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Xavi, 36
United States, Illinois, Steeleville

Offline, last seen Mon, 13 Jul 2026 02:10:34

About Me

I work a lot, have my kids all the time, don't go to bars, church, or Wal- I'm pretty sure I'm awesome at tennis, but I've never played. I never say LOL, don't know why, just bugs me. UPDATE: I've figured out why I don't like LOL, its lazy, and more likely than not, untrue. I do chuckle to myself sometimes, but rarely laugh out loud. No one says CTM. I say "rad", and "gal", which people seem to find queer for some reason. Avid tinkerer, I start innumerable projects, and finish most of them.....eventually. I appreciate tattoos, but was absent the day everyone my age got that awesome barbed wire arm band, so I have none. I'm not sure I like anything enough to have it on me the rest of my life, except perhaps my skin. I recently purchased some of those short socks that you can't see with shoes on, not sure what I think about them. Not too long ago, I was told I'm "not hideous", that might be the nicest thing anyone has ever said to me, I'm trying not to let it go to my head. I like outside better than inside, but I've been known to watch those idiotic storage auction shows for ten hours at a time. Caveat, my neighbor tells me I'm should let it be known that I'm truthfully blunt, to the point of being offensive. I think the first date should definitely come before the second date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Classical Funk Hip-Hop English Crime Drama Mystery Sci-Fi Golf
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    Looking for: woman. In age: 36-46

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    Man. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

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