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Marva, 46
United States, Illinois, Centralia

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About Me

If you selected "I want a relationship" from the above, there's a good chance we're looking for the same thing. With the right person. I don't have a lot of preconceived notions as to who I am looking for, but if you have children it helps provide a certain mutual perspective. As does kindness, honesty, and good senses of adventure and humor. I spend a lot of time with my children and friends, and am very active. I have a yoga practice that I'm trying to be consistent about. I think it's interesting that this site draws a line at "Drink Socially" and "Often" where "Often"=>3x/week". I probably have a glass of wine or beer just about every night (so, um, 7x/week). I consider myself a social drinker. Not so sure what Dr Oz would say. I listen to NPR, and turn on the music when it gets redundant, or during membership drives (after I've renewed my own membership, of course). I like the way it enables me to multitask (fix breakfast+lunch AND get the news). I do not ***, but actively follow a few important accounts *** let's me know when Alternate Side Parking is suspended or not); *** makes me laugh (sometimes) and I think it's neat that God *** me.I love a good story, from a book, movie, play, song or friend (or a really great, perfectly delivered joke; I can take them but I can't tell 'em). And I love the different ways that stories move us. Apparently, I'm big on parentheses (see above). Ideally, once we have established via *** that we are interested in meeting one another, we'll figure out a time and place to make it happen. Nothing fancy, just some place where we can talk and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electronic R&B Ice Hockey
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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

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    I woke this morning with every intention of writing a new personal ad filled with keen insights and witty narrative. After sitting here for what seemed an eternity and more cross outs on the page than words I decided to lace up my nike’s and head to the gym. A good run should clear my head. Ok now I’ve knocked out 3.5miles and threw in a few pull-ups and abdominals for good measure, but still to my dismay I stare at a blank page. What I heard was so true, fabulous movie if you have not caught it yet I would highly recommend it, I would so go to see it again. Perhaps we can see it together? Ah but I digress, back to topic me, me, me and you. Where to start? What to include? How to tie it all together in a vibrant red bow? Do I start by saying “Curvy blond bombshell, fit (great abs)”… no, to conceited. Maybe I should add “looks great in a little black dress or sweat pants”.. no, to cliche. Wow would you look at the time, the whole day gone and I’ve only written 2 paragraphs and now it’s time for the game. Ok, so it looks like cliche is wining out… in closing compassionate, vibrant, sometimes verbose woman looking for her match. If you like pina colada’s and walks in the rain; hey if I’m going to be cliche I might as well go for it. Could this be you? Stop reading and hit the little envelope shaped button and let’s start the conversation because this has been so one sided! :) ***UPDATE: I've had a few people tell me that from my pictures and literacy level (somewhat confused on how that ties in) that I come across as "high maintenance". If taking care of myself emotionally, physically, intellectually and spiritually means high maintenance than I am guilty as charged. I would like to note though that I am not afraid to be seen in public with no make-up and rocking a ponytail... I'll leave that up to him..... Note - Sorry guys but only interested in men in my age range ***that I have things in common with (i.e. confident, bold, high energy level, active, attractive, intelligent, successful career, optimist, lighthearted, affectionate, compassionate, respectful, spontaneous, family oriented). Best of luck to you in your search.

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  • Mariam from Centralia | Woman | 50 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Am looking for a good black man Who wants a good woman. One who is responsible in and out of the home.. Must enjoy spending time with family as well as spending time with me alone. I have a lot to offer as well as you as well. I enjoy many things in life and would love to share that with a special black man.. I dont need a lot, just someone to care about me as I care for you.. am not materialistic, dont need much to make me happy..just someone to make me happy, by showing you really care.. please no drugs, very against that.. Am a mother who trys to teach my girls what is right in life.. And might say they have turned out pretty good, raising them alone.. If you are interested please feel free to respond.. please note I only date black men.. no disrespect to my race.. just my preference. one more point.. If you have a hard time accepting me dating black men please keep your feelings to yourself.. I dont care to read what I am doing wrong, cause know I can make any choice that i choose.. please dont be judgemental of anyone till you know them. we are all different no matter what color or race that we are.. sorry you werent taught that, but I was and taught my kids as well.. so please respect me, because I would never disrespect anyone for their choices in life as long as they are happy... An all am looking for is happiness, and who i Choose is a choice i have made.Ok.. guess have to say it one more time.. not trying to be mean, believe me.. but am very tired from the *** recieving..Please keep your comments to yourself, and stop hating on me becuase of the choices I make..I am sorry you can't deal with the race of a man I choose to be with.. but its my choice, not yours.. So if so bad, why would you waste your time sending me an *** it for someone else please..

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