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Vicki, 49
United States, Illinois, Charleston

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Update: Deleting my profile was an epic fail! It's like "; on here...You can never leave! Not only am I not deleted, I am now public with all photos! Therefore, I will torture you with a more intense essay. Ha! Yes, I had insomnia and was bored. I doubt many read all of this, but I serious doubt many read the short version either! lolTo spare you the trilogy of 48 years: Single by choice for a while. I set a goal and dedicated my time into raising my 3 children to become an asset to society, getting my degree, and my career off and running. All accomplished and here I am. Self sufficient, Self Supporting, Classy Southern Lady. My new goal is to become debt free (practically there), find the place I want to eventually retire at, and spending the last chapter of my life with that special someone. I am a nurturer by nature and love making people happy. Being and having that first love was great, but to be someone’s last love would be awesome! I am definitely not ready to roll over and die yet, but after all the dreams, aspirations, and our “bucket list’” is accomplished …..I want matching rocking chairs on the front porch with us awaiting the visit of our children and grandchildren. Life is a Journey, not a guided tour. Just enjoy the journey!Memorable experiences are as simple as… Waking up early, sharing coffee, watching the sun rise. Relaxing, after the dinner we prepared together, in the grass (or sand) watching the sunset and talking of the day’s events. As the night falls, and those intimate times are over….cuddling to each other and knowing that the best place to be in the world is, “right there”!Most of us work hard in life, at careers, our children, our homes, and for those materialistic items that seems to make us think we have succeeded. Why not work as hard at being with someone? We all have a history, and ‘set in our ways’ per se. So to have a relationship at this point, there must be give and take, a compromise. All mergers come with amicable negotiations. Yes, this is a “yours, mine, and ours” state of affair. “If looking back hurts you, and looking forward scares you, then look beside you. For there is where your contentment lays”. Scars remind us of our past, but they don’t have to predict our future. Life’s saga has constituted who and what we are now. Sometimes, all we have to do to change our lives is to change our mind. Happenings in life are not as important as what you have done about them. Who and What am I looking for? Anyone that can get me off this site! Lol Yes, I love a sense of humor! • A gentleman, but yet a strong hand if need be.• Chivalry, all because he appreciates having a lady by his side. • Being able to see each other’s imperfections perfectly, and love anyway. • Having that “sticking and staying power”• Giving to each other willingly, selflessly, and with honor. • Always making each other proudly say, “That is my partner”• A good heart is better than good looking. Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference.• Together, finding a balance between careers, family, social, and a spiritual life.• Jealousy should only be dealt with from others, who envy what they see that ‘we’ have together. Personally, I like tall men (mainly because I wear heels a lot). Love facial hair (I find it distinguishing) But, to be the one that can reach deep into your heart, over all those foolish, frivolous, and weak things and find that place that no one has quite looked far enough to find. That would make me your destiny. Top of the profile list what I like to do. I’ll try anything once, twice if I like it. I am very versatile. Every woman loves the receipt of those infamous roses, but, bouquets of handpicked wild flowers are the ultimate!! Don’t let distance be an issue. At this point in my life, the world is my oyster. There is no tether that limits my position or space. Great Adventurers and Great Loves involve Great Risk! There are always the typical dinner, drinks, and movie, but attending a ball game, race, a local event or festival would be great as well.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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