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Linsay, 46
United States, Illinois, Collinsville

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About Me

Even God is Single, but I am looking to change my status to at least dating. I love hanging out with my friends, it can be community cooking, watching a football game, or having a girl’s spa night. I love traveling, romance, and having new adventures. I live life to the fullest. (You aren't guaranteed tomorrow.) I would rather regret the things I do, than regret not doing what I want to.You can usually find me at home remodeling something. I love to entertain and usually-I am the entertainment!!!! I am not the kind of girl who needs rescued. I am emotionally, financially, and spiritually strong. I do have a job that calls for me to travel. (at least get to make my schedule) I can toss on a baseball cap and go. Most people describe me as a classy lady. But when the mood calls for it, I can kick it!!! A great smile and pearly whites are turn ons. Common courtesy is a must. One of the things I am looking most for is compassion and common courtesy. I would like to think that there is a wonderful caring man out there who cares more about others than himself. I live my life by the Golden Rule, hope you do too. I was a step child and have no problems with other men's children. Kids love me. I want to be friends first and then if things progress, GREAT!!! I am not looking for an *** I want live interaction. So let’s get together and see how things work.I have only been married to my job. I don't have any baggage, but I do have a lot of purses, and shoes. I am very normal, but not simple. I enjoy boating and camping. Usually go skiing and hit the beaches every year. I like riding my bike, and working out. I am pretty girly, but don't have a problem empting my septec tank on the rv.With my maturity have come guts, smarts and self confidence. I can appreciate my strengths, recognize what I want, and celebrate where I am in life. I am like an apple on a tree. The best ones are at the top of the tree. Most men don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. ***, they sometimes take the apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy.Some of the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing. I am just waiting for the right man to come along, the one who is brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree!Now Men.... Men are like a fine wine. They begin as grapes, and it's up to women to stomp the crap out of them until they turn into something acceptable to have dinner with. (Not really, you guys are just as wonderful as apples)What I am looking for:Looking for a man who knows how to flirt, without being dirty.Who makes you feel like you are the only woman in a crowded room. Who leads you around by the small of your back. Who makes you laugh so hard, you almost pee your pants. A man who doesn't have to try and rescue me, but who will support me in whatever challanges come my way. A man who has a car and a place to live. Hopefully they aren't the same thing.He's not only good in bed, he doesn't mind making it, or cleaning underneath it.Size does matter, I am talking about your heart, I like a sensitive guy. I want to meet someone who is high spirited, sorry, but shy guys just don't cut it. I want a challenging partner in crime. I also need someone who can keep up with me and my busy life. I am not sitting around watching the leaves fall, if you know what I mean. If you want a Barbie doll, that is not me.I have an hour glass figure with a little extra time. Finally, a guy who owns floss, and doesn't just leave it out for show. You must have a picture posted on this website, or I will not respond. According to a personality testI am happy and unflappable. Am a very sensitive and understanding person. Great listener who know how to be non-judgmental. I believe that everybody has their own journey in life. Am open to new people and events. Am highly resistant to stress and rarely worry. Normally, you are very relaxed.Always manage to have a good time and never lose your way. Keeping it simple, grab a coffee or a drink for a first meeting. Then the first date should have some effort put in to it.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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