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Sharonda, 49
United States, Illinois, Collinsville

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Okie dokie...to be successful it says to ***talk about my hobbies...animals, decorating, art, vintage, repurposing stuff, walking, reading ***talk about my goals..I'd be happy to live till I retire and then some.... ***talk about yourself and what makes you unique..hmmm..If we are ALL unique, then none of us are really unique, right? I guess I'm very young spirited but mature...LOVE animals & try to help them (feed strays, rescue, etc...) Since helping an animal gets you nothing physical or monetary in return, I do think it is a good characteristic in a human being. ***Music...I'm flexible. I listen to K-LOVE normally, but I like pop, and even some hard rock (KISS) ALSO..here is another thing about me..I am really "upfront". I've learned in my old age (and yea, I know I'm old) that sometimes you have to look in the mirror and say "I'M GREEDY, I'M OLD, I'M FOOLISH, I'M FAT"..or WHATEVER the issue may be...and literally become disgusted with yourself..and either ACCEPT it or CHANGE it. But don't live in DENIAL about it...I see too many men in my age group posing with no shirts (WHY???) with beer guts hanging out stating they have an "athletic" build. In what universe?? In this area, I'd say 1% of men over the age of 35 actually have an "athletic" build (which means your waist is at least 10" smaller than your chest and you are muscular and toned) No one is perfect..I don't expect it or want it and its too hard to maintain..but I do think we should try to take care of ourselves and there has to be mutual physical attraction. It is SUCH a double standard that women need to look like "Barbie" but men can look like crap and we just have to suck it up and deal with it. NOTE: Also, if you live further than an hour (approx) away from me, UNLESS you plan on doing all the driving, I doubt it's going to work out. It's just too difficult to date someone who can't really "be there" for you for the little things...good luck to everyone. After a first meeting (which should be brief and in public) I think the "date" should be something agreed on by both parties. If you don't have a pic, I won't respond. Good luck. Also, I may not get on here except for once a week or so; therefore, if you want me to get in touch w/you please leave another way (i.e. texting?)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Electro American South American Turkish Action Drama
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  • Anngela from Collinsville | Woman | 47 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I live in Eastern Ky in a very small community. If you like the outdoors then you would love this place. I enjoy camping,fishing,Atv's,the beach and I love being with my family. Why is it that everyone elaborates on what kind of music they like? If we don't like the same kind of music is that a deal breaker?? Who cares what kind of music you listen to. Really!! I have been alone for a few years and I am ready to move forward. I have four children and they are my life. If you aren't family oriented then there's no point in contacting me. PLEASE have a photo with your profile if you contact me. This is a dating site,so a picture is a must and it needs to be recent and close up. Honestly would any of you look at MY profile if I didn't have a picture posted? Certainly not,so why would I look at yours if you don't have a picture,I wouldn't. If you don't want to post a picture for what ever reason,please include one when you message me or more than likely I won't respond. Also there must be a physical attraction on both our parts. I don't expect a man to look a certain way, but I have to be attracted to that person and I'm sure you feel the same way. That's the first thing that peaks anyone's interest and I'm honest enough to admit it. Also guys please don't lie about your age. I thought women were bad to lie about their age,but it seems that men are worse. I am 47 years old and I am thankful for every year that God has blessed me with. Having a birthday and getting older is certainly better than the alternative. I love to laugh,even at myself,so if you don't have a sense of humor then we won't be very compatible. Laughter is life's greatest medicine,so laugh long,laugh hard and laugh often and sometimes laugh until you cry. A couple of months ago,I was talking to my Uncle and he was telling me a story and I literally laughed until I cried. I loveeeeeeeeeeeeeee that!!!!!!

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  • Elfa from Collinsville | Woman | 48 years old | Capricorn
    Elfa

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    So I'm putting it out on the table yes, I'm single , looking and happy.. My friends describe me as a warm, kind and a thoughtful person, someone who see's the glass half full rather then half empty,I have always appreciated the simple things in life making the best of every day. I get pleasure sending kind gestures to family,friends and love one to show someone I care.I love to do just about anything. It's really not about what you're doing but more about who you're doing them with. Things are always better shared.I'm looking for a man with similar interests, someone who can make me laugh and just enjoy anything we do. These are important qualities.What's your story? What makes you weak in the knees with joy and happiness? I'd love to know. Drop me a line and let's go from there. Anything we agree upon.

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  • Denyse from Collinsville | Woman | 50 years old | Aries
    Denyse

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Good hearted person looking for the same.Enjoy the the sun,beach,pool,walking,day trips and shopping .a good glass of wine and dining.Have 2 adult children who are very important in my life.I eat heal;thy and take care of myself. i would like my first date will be dinner with glass vine or sunset on the beach,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

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