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Jessia, 46

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About Me

I am a mother, sister, ex-wife, daughter, and a best friend. I am passionate, compassionate and loyal. Financially and mentally secure. I have been told that I can easily adapt to any situation which is a plus for me because I truly enjoy meeting all types of people and starting long lasting friendships.I believe in chemistry and am very romantic when in a relationship!! I love kissing and holding hands! I love the kind of 'feeling' when we are together and it seems like no one else is around and yet we could be surrounded by thousands of people, the look that melts and the touch that sends chills! CHEMISTRY is what can *** passion but ultimately I believe it is communication and the ability for both people to be honest and open about their feelings that is the glue and foundation of a real relationship! I think that two people can have similar values but, the two of you also have to agree on the priority of these values. God, love/spouse, family, healty life....good food and a great martini...just as an example..;)Running and walking are some things that I enjoy and try to do a couple times a week. I love anything outdoors in the summer. Not too much into camping but, I love to get up early on a warm sunny summer morning before anyone else is up and take a walk down by the beach. I am not really a winter/cold weather person although, I will spend time outside in the winter with the right person. I do have children and they are very important to me. Two are adults and out of the house and one still lives with me. I would like a man who believes not only in God but in God's Word. A man who is not afraid to admit when he is wrong and not afraid of a commitment. I am looking for a man who never forgets my birthday but conveniently never remembers my age;) I prefer to be in a long term, monogamous relationship. I am looking for ... a man who knows how to treat a lady, someone who is Secure, someone who is Emotionally Available (has moved on from the last relationship and doesn't compare everything we do to how they or she did it) and Emotionally Mature, hopefully you got all that out in highschool or college! I have a 24 year old son, a daughter who is 22, and 13 year old son. I would like someone who is mature enough to invest in a Long Term Relationship. Someone who is ready and willing to stand up for us as a couple. If you are still spending the Holidays with your ex wife "for the children", then I am not the girl for you. :) God Bless. I like going out, but don't want a guy who goes out to the bars with his buddies every Friday night! And, someone who knows how to communicate! It's not something you can learn from a book. Most of communication is seeking to understand what the other person is really saying, not just hearing what you want to hear and making assumptions from that! ;)Ars Amatoria

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Pamela

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    My crutches, scooter and boot are crazy attractive. In an effort to save us both time and effort, may I ask that you be real with me in your correspondence and your images. Your not doing yourself or me any favors by misrepresenting yourself. Don't say you are athletic if you over weight, don't post pictures of yourself at 30. I want to see what you look like now. Once you meet the cats out of the bag and relationships can not begin with deceit. I look exactly like my pictures. I would like it if you could say something more then Hi, when you text me. I have listed a ton of interests, so you should be able to find something in there that we have in common. Greetings, A little about me... I am missing something in this profile, I am not sure what. Perhaps you can help. I did my best to tell you about me, but I am not receiving many responses but people that are compatible with me. Perhaps I come across as to confident. I am most of the time. I am vulnerable like everyone at times. I really do look and feel, minus the broken ankle, better then ever. I am a fun, smart, educated, attractive woman that is full of energy, a zest for life and an imagination that is off the charts. I do work out, but prefer something that is fun like Zumba, Kick boxing and outdoor activities. I love the water... the beaches, lakes, rivers, water activities and eating food that comes out of the water! I am a Hybrid Geek. I am a programmer/Analyst... this profession was an accident. I am a Marketing and Real Estate Major. I have never met a stranger... so I am easy to talk to. I often find myself listening to a stranger’s life story in the grocery store. (Not kidding) I don't know what my future holds and that is so exciting. I don't know what I am a looking for but I know what I am not looking for. I don't have a list of requirements for a man. I have preferences, but the beauty of being human is that we are all so different. I am artistic and have lots of hobbies including painting on canvas, or anything that will sit still long enough.. graphics, remodeling and photography. I am very auditory and music of all types plays a major role in my life. Listening to live music hand hanging out with friend and family are some of my favorite pass times. I enjoy wine...; I am currently knocking items off my bucket list. There are still plenty of item left to do...whats on your list. *** My mind is 47 but my body and spirit are 40, I need you to keep up.***Experiencing the locals is one of the beauties of traveling. I prefer to find the dives, diners and drive-ins over franchises. Traveling can be as far away as France or a stay-cation where you go to a local town and discover the little jewels it has to offer. To me its all about the journey, experiencing new things. I can't think of anything I don't like to do. I love all foods, except Olives. I am separated all paperwork done... with no chance of reconciliation. I listed as dating but nothing serious. I am not oppose to a relationship, if I find the right person, sure I would go for it.'Does not want kids' - Does not mean you can't have them. I have grown step daughters and grand children. If you are only looking for sex or want a sugar momma, pass me by please! I am financially established and I prefer you are. My Preference: Your glass is half full. You have a passion for life. You have a life and friends: I think the best relationships come from two whole people that come together to share there lives.You like yourself, you are confident and caringIf you are self supportive.You have a since of humor and you laugh oftenOptimally you would be established in your career ,educated and be able to carry on an intelligent conversationYou are physically fit/active between 37 and 53 or at least look and act it, enjoy getting out and doing thing.*** My mind is 47 but my body and spirit are 40, I need you to keep up.*** Something in public. Meet for a drink, have dinner, coffee... What ever works at the time. I don't like to drag out conversations over ***, what's the point. You will know if you are compatible once you meet.****PRIVACY NOTICE:Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.

  • Cheyanne

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am a fun spontaneous person who likes to laugh. I like most people, have containable baggage and I am looking for the same in someone else. I have lots of friends and a variety of interests. I appreciate nature and like to hike and bike and would like to go camping again because I feel like I haven't done that nearly enough. I am not an adventure junkie but do like to get out and about, meet new people and visit places I have never been. I like simple things like Sunday morning visits to the farmers market, a front porch swing during a hell bending thunderstorm and day trips along blue highways with no particular destination in mind. I like scrabble, the sunday crossword and bloody marys but not necessarily in that order.I appreciate people that have raised children and understand the sacrifices and joys that come with parenting. Prefer someone that is kind, responsible and has an open mind and empathetic heart. I like to laugh out loud at stupid jokes and have been known to tell a few myself. The definition of masculinity for me is not a motorcycle as tolerance, patience and humor trump all toys. Interested in a normal guy that is a gentleman who can make me laugh until I cry. I think meeting for a drink in the evening or coffee on a lazy Sunday morning (after the crossword) could be fun.

  • Lucila

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am fun, bubbly, full of energy, never boring, love music,considerate, attractive, smart, generous, and have a heart of gold! I love people and love to make others laugh. Humor is very important Iin a relationship. Honesty is the best policy. I am young at heart and old enough to know better! IF you are NON- religious don't even bother- I am a strong believer in God. I enjoy the finer things in life, such as a classy restaurant with a good martini. Are there really any "good" guys left in this world- that aren't either married or gay?! So I am realizing 90% of the men on here are only looking for a booty call! If that is you- DONT CONTACT ME!!! I am so sick of the games....grow up- at 45 yrs of age that is all you want? HOw pathetic...there are other sites for that.....dial ***spank me!!! Don't waste my time. Red necks need not apply. ****WARNING**** I atoo nice~! Apparently men like women that are BI*CHES! Just a fair heads up. I am kind and treat others the way I want to be treated. I work out at the gym ***times a week, I wanjt a man to walk beside me , not 10 feet in front of me. I love to try new things. Life is short, lets live a little. I have a positive attitude and enjoy life. My only daughter just started college- so I am finally making time for me. Thanks for reading! OH***more thing.....MUST BE ROMANTIC and love to kiss.......just sayin. Heres a little tip for all you men: I am a professional photographer- and take it from me, a woman does not want to see pictures of you holding up a bloody fish, or a dead deer head, pictures of sunsets,or all the toys you own, or all your pets...pets are cute and all- but H E L L O!! this is a DATING site- we want to see pictures of YOU- all of you, close ups, full length, in a suit ,in jeans, in a baseball cap..anything that shows off your personality. OK- I guess I need to add a few more things......FIVE REQUIREMENTS I ASK OF YOU!! 1) MUST own a car, 2)MUST own a home (not live with your mother or have roommates- or live with your wife***MUST have a job. and 4) must NOT chew!- not very romantic - if I want to kiss you goodnight, and you forget to take out your chew- that will be a problem!!!) (and yes- this has happened to me not once -but twice! AND 5) Must have kids OVER THE AGE OF 16 or no kids at all. ( My only child is 20 and in college and I am looking for the same-) I want to spend time with just a man- just the 2 of us. I love kids to death but I am past that stage- yes I am selfish when it comes to my man! DRUG FREE AND DISEASE FREE- expect the same from you. For our first date......"Surprise me!!"

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