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Sharonda, 49
United States, Illinois, Collinsville

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Okie dokie...to be successful it says to ***talk about my hobbies...animals, decorating, art, vintage, repurposing stuff, walking, reading ***talk about my goals..I'd be happy to live till I retire and then some.... ***talk about yourself and what makes you unique..hmmm..If we are ALL unique, then none of us are really unique, right? I guess I'm very young spirited but mature...LOVE animals & try to help them (feed strays, rescue, etc...) Since helping an animal gets you nothing physical or monetary in return, I do think it is a good characteristic in a human being. ***Music...I'm flexible. I listen to K-LOVE normally, but I like pop, and even some hard rock (KISS) ALSO..here is another thing about me..I am really "upfront". I've learned in my old age (and yea, I know I'm old) that sometimes you have to look in the mirror and say "I'M GREEDY, I'M OLD, I'M FOOLISH, I'M FAT"..or WHATEVER the issue may be...and literally become disgusted with yourself..and either ACCEPT it or CHANGE it. But don't live in DENIAL about it...I see too many men in my age group posing with no shirts (WHY???) with beer guts hanging out stating they have an "athletic" build. In what universe?? In this area, I'd say 1% of men over the age of 35 actually have an "athletic" build (which means your waist is at least 10" smaller than your chest and you are muscular and toned) No one is perfect..I don't expect it or want it and its too hard to maintain..but I do think we should try to take care of ourselves and there has to be mutual physical attraction. It is SUCH a double standard that women need to look like "Barbie" but men can look like crap and we just have to suck it up and deal with it. NOTE: Also, if you live further than an hour (approx) away from me, UNLESS you plan on doing all the driving, I doubt it's going to work out. It's just too difficult to date someone who can't really "be there" for you for the little things...good luck to everyone. After a first meeting (which should be brief and in public) I think the "date" should be something agreed on by both parties. If you don't have a pic, I won't respond. Good luck. Also, I may not get on here except for once a week or so; therefore, if you want me to get in touch w/you please leave another way (i.e. texting?)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Electro American South American Turkish Action Drama
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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Hi and thank you for stoping by and reading my profile. I do have pics up in my bikini...Reason be it ...I'm not the normal 50 year old. It doesn't mean I'm easy or gonna send more pics to your cell phone.My friends describe me as a good person and easy to get along with. My greatest accomplishment in life are my kids. They are adults now but everyday I think about how wonderful it is to have given them life and to see them grow and be the best they can be and achieve greatness.. In return they help others achieve the same.Now I'm gonna tell you a little about myself!!I know its hard to find the complete package but I'm not going to give up!! It's about what's in their heart... I'm not here to be someone's one night stand so if your reading my profile and that's what you want then we are not a match.I'm a real women and have a lot to offer a man and I expect to have the same in return...I'm a business owner, have two grown kids, own my home, have a great personality, and I'm actually funny as well!! I love men that can make me laugh...its sexy and smiling is contagious! I love to go out and dance..like the movies, dinner, or just relaxing at home and just cuddling. I'm pretty easy going, I'm not shy so I can carry a conversation and make it interesting. I'm passionate about life...I am looking for a great guy that shares my interest as well as me sharing his. Good looks and being in shape are important to me but not everything.... If you like my pics and profile then message me. Drinks or a bite to eat.. Keep it simple!

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  • Meghann from Collinsville | Woman | 46 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Blond with the short hair!energetic, full of life with, hate to miss out on anything and have multitude of interests.keep myself busy with many interest and priorities however, have realized that relationships(friends or lovers) are the key to happiness so hoping to acquire both! I am real- down to earth- fun - love to surround myself with good people (have been fortunate to say that I have***basically I enjoy the simple things life has to offer.......keep it real and genuine and know that we ALL are looking for that "connection".....if we find it here "awesome" - if not "no harm done "good luck to all!! coffee/cocktail

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  • Diedre from Collinsville | Woman | 46 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I love a variety of things from shopping, dining out, bowling, long walks, cooking, plant/tend flowers, and spending time with friends and family. I have an excellent sense of humor and really appreciate that in others. I listen to a variety of music genres from Pop, R&B, Top 20, Jazz, some modern country and occasionally *** I do like to be active, but working out at the gym gets boring so I am always looking for ways to get my exercise in while making it fun and seem less like a task. So, is there a wonderful, honest, good looking, caring, active, compassionate man out there between the age of ***that would like to talk, become friends and if the chemistry is there, maybe more? A first date can be so fun if the man/woman maybe discusses what would be fun, yet comfortable for each other. I think dinner and a movie can be so awkward for a first date. Going to a museum, having a picnic in a public park, going to a festival or even sharing half a day at an amusement park would be great first dates in my opinion. There are so many other great ideas if we each think about something unique and interesting.

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