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Shandi, 47

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About Me

I am Smart, Attractive, In Shape and Independent Seeking a good natured person to share the usual dating activities with. Please be convenient to the Upper west side. To continue....I prefer simple pleasures, but also fit well in sophisticated settings. I like casual environments and dress, Indies, classic rock, modern dance recitals, off B'way. (no musicals!) I enjoy my quiet evenings. But it would be nice to enjoy them WITH someone romantically.I work out regularly to keep myself fit and sane. you must be someone who also takes good care of himself! Let's meet and see how it goes. Hopefully you are in the same place. on a first date I would like to meet for a light bite, just have a meal, a look see for an hour or two, and decide if we want to go out again.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Karren

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Not really sure what to put so here it goes..I'm not anything spectacular.. I'm pretty laid back and easy going. I have my faults but who doesn't. I am very affectionate with a big heart (too big for my own good sometimes). I am probably what you would call a hopeless romantic and would love to have the fairytale ending .....I love to laugh (especially at myself)... I enjoy a quiet evening at home or a wild night on the town. Cuddling up on the couch with a horror flick (or cheesy slasher film) with a bowl of popcorn is a nice end to a hectic work week. I enjoy all types of music and love to dance. Nothing beats a live band though.Family and friends are very important to me, as is my dog... so if you don't like dogs.. then perhaps you should move on..Fall is my favorite season, and with fall comes Football!! I am a huge Vikings fan... whether they are doing well or not.... Harvin.... my favs. Well... til they got rid of Harvin... Camping.. fishing...walks in the woods or walks on the beach. A long drive on a sunny day... just to see where the road takes me..Would like to find someone that is not afraid to show public affection... hold my hand... give me a hug. Honesty is a must... .So cliche but ~ seriously ~ if you're looking for the "booty call" or the FWB... I'm really not interested...thanks ~ first date could be lunch.. coffee.. dinner.. a drink...somewhere we have a chance to chat and see where things go ...

  • Beula

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Hi there! I am an energetic, active, always on the go and independent woman who is for the most part, happy with my life and who I've become. They keep telling me I'm 50, but I just don't feel 50! Friends and coworkers describe me as outgoing, loyal, trustworthy, pragmatic, witty, silly, fun loving, and intelligent. And if that wasn't enough, I consider myself to be a good combination of motivated, yet still easy going. (which translates to Low Maintenance for you fellas!) All that, but I'm still not perfect....however, I will go out on a limb and guarantee that your Mom/Grandma/Sister(s)/Cousin(s)/Friend(s)will like me. Yup, I'm that girl!I've been divorced now for 10 years. My daughters are now 21 and 23, and they have their own very active lives, so they don't need me as much. I find that I have a lot more time on my hands these days. I am looking forward to starting the 2nd half of my life, and relocation is absolutely a possibility. I love to travel, explore new things, and am pretty much willing to try anything at least once. Of course, the excursion into that cave was very scary, I don't know who was more scared, me or the teeny, tiny little bats!.. well... let's just say it was not an ESPN moment! =) I love to laugh and make others laugh, comedy clubs are probably my favorite place as far as "going out" is concerned. Tell me a good "Blonde Joke" and you will win me over in a heartbeat! I like the outdoors, but honestly prefer cooler weather over really hot weather. Although if boating is part of the equation, the heat magically becomes more tolerable! I have a caring and nurturing personality, and really miss having someone to spoil in my life. I'm pretty "touchy feely", so if that makes you uncomfortable, I'm not for you! Kids and animals are drawn to me and I've been told that I've never met a stranger. To me, having fun is not what I'm doing, but who I'm with. That being said, look out, because we just might have the time of our lives together when and where you least expect it!I've been fortunate enough to have traveled extensively and have dined in some of the finest restaurants. But, honestly, what I prefer is the casualness of a back deck with a bottle of wine, a few laughs and someone who's company I enjoy.I like most kinds of music, probably with the exception of really "twangy" country and opera. Other than that, I'm open. I'm not much of a TV watcher, unless you will sit with me on the couch! When I do watch, I tend to gravitate towards shows like Law and Order, CSI, Dateline, ***, CNN and the DIY channel. I'm not a big movie watcher, it just might be that tiny little bit of ADHD in me! I can definitely be convinced to watch a movie with you, but only if you let me cuddle next to you. Certainly not a couch potato, and I've never been called lazy. I'd rather watch you and/or the kids play sports than watch it on TV, but I will oblige you if it makes you happy.We're probably not a match if you are a huge fan of Hannity/O'Reilly/Limbaugh et al. Unless of course, (and this is HUGE....) you are man enough to "agree to disagree"! Now I know that's difficult, and at this point I've probably lost over half of you.....but if you can do that, you get BIG BIG bonus points in my book! Life is about compromise, and to think that at this age we are going to meet someone who thinks exactly as we do is just plain silly. I have golf clubs but do not yet know how to play, so even more bonus points for you if you want to teach me. I'm active and healthy, but honestly I just don't seem to make enough time for exercise, mostly because I hate doing it alone. So... for anyone willing to take on the role of Personal Trainer, well, that just has "win-win" written all over it!One important thing that I've learned in my life is that relationships thrive when two people are NOT always together. I truly believe that each of us needs to maintain our own interests and lives to a certain degree, that makes it all the more special when we are together. So, if golf on Saturday morning, or Poker with the guys on Wednesday nights is your thing, that's fine by me. I am not clingy by nature, and don't want someone who needs to be with me all the time either.What am I looking for? I'd like to meet ONE man to be with, preferably a nonsmoker, someone who doesn't feel like a "victim", doesn't hate their ex or think that the government is out to get him, and is willing to start out slow and see where things go. I'm not interested in "dating" or the bar scene, been there, done that. Don't get me wrong, I had TONS of fun when I was younger, and I have absolutely NO REGRETS. I enjoy current events and crave stimulating conversation, I need humor (even if it means you are laughing at me), I long for friendship, and I absolutely demand and deliver loyalty. If you can be all those things for me, then I promise you won't be disappointed with what you will get in return! Our first meeting will be as stress free as possible, somewhere so we can get to know each other a little, and determine if there's any chemistry. Then we'll know if we want to go out on a Date!

  • Ossie

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am outgoing with a shy side.The friends I make are dedicated and for life, cause I value trust and honesty. I raised a awesome son, and now I am on my own living my life as a single woman. Just missing one piece to the puzzle. Is it you? I renjoy classic rock, pop, and very little country. I like to curl up and watch a good movie. I am NOT into head game. Ask me anything,and I promise to answer appropriate questions. When I find that special person, I am deadicated to him, and I expect the same from him. I will not answer any messages from man without a picture First dates can be awkward. So for our first meeting, I just sooner go to a coffee shop and chat,maybe a movie and just get to know you better.

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