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Wei, 47

United States, Illinois, Charleston

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Time for an UPDATE: I am a lady. I need to be treated as such. It means that you are going to have to put some serious effort into the relationship before we make it to the bedroom. It doesn't mean that I'm afraid to get dirty or work hard. I work every day either on the job or at home. I am high mantentance. If we are in a relationship I expect to hear from you every day, even if its just a text. I expect that you will call or show up when you say you are going to. I will give you the same respect. I expect doors to be opened for me and your full attention during a date. The exception is children. I keep my cell phone handy so if my children need me. I expect that your children will be just as important to you. I will not get in the car with you until I feel comfortable. I won't tell you where I live either. I will meet you. I'm not trying to be rude but these are things you should know before you ask me out. If you are going to buy my dinner or pay for whatever we do and gas to get there you should know what you're getting into. This is the cost of dating me. Only you can decide if the price is too high.One more thing...If we are in a relationship I will only be dating you. If we are not in a relationship I will date other people. If that is a problem please do not ask me out.Also, I often stay friends with my exes. That's because I don't screw them over. For *** just updated my ex boyfriends profile. I wanted to say things that women want to know. I want him to find someone and be happy.Ok, now about me.....I'm looking for my best friend. Someone I can dream with, laugh with, explore with, and tell all my secrets to. I want to meet someone who after a while is sure that he can't live without me and I want to feel the same way about him. When he looks at me I want to be able to see the love in his eyes. I want to know that he adores me, and wants only me. A tall order, I know.I do love to be spoiled, but I love to spoil the people I care about also. Spoiling someone doesn't always mean spending money on them. Sometimes it's rubbing their feet after a long day at work (I do this often for my partner), picking flowers from the side of the road to show me that he was thinking of me. A "good morning" text is always nice. I want to be walked to my car, doors held, and kissed passionately. I want a man who will wrap his arms around me and tell me that everything will be alright. I need to know that when something goes wrong, or when I need something that he will handle it. I will do the same for him. We all need someone to depend on, even if all you can do is hold me while I cry.I tend to be attracted to tall, strong men, country boys, but not guys that dip.lol. A gentleman. I am a single mother. My 15 year old daughter lives with me. She comes first. I expect for your children to come first in your life also. I work with special needs adults; that's a big part of my life. Because this is an emotional job, I can't turn it off when I leave work. I worry about my clients like they're family.I go back and forth on the relatonship thing. I don't want to be in a relationship for the sake of being in one. To say I "belong" to someone. But one day a relationship will just happen. It's still takes work to keep it together, but one day you will realize that when the phone rings you hope it's that one certain person. Your best friend, the one who always listens, the one who's always there for you, the one who loves you even when you're not lovable.You can't choose who you fall in love with, it just happens. Staying in love doesn't just happen, it's a choice.I love to travel, explore the world, and my own back yard. For the first meeting, a cup of coffee/hot chocolate is fine. Hanging out in groups can be fun too. The very best date after we get to know and trust each other would be packing some snacks and a camera, and explore. I don’t need a fwb. I’m not a booty call. Be a friend first or don’t bother.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian Adventure Mystery Basketball
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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

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    I want someone that is real NO FAKES and i will see you comeing so if your FAKE just pass me by plzzzzzz.What i like to do a nice walk,nice dinner,go to the movies and see something funny love a good laugh.All I want is someone that knows how to treat his woman right and try to get to know me as a person my likes and dislikes as I would want to get to know yours. Understand me yes I am a hard person to get to know but once you take the time I am yours for life. I'm not a gold digger I work money is not everything no I don't have any I live pay check to pay check would I like to have money sure but that will not make me happy.I smoke not that much but I do so if you don't or can't put up with that maybe you should move to the next profile.Happy Fishing Go for a drive a walk or the movies we are adults.....UP DATE I LIKE SEAFOOD...LOL

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  • Sherisse from Charleston | Woman | 49 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    So I decided it's time to make some changes to my profile.....I have been on here for awhile and met some great guys but not "the one" as of yet.....i.e the décor of my home.....I would love to meet someone who likes making little road trips to the hill country to check things out... I like big trucks, Harley's and muscle cars...hanging with family and friends or just chilling at home. I am revamping my exercise routine now that I have settled in my home and would like someone to possibly workout with. I like playing pool or darts but could use some *** it has been awhile since I last played......going to the little hole in the wall places are always fun. My 2 boys are now 18 and 22 so needless to say they are not around much but they are my world and God has blessed me more than words can say with good kids, never in trouble or raising hell and always respectful. It's time for me now to find a partner, someone who wants to spend time with me as much as I do with them. I want a friend first in order to build a strong relationship. I think that guys that hunt and fish are awesome....I don't or have not but I have learned to never say never......my motto as of late has been "out with the old and in with the new". Thank you for taking the time to read my profile and may God bless and watch over you as you look for a new beginning. : ) depends on the person....open to suggestions.....I like to talk. : )

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  • Markita from Charleston | Woman | 49 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    October 25, ***:The neighbors across the road are a different sort.; not altogether warm and personable. They have a habit of shooting fireworks on a grand scale at odd intervals. The neighbors to the right of me are elderly. The fireworks give them a fright each time, thinking it may be gunshots and the like so they call me for reassurance. Oh the charm of country life. Well perhaps one of his elves. I brought it home, not expecting much from it but it has been put to the test for over six hours now. I am amazed at the difference it made on this windy day. It's been simply lovely and toasty all evening AND the thermostat for the heat pump has been turned down. Success! *** lived in small towns and large cities, both in the States and abroad. I've lived in mobile homes, in apartments, in condos, and in old houses. It all doesn't matter so much now, for life will take you down many roads good and bad.I enjoy what I have and am proud of where I've been and what I have accomplished. I can't complain for there's really no reason to, and I usually don't. My life is stable, healthy and whole. I do what I can to stay out of debt and out of the path of drama. It would be nice to have a friend to enjoy life with. To be honest, I feel like a housewife waiting for her husband to return home. So if that friendship turned into marriage, well then, there will be much to celebrate.Random facts or possible fiction about me:I like Kerrygold Skellig sweet cheddar cheese.I spend Thanksgiving at Biltmore Estate.The perfect alarm clock is the sound of waves pounding the sand at the beach.My most memorable Christmas was in Switzerland.Books hold my attention more so than movies.Some days are better spent in pajamas.There's something about a cabin with a fireplace overlooking the mountains. Pick up trucks that are so high that I wouldn't bump my head if I were to walk under them annoy me.Cars that go round and round the track are about as impressive to me as those little rodents on running wheels.In one week's time on meetville, I realized my mistake in "looking for casual dating/no commitment". My intents have been changed to "I want a relationship". I am not online to queue up for sex. I am not online for cybersex. I am not a prostitute for hire or for free. Casual atmosphere where it's easy to be yourself and get to know someone.

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