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Arlen, 39
United States, Illinois, Staunton

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About Me

Hi!I am happy with my life and the direction in where it is going; I have 2 boys parttime with me. I have been divorced over 3 years; I was married for 12 years and I have dated since then. I have had my career over 13 years. Im well grounded; my intent is to find my best friend/lover, Im looking for long term.I would like to find a women that is excited to have someone to come home too, a person to lean on, someone to bring me up when I'm down. There is nothing like that feeling of trust in a relationship. I feel life was meant for a man and women to be together; I am lost with out her; being women in my life. I miss the smells of her perfume through out the house; sitting down and having a conversation with a cup of coffee that could be about anything, the feeling of just having her presents before me. Im interested in; bonfires, cabin life, spur of the moment trips, rides on the motorcycle, bike rides, long walks, rollerblading, working on the yard together, I would like to learn new things also, rock climbing, kayaking.My love languages are; physical touch, words of affirmation, quality time. I have been on here a while; sad but true. I am upset to see that women say they are looking for a relationship but all they seem to want is dating, a booty call or $$$$. There is more to life than a colleage degree, job status, impress for what??? Coffee or a beer. My profile is no lie; if you are interested; we can chat back and forth a little. I am secure in myself in meeting right away. I rather just know if its going to work or not. Im looking for my life partner and am serious about it. Thx for your time.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Blues Salsa South American Spanish Adventure Fantasy Sport American Football Drag Racing Motorcycle Racing
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