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Ariadne, 48
United States, Illinois, Collinsville

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About Me

Wouldn't it be nice to have an uncomplicated relationship?to make plans for dinner or something and be excited to see that person?Just be able to travel with someone who's adventurous?It's a new chapter for me .,. I've raised two beautiful children who are self sufficient now ...I consider myself a catchI'm a confident , fun, adventurous woman ..who values family ,friends and life....When I'm a relationship I like a man who takes charge!! Chivalry is not dead. ., I love giving and receiving affection.. I consider myself to be very playful and loving when in a relationship.. Without fire it's dead.,.I love traveling but can't wait to get home to my cozy pillow and bedHolidays are big for me I love and appreciate everything that goes with them . I've been blessed with a great artistic talent that has afforded my children and I a great life. I listen to music every day..... Lol.....believe in living a healthy life style exercise, eating right, being active are all very important.Throwing a get together with family or friends doesn't scare me it excites me .. I'm pretty good at entertaining...I'd like to find someone who is intellectually stimulating and emotionally available.Most of all someone who makes me "LAUGH" I like to be playful when in a relationship,and think it shouldn't be so much work.!Id like someone who can be "Present" when were together...I don't believe we should be alike,to the contrary I believe opposites attract...We're not competing with one another...appreciate the other persons" strengths "and accept their "weaknesses .."It's a balancing act. I'm a firm believer in keeping the fire burning in a relationship... is very important .And last but not least... This is really dragging out sorry about that .. Lol.. I believe in "thanking "every night when I set my head down.. I believe in a "higher power" I believe in being "present" I believe in "karma" And finally last but not least I believe in Drum roll please......... I BELIEVE IN SOUL MATES! Meet for a glass of wine and something to eat ,at a cool little restaurant.Maybe something outside ... Maybe a winery with a great view.Or go to see a great" Music venue" anything surprise me

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Metal American Caribbean Indonesian Portuguese Turkish Drama History Martial Arts Basketball Sailing
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  • Pearline from Collinsville | Woman | 50 years old | Virgo
    Pearline

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Before u read on..if u are not physically fit...please don't contact me..Nothing personal, just I work very hard to stay fit and want someone who shares the same lifestyle..whew...there..I SAID IT!!SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY....PLEASE!! DON'T SEARCH IF YOU'RE NOT READY. KNOW WHAT YOU WANT AND WHAT YOU'RE WILLING, AND ABLE TO OFFER. BE WILLING TO STEP OUTSIDE OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE. THE REWARDS WILL BE WORTH IT! NOT INTO SERIAL DATING. If you don't want a good woman or don't know what to do with one.....move on!!!If you are at the point in your life where you just want to hang out and are not serious about moving forward if the chemistry is there..I AM NOT THE ONE FOR YOU. I'm looking for someone to share my life with. The joys the sorrows, the achievments and the letdowns. I want to grow old with someone and reflect back over the years we spent together. I want to share grandkids, family, fun, and laughter. I want to take walks on warm nights and cuddle on cold ones. I want a best friend, partner, confidante, and buddy. I am not high maintenance, enjoy the simple things in life but also like the nice things. I'm willing to work hard for the things I need and want. I have had bad relationships but try very hard not to judge new ones. I'm honest, trustworthy, dependable and your best ally. I'm very affectionate and loving and am looking for that in return. I'm tall so I'm looking for a tall man that can make me feel warm and secure when his arms are around me. I want someone who is as proud to be with me as I am to be with him. I have always been drawn to tall, dark, and handsome. I have three children 21, 19, and 15. I am not looking for a father but a good role model for my children. I am willing to be the same for yours. My perfect match is the one that makes my heart pitter patter. The one I hate to leave and can't wait to come back to. I don't want drama, and am already raising three kids, so if you need raising or training please look elsewhere. Oh, I must add my perfect match must also be a man of his word. He must do as he says and he must say as he does. He must be willing to invest time to nurture a relationship, as I will be in return. A good relationship is work, and as a result will be much more appreciated in the end. PLEASE..ONLY CONTACT ME IF YOU'RE LOOKING FOR A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP! If that doesn't work and a long term friendship is the result...that's cool too. I shouldn't have to add this, but common courtesy goes a long way both in person and in this forum. If you've read this far, you know what I'm looking for so don't contact me if you can't or don't want to be that person...I'm not into games, one night stands or boy toys, and I refuse to settle. Your money doesn't matter, it's your character that counts. At the risk of sounding shallow...being in shape is VERY important to me, both for myself and my partner. Average, does not mean 30 lbs overweight and athletic does not mean only 20 pounds overwieght. If you don't know where you fit into, please ask someone who will be honest with you, and then be honest on your profile..Also, be honest in the other aspects of your profile. Do some self examination and determine if what you say you're looking for is really that. Remember eventually we will meet and the truth will come out!! ALSO.. If you don't have a picture and your profile could fit on a fortune cookie, don't contact me or don't be offended if you do and I don't respond.FINALLY..Don't waste my time. If we do end up exchanging numbers, it's not so we could have unimportant, how's the weather, text conversations. My intention is to get to know you and yours should be the same. Adult conversation is a must so we can decide how, and if to proceed. Much will be determined by the first date. Therefor, it must be something that gives us the opportunity to look into each others eyes, talk, and get to know each other. A walk on the beach to watch the sunset would be a great start!!!

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  • Margrett from Collinsville | Woman | 47 years old | Sagittarius
    Margrett

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I just heard about this site and hought I would check it out. Oh wow just realized I have to write out a ***characters hmmmm wondering if I am just about finished lol. Maybe I shouldn't even be on here but oh well.,,, Ok just a little update,,,first I must say I have a wonderful 7 year old grandson that I am raising and its by my choice and in agreement with my daughter. He is my world and my everything. I have 2 grown kids a daughter and a son and I am very close to them both, I love my family! I like to go out dancing, dinner , movies , walking and yes if I get brave enough I may even do some karaoke lol. I also enjoy relaxing at home watching a good movie. Yes I am looking for my mister wonderful and perhaps some day I may find him but if not I am content and have family and friends to keep my time occupied if I am bored. I know , none of us are getting any younger but I refuse to be anybodys sex toy. I want my mister wonderful to be my everything , my best friend , my lover , to be able to laugh and cry together and to be able to agree that we will have disagreements and to get through them without threats of seperating over silly nonsense,,,smiles. Ok so I hope I havent bored you , just thought I would write something a little more on the personal side. Thank you , have a great day and good luck in your search of whatever you are looking for. Depends on the weather ,, perhaps a dinner and movies or dancing hmmmm guess this is a good question

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  • Palma from Collinsville | Woman | 46 years old | Pisces
    Palma

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Just trying this out..Looking for a guy with a good heart and good personality....I am a responsible hard working young lady....I love the outdoors and enjoy the movies or even a movie at home...My favorite wine is a merlot...very good listener ....and very close to family..I believe family and friends are a big part of life... coffee or a drink for some conversation....I believe thats how you can get to know someone....communication is a good foundation....

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