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Joy, 50

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Hi there. Thanks for looking at my profile. I'm a divorced mom of 2 great kids ***and ***They're my first priority. Sorry, but that's non-negotiable. I am, however, extremely talented in multi-tasking and have time to dedicate to a relationship.I'm of Italian descent and originally from NY, with a very sarcastic sense of humor. I'm warm, passionate, loving, honest, confident, generous, loyal and above all; always myself. I'm looking for a relationship with a man who understands the life of a working single mom. I take very good care of myself and am in the best shape of my life. My photos are very recent; haven't gained a pound. I love working out at the gym ***days a week), walking my yellow lab (almost everyday). I eat very healthy, but still enjoy my daily glass of wine and occasional dessert. My favorite foods are sushi, steak, and italian. I'm open to trying any restaurant and also like cooking at home. I recently bought golf clubs and am learning to play. My kids play and basically every man I meet, so I thought it was time.I'm interested in finding a man who wants to be in a relationship with one woman. I know what I'm looking for and don't plan on settling. I'm very happy on my own. I don't need a man, but would really like someone special in my life. I think we should learn something from every failed relationship. The following has resulted in some pretty rude responses from those offended by it. I apologize, but have been at this for awhile and really don't want to waste mine or anyone else's time. If you're not interested, I'd prefer it if you didn't respond.Please DO NOT contact me if:1) you're just here to play the field.2) you're not financially stable; you don't have to be wealthy, just stable; own your home, very little or no debt, have some sort of savings, can afford to send your kids to college and do some traveling (with me). Not looking for a "sugar daddy". I AM financially stable. I'd like to meet someone who I can enjoy life with and not expect me to pay for him. I do, however, believe that gentlemen should pay for dinner, drinks...3) you're dishonest in your profile (old photos).4) cheated on your wife (ever) or are not yet divorced.; (I'm that height in heels); are overweight and don't workout regularly.6) post photos of you holding a fish, sitting on a motorcycle, in your underwear, or taken by you in your bathroom mirror.7) you have an incurable std.8) you're in recovery of ANY addiction.Lastly, while I'm very flattered to receive *** you younger guys, please don't contact me if you're under the age of ***or over the age of 54). I great first date for me would be meeting at a nice restaurant with a bar for a glass of wine. . If things are going great, maybe we can order something to eat. I'm really not interested in meeting for coffee or for wings and beer (yes, I've been asked).

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

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