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Ellyn, 50

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About Me

I am a very happy go lucky person..takes a lot to bring me down.. People say they notice my smile first... It's always there.... Young kid at heart, love to just take off and do things on the spur of moment,enjoy concerts, hockey games and baseball too!,love street fairs, kayaking ( have my own) floating down a river and having the sun on you, enjoying the sights and sounds.and enjoying who you are with!! exploring small towns, parks really any thing that give me something to do! But I have to admit I wear my heart on my sleeve ......and this is what I truly wish for.........Every woman deserves a man who calls her baby, kisses her like he means it, holds her tight like he never wants to let go, doesn't make her jealous of other women, *** other women jealous of her, is not scared to let his friends know how he really feels about her, and lets her know how much he really cares......I'm not into playing games...don't hide behind text..this is NOT HIGH SChOOL anymore !! My heart gets hurt just like yours.. Yours may be a little tougher tho !! I would like the man to plan it ...... Casual is great...up to pretty much anything .....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lacylou

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-34

    Hi! My name is Lacylou. I am divorced other caucasian woman with kids from Centralia, Illinois, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Suzette

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I woke this morning with every intention of writing a new personal ad filled with keen insights and witty narrative. After sitting here for what seemed an eternity and more cross outs on the page than words I decided to lace up my nike’s and head to the gym. A good run should clear my head. Ok now I’ve knocked out 3.5miles and threw in a few pull-ups and abdominals for good measure, but still to my dismay I stare at a blank page. What I heard was so true, fabulous movie if you have not caught it yet I would highly recommend it, I would so go to see it again. Perhaps we can see it together? Ah but I digress, back to topic me, me, me and you. Where to start? What to include? How to tie it all together in a vibrant red bow? Do I start by saying “Curvy blond bombshell, fit (great abs)”… no, to conceited. Maybe I should add “looks great in a little black dress or sweat pants”.. no, to cliche. Wow would you look at the time, the whole day gone and I’ve only written 2 paragraphs and now it’s time for the game. Ok, so it looks like cliche is wining out… in closing compassionate, vibrant, sometimes verbose woman looking for her match. If you like pina colada’s and walks in the rain; hey if I’m going to be cliche I might as well go for it. Could this be you? Stop reading and hit the little envelope shaped button and let’s start the conversation because this has been so one sided! :) ***UPDATE: I've had a few people tell me that from my pictures and literacy level (somewhat confused on how that ties in) that I come across as "high maintenance". If taking care of myself emotionally, physically, intellectually and spiritually means high maintenance than I am guilty as charged. I would like to note though that I am not afraid to be seen in public with no make-up and rocking a ponytail... I'll leave that up to him..... Note - Sorry guys but only interested in men in my age range ***that I have things in common with (i.e. confident, bold, high energy level, active, attractive, intelligent, successful career, optimist, lighthearted, affectionate, compassionate, respectful, spontaneous, family oriented). Best of luck to you in your search.

  • Rochell

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I'd have to say I'm more "curvy" than "average" but that wasn't an option. I'm an independent woman but kind of an old fashioned gal too. I may initiate first contact if I'm feeling 'frisky', but my preference is a man who takes charge and initiates contact himself, so just because I don't contact first doesn't mean I'm not interested. But don't ask me to fall for you unless you plan to be there to catch me. I definitely don't consider myself an 'average' gal, I can be a little fiesty. My heart won't be given to just anyone, and I'm a little gun-shy so it might take me a while to get there, but when I do commit to someone, it's 150%. I've loved and lost; but I really do want to believe that there is still that magical, passionate, butterflies in my stomach, heart skip a beat when I hear your voice, knowing winks and stolen glances across a crowded room, can't wait to get my hands on you, kind of love out there for me somewhere. I'm growing cynical though, I haven't met anyone who could sweep me off my feet. Can you? I am happy and blessed and am passionate about life, I would like to have someone to share it with. Without question, the most important trait I’m looking for is good old fashioned honesty, and you can expect the same in return from me. And you must have the courage of your convictions! Aside from being a sports fanatic, I like to try/learn new things, enjoy good (intelligent) conversation, am not afraid of a heated (respectful) debate, and love to dance (especially to live music). I adore a good sense of humor, make me laugh and I'm yours, especially if you can laugh at yourself. Physical chemistry is also a must, but it's that 'connection' that will remain when looks fade.It would be fabulous to find someone who found my flaws endearing, and I his. I have high standards, I won't be satisfied until I find a man who can touch me; mind, body, and soul (notice the sequence there). I may be asking a lot and thereby narrowing the field, but in my book that's a good thing. I know what I want; but more importantly, I know what I don't want. If that means I never find what I'm looking for, so be it, but I won't settle for less. That said, I'm in NO rush. My life is great as is, I stay very busy, and finding a mate is not at the top of my priority list so sometimes I may be on here and sometimes not. I'm well aware that I'm not everyone's cup of tea and it's fine if I'm not yours, I'd rather be someone's shot of tequila anyway. ;)I find intelligence sexy, the occasional typo is to be expected but I appreciate well written profiles and e-mails. A "u" does not mean "you", it means someone is too lazy and disrespectful to type 2 extra characters. If tattoos are a deal breaker then I'm not the gal for you. Mine are very significant to me, only one is visible to the general public. If things progress, maybe you can go on a little scavenger hunt for the others. ;) If you would like a response from me, please have pictures, it's only fair. And guys, if all of your pic's are of you in sunglasses and a hat, do us gals a favor and post at least one without 'em. And I thought it should go without saying but apparently not; we really do not find shirtless bathroom mirror pic's attractive, most of us find them a turn-off.And bonus points if you're an asset in the Zombie Apocalypse. ;) A great date is more about the "who" than the "what", that being said, I appreciate creativity and uniqueness, but an acceptable first "meet" would be meeting for drinks at some place casual. A first "date" is a whole different story. ;)

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