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Am looking for a good black man Who wants a good woman. One who is responsible in and out of the home.. Must enjoy spending time with family as well as spending time with me alone. I have a lot to offer as well as you as well. I enjoy many things in life and would love to share that with a special black man.. I dont need a lot, just someone to care about me as I care for you.. am not materialistic, dont need much to make me happy..just someone to make me happy, by showing you really care.. please no drugs, very against that.. Am a mother who trys to teach my girls what is right in life.. And might say they have turned out pretty good, raising them alone.. If you are interested please feel free to respond.. please note I only date black men.. no disrespect to my race.. just my preference. one more point.. If you have a hard time accepting me dating black men please keep your feelings to yourself.. I dont care to read what I am doing wrong, cause know I can make any choice that i choose.. please dont be judgemental of anyone till you know them. we are all different no matter what color or race that we are.. sorry you werent taught that, but I was and taught my kids as well.. so please respect me, because I would never disrespect anyone for their choices in life as long as they are happy... An all am looking for is happiness, and who i Choose is a choice i have made.Ok.. guess have to say it one more time.. not trying to be mean, believe me.. but am very tired from the *** recieving..Please keep your comments to yourself, and stop hating on me becuase of the choices I make..I am sorry you can't deal with the race of a man I choose to be with.. but its my choice, not yours.. So if so bad, why would you waste your time sending me an *** it for someone else please..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Rochell

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I'd have to say I'm more "curvy" than "average" but that wasn't an option. I'm an independent woman but kind of an old fashioned gal too. I may initiate first contact if I'm feeling 'frisky', but my preference is a man who takes charge and initiates contact himself, so just because I don't contact first doesn't mean I'm not interested. But don't ask me to fall for you unless you plan to be there to catch me. I definitely don't consider myself an 'average' gal, I can be a little fiesty. My heart won't be given to just anyone, and I'm a little gun-shy so it might take me a while to get there, but when I do commit to someone, it's 150%. I've loved and lost; but I really do want to believe that there is still that magical, passionate, butterflies in my stomach, heart skip a beat when I hear your voice, knowing winks and stolen glances across a crowded room, can't wait to get my hands on you, kind of love out there for me somewhere. I'm growing cynical though, I haven't met anyone who could sweep me off my feet. Can you? I am happy and blessed and am passionate about life, I would like to have someone to share it with. Without question, the most important trait I’m looking for is good old fashioned honesty, and you can expect the same in return from me. And you must have the courage of your convictions! Aside from being a sports fanatic, I like to try/learn new things, enjoy good (intelligent) conversation, am not afraid of a heated (respectful) debate, and love to dance (especially to live music). I adore a good sense of humor, make me laugh and I'm yours, especially if you can laugh at yourself. Physical chemistry is also a must, but it's that 'connection' that will remain when looks fade.It would be fabulous to find someone who found my flaws endearing, and I his. I have high standards, I won't be satisfied until I find a man who can touch me; mind, body, and soul (notice the sequence there). I may be asking a lot and thereby narrowing the field, but in my book that's a good thing. I know what I want; but more importantly, I know what I don't want. If that means I never find what I'm looking for, so be it, but I won't settle for less. That said, I'm in NO rush. My life is great as is, I stay very busy, and finding a mate is not at the top of my priority list so sometimes I may be on here and sometimes not. I'm well aware that I'm not everyone's cup of tea and it's fine if I'm not yours, I'd rather be someone's shot of tequila anyway. ;)I find intelligence sexy, the occasional typo is to be expected but I appreciate well written profiles and e-mails. A "u" does not mean "you", it means someone is too lazy and disrespectful to type 2 extra characters. If tattoos are a deal breaker then I'm not the gal for you. Mine are very significant to me, only one is visible to the general public. If things progress, maybe you can go on a little scavenger hunt for the others. ;) If you would like a response from me, please have pictures, it's only fair. And guys, if all of your pic's are of you in sunglasses and a hat, do us gals a favor and post at least one without 'em. And I thought it should go without saying but apparently not; we really do not find shirtless bathroom mirror pic's attractive, most of us find them a turn-off.And bonus points if you're an asset in the Zombie Apocalypse. ;) A great date is more about the "who" than the "what", that being said, I appreciate creativity and uniqueness, but an acceptable first "meet" would be meeting for drinks at some place casual. A first "date" is a whole different story. ;)

  • Jason

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Just a simple woman, have too many interests and too much time on my hands, looking for someone to help change that.

  • Christen

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    The things I enjoy are reading, playing on the computer, spending time with family and friends. I enjoy listening to country music. My ideal first date would be a nice dinner, movie, flowers, long walks, getting to know each other better. We could go dancing or even have coffee.

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