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Pearline, 50
United States, Illinois, Collinsville

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About Me

Before u read on..if u are not physically fit...please don't contact me..Nothing personal, just I work very hard to stay fit and want someone who shares the same lifestyle..whew...there..I SAID IT!!SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY....PLEASE!! DON'T SEARCH IF YOU'RE NOT READY. KNOW WHAT YOU WANT AND WHAT YOU'RE WILLING, AND ABLE TO OFFER. BE WILLING TO STEP OUTSIDE OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE. THE REWARDS WILL BE WORTH IT! NOT INTO SERIAL DATING. If you don't want a good woman or don't know what to do with one.....move on!!!If you are at the point in your life where you just want to hang out and are not serious about moving forward if the chemistry is there..I AM NOT THE ONE FOR YOU. I'm looking for someone to share my life with. The joys the sorrows, the achievments and the letdowns. I want to grow old with someone and reflect back over the years we spent together. I want to share grandkids, family, fun, and laughter. I want to take walks on warm nights and cuddle on cold ones. I want a best friend, partner, confidante, and buddy. I am not high maintenance, enjoy the simple things in life but also like the nice things. I'm willing to work hard for the things I need and want. I have had bad relationships but try very hard not to judge new ones. I'm honest, trustworthy, dependable and your best ally. I'm very affectionate and loving and am looking for that in return. I'm tall so I'm looking for a tall man that can make me feel warm and secure when his arms are around me. I want someone who is as proud to be with me as I am to be with him. I have always been drawn to tall, dark, and handsome. I have three children 21, 19, and 15. I am not looking for a father but a good role model for my children. I am willing to be the same for yours. My perfect match is the one that makes my heart pitter patter. The one I hate to leave and can't wait to come back to. I don't want drama, and am already raising three kids, so if you need raising or training please look elsewhere. Oh, I must add my perfect match must also be a man of his word. He must do as he says and he must say as he does. He must be willing to invest time to nurture a relationship, as I will be in return. A good relationship is work, and as a result will be much more appreciated in the end. PLEASE..ONLY CONTACT ME IF YOU'RE LOOKING FOR A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP! If that doesn't work and a long term friendship is the result...that's cool too. I shouldn't have to add this, but common courtesy goes a long way both in person and in this forum. If you've read this far, you know what I'm looking for so don't contact me if you can't or don't want to be that person...I'm not into games, one night stands or boy toys, and I refuse to settle. Your money doesn't matter, it's your character that counts. At the risk of sounding shallow...being in shape is VERY important to me, both for myself and my partner. Average, does not mean 30 lbs overweight and athletic does not mean only 20 pounds overwieght. If you don't know where you fit into, please ask someone who will be honest with you, and then be honest on your profile..Also, be honest in the other aspects of your profile. Do some self examination and determine if what you say you're looking for is really that. Remember eventually we will meet and the truth will come out!! ALSO.. If you don't have a picture and your profile could fit on a fortune cookie, don't contact me or don't be offended if you do and I don't respond.FINALLY..Don't waste my time. If we do end up exchanging numbers, it's not so we could have unimportant, how's the weather, text conversations. My intention is to get to know you and yours should be the same. Adult conversation is a must so we can decide how, and if to proceed. Much will be determined by the first date. Therefor, it must be something that gives us the opportunity to look into each others eyes, talk, and get to know each other. A walk on the beach to watch the sunset would be a great start!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Baseball
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