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About Me

A little about me... I'm usually smiling:) I'm a very optimistic, positive and active person. I'm athletic and played golf in college...and yes...golf is a real sport! I'm pretty smart...always a good person to have on your team for trivia night.I'd like to think I'm a funny...occasionally even clever and witty. I laugh a lot, frequently at myself. I've learned to be a good listener and enjoy intelligent conversation.I also enjoy being silly and goofy at times.I'm considerate and respectful, but definitely no pushover. I'm very loyal and have never been unfaithful!Please contact me if...You are an intelligent, attractive, passionate, and confident woman!And when I say confidence I don't mean Kanye West style, a little humility is also appreciated.Possess a great sense of humor, and take good care of yourself sans the occasional chocolate binge;)Slightly goofy and quirky sense of humor is a plus!Good communicator! None of us are perfect, but I do want someone who is already in a good place in their life. I'm looking for 1 1=3! For younger women...I'm searching younger because I still want to have kids, not be a sugar daddy.I have no problem spending most of the money, but I'm too smart to be duped if you aren't genuine. I'm in good shape and have lots of energy, but I'm probably not going to pull an all- At least not on a weekday;) If you are younger, but still think we could be a good match then please send me note.I also don't want to scare anyone. I don't have a clock or a timeline for any of this. I love kids and would like to be a father one day, but if it's not in the cards for me I will just continue to be the coolest uncle in the world. It's also totally fine with me if you already have a kid or kids. If our relationship gets far enough I will play whatever role you want me to with your children. I mentioned some negatives above, but if more than half of your profile is written about stuff you don't want in your next relationship then we probably aren't a match. I totally understand where you are coming from, but my brain just doesn't work the same way. I have never achieved anything worthwhile by focusing on all the things that could go wrong. At this point in our lives we have all been burned by at least one jerk. If that's all you keep finding then you probably need to figure out what you're doing wrong, not wonder why there are so many jerks out there.Life is definitely a journey! I'm very happy all by myself, but would love to have someone special to share the journey with me!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Man. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 21-36

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  • Ardal

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    Man. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 37-47

    I moved to Kelowna last summer, and love it here, one of the best decisions. I'm still really new to the area and enjoy finding new things to do here all the time. Hiking and surfing are two of the favourites. This my second time trying the site since I have been here and thought there is no harm in trying again on this site because you just never know where or how you will meet the ONE... Looking forward to the new changes that come with living in a new place. Plus not having to deal with the cold Sask winters anymore.... So if anyone wants to show me around sometime, shoot me a message...lolWould like to meet someone at the same point in their life as me. First off I should say I work out of town 8 days at a time, I do know that some people do not want that when dating. Just being straight forward about it, it will not be forever but it will be for the next couple of years. I have extra long weekends every second week with work so I love to travel and try new adventures, hope to find someone willing to do new things and see new places with. I stay as active as I can, and loving playing all types of sports to keep busy, even like to try new ones that I'm no good at...lol I feel if you are not trying and challenging yourself you are standing still in life.There is a lot a person could put about them self but then we would have nothing to talk about. Ask away if there is anything you would like to know I'm an open book. No point hiding who you really are, a person has to like you for you and not what you are pretending to be, for anything to work.Hope to hear from you and I hope everyone finds what they are looking for..... Happy Fishing.Please have a photo, it's only fair. I hate Pictures too. That way we can laugh at both our pics.....lol I'm not great at first dates but it would be great to find that first date that just feel right with no trying and no pressure!!!!

  • Geoffrey

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    Man. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 36-46

    UPDATE: let me be up front and clear here.I keep in shape. I DO NOT find overweight as attractive, change your diet n exercise for yourself not anyone else. Second is I know people have children and I can handle that but if you have 2 or more "baby-daddies" I am not interested! just think how your life and theirs will be without a solid home and duel parents? probably will not even have The Lord in thier life either. good luck and God bless with that:-) About me...Hhhhmmm probably one the the hardest things to come up with. Do you say all the goods things about yourself? Or do you tell the little things like pulling & squeezing every last drop of toothpaste out of a tube or it really does not matter what way the toilet paper is on the dispenser, just that there is ALWAYS some on there. I want to "learn" I just do not want these things, I need theses things. I need someone to come home to, not take home. A little more details about me, I work out, sometimes more intense then other times, once I set my mind and conmit to something I'm very loyal, protective, supportive, devoted, and caring. I spent my life learning to suppress my emotions building a wall of defense, which helped me protect myself from the cruel outside world. As I realize the world can be such a beautiful place to live in if we all cared about everyone just a little more. Opening up and "feeling" one can draw so much more from life. I need this person with me. I have The Lord in my life, I do not have a church I call my own, but feel I'm a good Christian child of God. I would like this special woman to honor and respect my faith. I've been selling for over 17 years, I'm good at what I do, but I need something else. I have a few more classes left at YSU to get my bachelors degree, and plan on getting it ASAP. I have a great family! Along with several cousins and yes in my eyes family is more the your birth family. There are friends I have which I hold very close, they are my family too. I have no children and wish I did. For some reason my whole life children bond to me and trust me, they are so amazing to watch. And I do come home to my two dogs everyday. Both rescues, and both a hand full. I love them very much. I have faults and flaws also as do we all. I have lost my mother after years of smoking to cancer, I do not want to take care of and watch someone who smokes deteriorate again, no smokers please! I'm very intelligent and would love someone I can talk to. I would love someone who has a career or passion a out thier work, it's beautiful to watch someone who has so much conviction about something. I'm not as liberal as today's youth, I was raised with my grandparents morals and values. I live and believe hard work is the only way to lie our lives which only helps everyone in it, around it, and raised in it. Passes on standards to keep building the future, we are "entitled" to nothing, we need to "earn" everything. They can to this great country with nothing not even speaking our language, and left this earth with money in the bank, paid off house, taught great work ethic, passed on traditions, raised children/grand children, payed for schooling, and were always there to help. I want to passed what the these gifts they gave me on. I need a certain physical attraction to, lets face it, I'm a simple man too. I'm torn on what age of a woman to date, court, and hopefully marry. It will be an easy transition to date someone my age and/or older because of stability in a career, values, and mind set. But I mentioned before I can not deny I love and want children so a younger woman is desirable. So I really can not place an "age" on a special someone. I would prefer a mentally stable woman, one with morals, values, some level of intellegence, someone that is supportive, someone that keeps care of her body--not a drug user, keeps in shape, and cares for her looks. Now I also would be nice if her can get dirty with me camping, I love the outdoors, I want to got canoeing, I put in a garden ever year, quad ride. Now I love to dress well at times and go out. I hope she will want to do this also. I 4star resturant dancing, play(theater), ballet, concerts of all kinds, just a walk in the park is fine too. Doesn't everyone deserve these things?? I shave my head because my hair is thinning, I do not want to look ridiculous like some guys do(sorry if you can not over look this ladies-good luck to you), I have soft eyes, a baby face, I'm turning 39 this year and people guess me under/ around 30. Long story, but I plan on sharing it with someone shortly.... Looking to find that someone..Have to text, talk, flirt, date, to get to know someone before you fall in love. I'm not trying to make a cup of Ramen noodles, add girl microwave for a few seconds and POOF!! We have *** other thing, children I can handle but it your children have 3 or 4 baby daddies... Well ill pass on that. Really it can be anything, the date shouldnt be made by the place,event,or occassion but the excitment and energy between those two individuals. I want to toss n turn at night think of when I'm going to see her again.

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