Fail, Or if we went to a club and your ex-boyfriend was there and he was the jealous, stalker type and freaked out on us, Well that just wouldn't be on top of the "Good Date" list either. You understand what im gettin at here?. A good fun atmospheric Restaurant, Bar n Grill is a good place to start.