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Paddy, 38
United States, Illinois, Fairfield

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About Me

Hello meetville, I hope this profile finds you having a good day and I hope you feel blessed after reading it. I have read many profiles and it seems the General theme is that woman believe that MEN don’t read the “about me” section of their profile…..well ladies that may be true for some guys and maybe all they care about is how you look in a skirt or a pair of jeans…….but for me it takes more than looks. If I see a profile with nothing but pictures and no description I will most likely move on to the next one. I would hope that you ladies would do the same.I try to respond to everyone’s messages, however if you *** a “hi” or “hello” and that is it…..then please don’t be offended if I don’t write back…..or if I only say just that back.ABOUT ME:I am a single father, I love my children dearly, they are #2 in my life only behind God. However I would like to find a woman that I can meet that makes me want to put her tied with #2 only behind God. If you have children……that is great……I am a kid at heart when I need to be and play well with others…..lolMy relationship with God is very important to me. I would like to find a woman that God has chosen for me……I picked my First Wife…. So this time I think I had better just give the reins to him. Please don’t misunderstand, I don’t have to be in church every Sunday to know where I stand with God……him and I have an understanding, he doesn't mind if we meet in the middle of the woods or in a church Pew……What am I looking for:I am looking for PASSION……in everything……I am not talking about sex here ladies…….who ever chains those two things together and thinks you can’t have Passion without sex is missing the boat…..What ever it is that you are doing, have passion with it. Also please don’t be afraid to smile…….if you need help smiling….well then you are in luck because I will make it my job in life to help you smile and laugh when ever possible. I am looking for a "woman of Pearls"......this is why I call her that. Let me explain.......To me pearls are one of the finest gems. But they are often overlooked because of the oyster. So what is inside your heart is more important than the outside. Oh yeah and she can't be afraid to get a LITTLE dirty and have some fun. I am a very compassionate type person, I am looking for the same in a woman. I am looking for a woman that feels comfortable in fancy clothes as well as Jeans and a tee-shirt…(BTW pearls go with both..)….most of the time I am casual and like to be in a casual setting…..however I like special romantic surprise dates to nice places……so I clean up nicely so I am told.I know how to have fun and joke around, like I said before I tend to be a kid at heart when I can and only get serious when I have to. I like to have a 98% rule…….which means I am only serious 2% of the time, but it is like a switch…if you say…..lets be serious then I can be serious until you say so…….I guess to sum it up I like for everyone around me to be happy and have a smile on…….Life is SOOO serious most of the time.……not really any kind of music I don’t like…..except hard core rap…..or any music that has a ton of bad words or is disrespectful to some people….there is already too much HATE in the world.To sum it all up…….I am looking to start a new life after a divorce(5 years), I love to Travel....my motto is when are we leaving and can I please use a passport. I love scuba diving. I enjoy catering to a woman that appreciates it. I like a little catering myself, but my main goal is to find that "one" where nobody is keeping score. I think a relationship is NOT ***…….I think it is more like ***that way if one of us is having a bad day….the other one has you covered……I am an open book and will answer any questions you might have. If you are looking for a true Gentleman and you actually read all the way down then I Hope to hear from you soon......no movies.......but if your up for an adventure.....we can do that too......

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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