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Sharonda, 49
United States, Illinois, Collinsville

Offline, last seen Sun, 01 Mar 2026 01:42:27

About Me

Okie dokie...to be successful it says to ***talk about my hobbies...animals, decorating, art, vintage, repurposing stuff, walking, reading ***talk about my goals..I'd be happy to live till I retire and then some.... ***talk about yourself and what makes you unique..hmmm..If we are ALL unique, then none of us are really unique, right? I guess I'm very young spirited but mature...LOVE animals & try to help them (feed strays, rescue, etc...) Since helping an animal gets you nothing physical or monetary in return, I do think it is a good characteristic in a human being. ***Music...I'm flexible. I listen to K-LOVE normally, but I like pop, and even some hard rock (KISS) ALSO..here is another thing about me..I am really "upfront". I've learned in my old age (and yea, I know I'm old) that sometimes you have to look in the mirror and say "I'M GREEDY, I'M OLD, I'M FOOLISH, I'M FAT"..or WHATEVER the issue may be...and literally become disgusted with yourself..and either ACCEPT it or CHANGE it. But don't live in DENIAL about it...I see too many men in my age group posing with no shirts (WHY???) with beer guts hanging out stating they have an "athletic" build. In what universe?? In this area, I'd say 1% of men over the age of 35 actually have an "athletic" build (which means your waist is at least 10" smaller than your chest and you are muscular and toned) No one is perfect..I don't expect it or want it and its too hard to maintain..but I do think we should try to take care of ourselves and there has to be mutual physical attraction. It is SUCH a double standard that women need to look like "Barbie" but men can look like crap and we just have to suck it up and deal with it. NOTE: Also, if you live further than an hour (approx) away from me, UNLESS you plan on doing all the driving, I doubt it's going to work out. It's just too difficult to date someone who can't really "be there" for you for the little things...good luck to everyone. After a first meeting (which should be brief and in public) I think the "date" should be something agreed on by both parties. If you don't have a pic, I won't respond. Good luck. Also, I may not get on here except for once a week or so; therefore, if you want me to get in touch w/you please leave another way (i.e. texting?)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hi ! I'm an extremely fit woman who loves adventure sports, travel , camping and good company. I love to hike with my dogs and trail run with friends, share good food and shake out new ideas.I especially love great conversation about science, spirituality, psychology, literature, fitness, health, movies and matters of the heart. Also, I especially appreciate being in the woods where the air is fresh and you can lighten your load mentally and spiritually. Interested is interesting. Perhaps we could go for a hike and have some easy but insightful conversation. (It doesn't take long to figure out if the chemistry is there or not.)More than anything, I think that it is important for two people to get to know each other to find out if there is a spark.

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  • Milagros from Collinsville | Woman | 48 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hi well here it goes i would describe myself as attractive, fun to be around with a good personality theres nothing better then meeting someone who can make you laugh or smile.im looking for someone who wants to spend time getting to know me. Dating and finding someone to spend the next chapter of my life with is my ultimate goal here.Lifes to short i want to find my lover, best friend and partner and together we can grab life by the balls and hold on for the ride of our lifes. so if you are interested in a fun loving petite brunette who can make you laugh and add flavor to your life drop me a line i dont bite well not hard anyways lol come on you know you want too :) coffee or dinner to see if theres an attraction and common interests

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  • Jaylynn from Collinsville | Woman | 50 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Hello. I'm back. I am looking for someone to laugh with. Someone to enjoy life with. To become best friends with. I want someone passionate, funny, dependable, intelligent, loving. Someone with honor, a sense of humor who enjoys the simple things in life. I'm not looking for a hookup. Looks are not as important as that spark. I want that something special where our eyes sparkle when they meet. Someone both nice and wicked. I don't want someone who is a serial dater. I want someone looking for a real woman to build a life with. My ultimate goal is a life partner not a hookup for the evening. I will write more later. Open to suggestions. Coffee, drinks, dinner. Something that allows us to talk and see if there is something there worth exploring.

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