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United States, Illinois, Collinsville

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About Me

Had fished with my dad all my life, but our first fly fishing trip... with my dad a few years ago.I went right out into the river with my hip boots on ready to take it on and cast, my reel flew off my rod. I spent the next 45 minutes trying to just stand up in the river and save my reel, making a rats nest out of my line. Wanted to quit. Next day, we went out with a**** SOB guide, who told me, "when reeling in a fish, it's like a dance with your partner, sometimes you lead, sometimes you follow." Really? And you won't marry your girlfriend of 8 yrs...are we really going to get a fish?"I out fished them both, an amazing fishing trip....and that weekend also taught me a lot about life and relationships. MyThat was mine and my dad's last fishing trip.My 30 yr. old secretary told me that a fish story on a dating site wasn't good. What? I believe it says a lot...in a realtionship sometimes you lead and sometimes you follow, you have frustration but you don't quit, a little hook doesn't mean you won't catch a big fish, the bait you use is not more important than the strength of your line, and that you need to be present every minute because you never know if you'll ever have that opportunity again. I thought it said it all but, ok fine, I'm a therapist, clinical director and owner of a mental health agency. I love to fish and camp and do that often. Enjoy cooking, but no just for myself but with someone else, am easy going, and really don't need an agenda to have fun and laugh everyday. Whatever we decide will be best for both of us.

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  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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Latin Caribbean Irish Spanish
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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

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