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Monnie, 49
United States, Illinois, Collinsville

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About Me

First I must say.....(interested in White Caucasian only and not interested in younger men under 45). AND you must have a picture before I would even think of responding. Thank you. I have a spirited nature and am sincere about life, work and most importantly in partnership. I see greater things of what could be rather than stay stuck, bored of what bothers me. I understand what drives me, whether good or bad. I strive to be a well rounded, normal good person. I believe life is a serious undertaking of which we get one chance.I love having a positive attitude. I try to see the neat things in life. Everything has the potential for being interesting no matter if it is a bad situation. No doubt I have my own bad moments but it is how you treat it and come out of it that makes the biggest impact. I want to constantly be learning about myself, my partner and everything around me. I am looking for a partner who thinks a relationship is special and important. Someone who will cherish and care for the relationship so it will last a life time. I want him to be comfortable being around people, and find interest in new things and places. I try to balance fast pace life with equal relaxation. So many things change quickly in life, I try to just go with it and not fight the change. I can get excited about the smallest things and I like that about myself because it allows me to see deeper meanings in unexpected places. Where ever I go I always make a friend. I bring life to a party and even the work place. People tell me I am one of those people you like to see walking your way. They say you know you are going to laugh, feel positive and genuinely liked when you are around me. I am one of those people that is always included and you want to go to for advice and an ear. Don't get me wrong I also need that as well. I don't know if this site will lead me to meeting that special person I find a connection with but if I didn't ever try I would never know. So, congratulations to all of you. Let's have fun trying!!! You will look back and say "Remember when I did that"? Oh yea, I have achieved quite a bit, trained for the Olympics in gymnastics, was a Bail Bondsman for a while, have Hairdressers license, Real Estate license and Accounting degree. Don't like thinking of first dates really. They are either too short when you really want to get to know more about someone OR too long when you don't. LOL They are inevitable though. It is always a beginning and I do like taking the chance of beginning something.NOTE: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum starting from previous current and future postings.. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Drawing / Painting English Italian Korean Middle Eastern Biography Romance Rodeo
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    they say describe your personality in one word then give things to pick like,,, animal lover, which I am, but thats two words lolI will date men who have a few extra pounds..a few...not thirty!I prefer men in their 40s...I know I am 49....BELIEVE me ....I know...but I like men in their 40s its what attracts me. I would like to meet someone who is... 1 over their ex 2 honest about what they want 3 who has a job 4 who is NORMAL!!! seems like there is something wrong with a lot of people on here. 5 not solely interested in sex 6 who is not married or involved 7 who likes bikes 8 who does not drink every night...i will not date an alcoholic 9 no sideways pics...This drives me nuts...its not cute..its annoying 10 if u put up an old pic...you are already a liar...dont bother me. I am open n honest, know what i want and wont settle for less. I am affectionate n loving but that does NOT mean i will have sex with you ....so dont even think it fellas! I am not looking to get married, i am barely divorced....but i do want a monogamous relationship with someone i can be gaga over and will be gaga over me...is that so hard? Am i so unattractive? I am beginning to think so. I was told i am =( hurtsmy nephew died last sunday..a week ago today(sept 15, ***...i found out on tuesday he was a heroin addict....it killed him....if you know anyone who does drugs...know this....a druggie will end up in jail or dead....send ur druggie to jail!!! i would ratehr visit my nephew in jail and know one day he will be out rather than visit his grave side. He was 24 yrs old. He had a huge heart and a huge problem, but not many people knew...I wish i had. ok here is a bit of info that i have been keeping under wraps....but now i am getting nervous n scared....6 years ago i discovered I am BRCA2 positive...so in two weeks i am undergoing a mastectomy with reconstruction. im really really scared...1. of the pain, 2. of the fact that i am removing perfectly healthy tissue from my body 3. that no man is gonna want me afterwards...i will go in with breasts and come out with breasts, but they wont be mine. =( im trying to be proactive with my health ...an ounce of prevention...yada yada...but im still *** watch n comment...=) its not a date...its a meeting....an interview....an audition....not a date! but I would prefer public and for coffee or food or a walk in the park...some place quiet to talk and get to know each other. no frills, no lies, just openness and honesty

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Just trying this out..Looking for a guy with a good heart and good personality....I am a responsible hard working young lady....I love the outdoors and enjoy the movies or even a movie at home...My favorite wine is a merlot...very good listener ....and very close to family..I believe family and friends are a big part of life... coffee or a drink for some conversation....I believe thats how you can get to know someone....communication is a good foundation....

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

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    - would really like to meet someone that would share these interests with me, and possibly introduce me to some of his own. I would like to meet someone for friendship/dating and possibly a relationship. I have been alone for 3+ years now, and am ready to find someone to give romance a second try. I am a middle-aged mother of four children. I feel as though I have done the best job possible raising my kids, and now am looking forward to meeting someone "for me." I work full- I think for a first date I would like to meet somewhere and get to know each other over a coffee, or other beverage. You will find that I am very easy going and like to have fun. I am now at a point in my life that I really would like to meet a nice guy to do things with - are you that guy?

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