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Sharonda, 49
United States, Illinois, Collinsville

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Okie dokie...to be successful it says to ***talk about my hobbies...animals, decorating, art, vintage, repurposing stuff, walking, reading ***talk about my goals..I'd be happy to live till I retire and then some.... ***talk about yourself and what makes you unique..hmmm..If we are ALL unique, then none of us are really unique, right? I guess I'm very young spirited but mature...LOVE animals & try to help them (feed strays, rescue, etc...) Since helping an animal gets you nothing physical or monetary in return, I do think it is a good characteristic in a human being. ***Music...I'm flexible. I listen to K-LOVE normally, but I like pop, and even some hard rock (KISS) ALSO..here is another thing about me..I am really "upfront". I've learned in my old age (and yea, I know I'm old) that sometimes you have to look in the mirror and say "I'M GREEDY, I'M OLD, I'M FOOLISH, I'M FAT"..or WHATEVER the issue may be...and literally become disgusted with yourself..and either ACCEPT it or CHANGE it. But don't live in DENIAL about it...I see too many men in my age group posing with no shirts (WHY???) with beer guts hanging out stating they have an "athletic" build. In what universe?? In this area, I'd say 1% of men over the age of 35 actually have an "athletic" build (which means your waist is at least 10" smaller than your chest and you are muscular and toned) No one is perfect..I don't expect it or want it and its too hard to maintain..but I do think we should try to take care of ourselves and there has to be mutual physical attraction. It is SUCH a double standard that women need to look like "Barbie" but men can look like crap and we just have to suck it up and deal with it. NOTE: Also, if you live further than an hour (approx) away from me, UNLESS you plan on doing all the driving, I doubt it's going to work out. It's just too difficult to date someone who can't really "be there" for you for the little things...good luck to everyone. After a first meeting (which should be brief and in public) I think the "date" should be something agreed on by both parties. If you don't have a pic, I won't respond. Good luck. Also, I may not get on here except for once a week or so; therefore, if you want me to get in touch w/you please leave another way (i.e. texting?)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Electro American South American Turkish Action Drama
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    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I enjoy the outdoors, gardening, camping, riding harleys, riding horses, going to the lake, weekend getaways, short road trips, and shopping. I also enjoy spending time with my family and friends.

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Thats dirttrackmom lol oh well anyways .... Hi .. I'm pretty level headed and easy going. A little backwards but once I get to know someone I can be outgoing and funny at times. I love racing of any kind but my first choice is dirt. Only because my daughter races go karts. I like the outdoors. And hanging with friend. Bonfires is a must on cool nights.

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  • Zandra from Collinsville | Woman | 47 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    A bit about me....outgoing,easygoing and positive. I am looking for someone who just wants to be happy and who is not concerned about the little things. Enjoys being out to see shows and has a zest for life. I like to keep busy with activities and enjoying my time off. It could just be going to see a game at a pub or having a picnic outside but sitting at home all weekend is not my thing. Someone who has the time and who is looking for a relationship full of passion and commitment. I am looking for someone who cannot get enough of me. Someone willing to work at a relationship and when not everything goes their way they are willing to try harder. I have listed my interests so have a look and if you think you and me will hit it off send me a message. The one thing i hate the most is phonies and if we start seeing each other i will hide my profile...i do not believe in multiple dating.ATTENTION >>> Now you have to upgrade to hide your profile...hmmm. So just to let you all know that i am dating someone and hoping it goes well so i will not respond at this time to any messages...Good luck to everyone on here its a tough place but be open minded and maybe we will all find what we are looking for. xx I prefer to talk on the phone first and then we can decide together...so i would not call it a date. The real first date will be determined after we actually meet each other in person. :)

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