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Hedwig, 48
United States, Illinois, Charleston

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Ok, so I'm not ALWAYS on the go....I enjoy spending quiet evenings or weekends at home but the other side of me says life is too short, get out there and do something! Summer time equals golf time, one of my favorite past times! I enjoy traveling and do it whenever I can. There are so many places I want to see!What am I looking for? Well, I could put a list of criteria but most of it doesn't matter if you treat me well, don't lie, cheat, etc. and we have that all important,but rare, chemistry. I do have a small list though:1) You have to understand that my children will always take priority; but on the reverse, I know that your children (if you have them) will always be your priority. If your kids aren't your priority, then we are not a good match.2) I'm looking for someone who wants to travel and has the means to do it. And I will not ask you to pay for my ticket. If you don't like to travel, aren't willing to take the time to do it, or don't have the means to do it, we are not a good match.I am pretty laid back and am most comfortable in a pair of jeans and a sweatshirt. I prefer quiet locations with a small group of friends over loud places with a ton of people. I'm a bit sarcastic at times, but all in good taste and good fun. I am comfortable with where I am in my life, at peace with the decisions I have made, and am financially self sufficient.I believe in giving back and in the phrase "To whom much is given, much is expected." I serve on the board of directors for two local non profits that are committed to helping people who are in need of a helping hand.I'm looking for someone to share life with. Someone who is honest, upfront and blunt like I am. Someone I can trust. Someone who will be there with laughter in the good times and compassion and understanding in the not so good times. I don't like drama or games; life is way to short to spend time and energy on things like that. Chemistry is key...I don't know what makes you have chemistry with one person and not another person but you have to have it. Laughter is also important! Life is meant to be enjoyed!Winks and flirts are fine, but if you want to get my attention, show me you can communicate by sending me an *** preferred first date would be over coffee or perhaps sushi. At a casual location where we are able to carry on a conversation and get to know eachother.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Punk Reggae American German Middle Eastern Adult Martial Arts Mystery Thriller Bowling
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