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Felina, 48
United States, Illinois, Centralia

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About Me

I love life, my children, my family, and my friends. I'm a very happy person who can have a good time wherever I go. I believe every situation is what you make of it! The true test of someone's character is not what happens to you in life, but how you choose to handle it. I am a very honest, trustworthy, loyal, generous, affectionate and loving person. I have a great sense of humor....what can I say, I'm perfect like everyone seems to be on dating sites! I am looking for someone that I connect with and we can start an honest relationship filled with laughter, communication and closeness. I am not interested in finding someone to seek to change them. I think to have a truly successful relationship with someone you have to accept all things about that person and vice versa! I love trying new things. I love anything to do with the water and being outside. I'm hoping to meet someone optimistic, with a great outlook on life. With two kids, two jobs, a house, dogs, etc., I have a very busy lifestyle and find it difficult to meet new people. So, I thought I would try this route because I'm curious where "40 somethings"! What can you really say in a paragraph about yourself, except that I think chemistry is really all that matters and if I could explain that I'd be a billionaire! Your profiles can match exactly and that doesn't mean a darn thing. In fact, most of the time opposites attract. It's just that feeling you get when you see someone. It can't be described, but we all know it and are here in search of it! The spark! I was a Navy submarine wife for 17 years, so I know how to be independent. That doesn't mean I don't want a man who holds my hand to lead me into a room and remembers to open my car door from time to time, etc. I also don't need a father figure, I already have the best dad in the world! And no, my children don't need a father either, they have a dad who loves them and lives nearby. I coached junior Olympic competitive gymnastics for 10 years and I really love working with kids, it's the greatest pleasure to coach kids and help them meet their goals! It's such a thrill. I really miss it, but I am thoroughly enjoying my free time! I love concerts, baseball games, pretty much any kind of social activity. I'm a big Yankees fan (sorry, but they do have the cutest players). I love cooking and entertaining, especially in the summer at my pool with friends and margaritas! Call me old fashioned, but I like it when the man plans the date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Vernetta from Centralia | Woman | 48 years old | Cancer
    Vernetta

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    UPDATE :....I m not like most women on here. I m a little more old fashion ...I m not going to text...call ...email...or ask you out first. I have been on n off this sight for way too long...no I m not anymore picky than you are.Well I m on the count down for deleting my account.wish everyone the best of luck.UPDATE ***I m giving this 3 more months and I will delete my account. Tired of all the BS. I truely want to believe someone on here was raised to resepct a woman.PPLEASE READ THERE MIGHT BE A TEST WHEN YOU FIRST *** SEE IF YOU REALLY READ PROFILES........ Well Guys I m back. After finding the wrong person on here again I m willing to try one last time.I m not looking for a one night stand. How can I ask you to respect me if I dont respect myself.I m pretty much country. But I can feel just as comfortable in short and a tshirt or a little black dress and heals.Guys these are pictures of me not of my cousin..lol) dont bother. I m a very outgoing LADY. I dont think I m average, but by no means am I big. I like to use the word fluffy...lolWe all are getting older and have it to show in one way or another. So if your looking for Barbie keep on looking.1) Hello Sexy....I m not Sexy I m Simple. Sexy is something you will or should determine after we meet and get to know eachother.2) I want to Make Love to you.....Dont you have to be in Love with someone to make Love to them???? I m a Lady. I m not a bible thumper, but I believe in god. I think for a relationship to last there has to be 3 people in it. The man the woman and God is the glue that holds it together.I m looking for love....and I would like to think I would fall in love with someone then make love to them....not have sex with them and the try to fall in love with them.I have seen it all on this sight and heard even more.Bottom line guys I m not looking for someone to live with.I m looking for that on guy who gives me chills when I see him calling.That guy I think about and a smile runs across my lips, thinking about our last kiss.I may be old but I still believe in romance. I want the fairy tale...true lasting love.So Guys if you made it this far thank you for taking the time to read my profile.If you ***, please if your not looking for the same then. Do us both a favor and save us both some time. And if all goes well with it than we can plan on the first date. Hope if it goes well we can watch the sun rise.

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  • Dollee from Centralia | Woman | 48 years old | Virgo
    Dollee

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    NO PIC NO ANSWER...PERIODHere we go again.... it has been interesting, and still is.. you can find ANY type of personality on here, it's amazing! Still looking for my perfect fit though :)Friendly, polite, caring, smart, straight forward and to the point, worldly (lived in 3 continents and talk 4 languages), wise and fun to be with! Originally from Switzerland, riding horses, working out, hiking, swimming, eating out and of course travelling. Love the beach, walk my dog spend time with friends and most of all, spend quality time with my daughter. Very energetic, love the outdoors. All races and single dad's are welcome to apply too!!

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  • Jerusha from Centralia | Woman | 46 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    In many ways, I am not your typical "gal." I would rather watch a gangster movie than a chick flick and I do not fit into your typical demographic for a woman my age, geographic location. I also enjoy old, low budget horror movies. The more obscure and cheesey the better.-wave) to old country and even a little folk and world music. I am a big sucker for 70's music. I have really gotten into trying out new genres and bands but I still cannot warm up to today's top 40, however I do like to explore modern alternative music.I do not have children. This is partly by choice. Please do not quiz me endlessly on this subject. Trust me, my uterus is not an interesting topic of conversation.I am divorced and am not looking for a serious relationship. I am very easy going and am interested in exploring new directions. I am who I am and am honest about what I want and like.... Good, bad or ugly. But I do not like to nor try to hurt people.I tend to be attracted to people who see things a little differently than most. A slightly sick or twisted sense of humor is a plus. If one of your goals in life is to own a Harley or you like "new" country music, I am sorry but you want a different woman. I am truly "drama free" as they say. I have a civil relationship with my ex and I lead a pretty laid back life. Making more stress and strife for myself would just sap me of energy I need for other things. However, if you are a guy who states "I am looking for no drama" that usually tells me that you are attracted to exactly that type of woman,,,,,, you can't help it and you may not even realize it.If you put me in your "favorites" but do not message me, I will not contact you. If you are too shy to contact me directly, then I am not for you, anyway. I think the whole favorites thing is kind of creepy. Also, IF YOU HAVE NO PICTURES POSTED, I WILL NOT CONTACT YOU!!!!!!! Let me repeat that. IF YOU HAVE NO PICTURES POSTED, I WILL NOT CONTACT YOU!!!!!!! I like to chat and have good conversations, text messages, etc. but I am not on here to be a pen pal. I am not a big fan of endless messaging. Let's just meet like they did in the old days and take things from there. And if you are just looking for a text buddy, for whatever reason, I will sniff you out pretty quickly and will just stop communicating.You should have enough of my pictures to base an opinion on, regarding how I appear physically. I understand there must be a physical atrraction but the pictures I have posted should cover all the bases. If you ask for more, I will just assume you are not serious about meeting in person. If you want to see the real thing, try to meet me in person. Pictures don't tell the whole story, anyway.Animals are a big part of my life. I am quite involved in a rescue. If you have no pets that's fine. It is better that someone doesn't have pets because they could not or would not take on the responsibility than have them and not take care of them..... just like kids. If you have made it this far, coffee, ice cream or a couple of drinks at a semi-quiet or relaxed location would probably be best. If you make me laugh like crazy and are smart it doesn't matter what or where the date is.

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