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Rochell, 46
United States, Illinois, Centralia

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About Me

I'd have to say I'm more "curvy" than "average" but that wasn't an option. I'm an independent woman but kind of an old fashioned gal too. I may initiate first contact if I'm feeling 'frisky', but my preference is a man who takes charge and initiates contact himself, so just because I don't contact first doesn't mean I'm not interested. But don't ask me to fall for you unless you plan to be there to catch me. I definitely don't consider myself an 'average' gal, I can be a little fiesty. My heart won't be given to just anyone, and I'm a little gun-shy so it might take me a while to get there, but when I do commit to someone, it's 150%. I've loved and lost; but I really do want to believe that there is still that magical, passionate, butterflies in my stomach, heart skip a beat when I hear your voice, knowing winks and stolen glances across a crowded room, can't wait to get my hands on you, kind of love out there for me somewhere. I'm growing cynical though, I haven't met anyone who could sweep me off my feet. Can you? I am happy and blessed and am passionate about life, I would like to have someone to share it with. Without question, the most important trait I’m looking for is good old fashioned honesty, and you can expect the same in return from me. And you must have the courage of your convictions! Aside from being a sports fanatic, I like to try/learn new things, enjoy good (intelligent) conversation, am not afraid of a heated (respectful) debate, and love to dance (especially to live music). I adore a good sense of humor, make me laugh and I'm yours, especially if you can laugh at yourself. Physical chemistry is also a must, but it's that 'connection' that will remain when looks fade.It would be fabulous to find someone who found my flaws endearing, and I his. I have high standards, I won't be satisfied until I find a man who can touch me; mind, body, and soul (notice the sequence there). I may be asking a lot and thereby narrowing the field, but in my book that's a good thing. I know what I want; but more importantly, I know what I don't want. If that means I never find what I'm looking for, so be it, but I won't settle for less. That said, I'm in NO rush. My life is great as is, I stay very busy, and finding a mate is not at the top of my priority list so sometimes I may be on here and sometimes not. I'm well aware that I'm not everyone's cup of tea and it's fine if I'm not yours, I'd rather be someone's shot of tequila anyway. ;)I find intelligence sexy, the occasional typo is to be expected but I appreciate well written profiles and e-mails. A "u" does not mean "you", it means someone is too lazy and disrespectful to type 2 extra characters. If tattoos are a deal breaker then I'm not the gal for you. Mine are very significant to me, only one is visible to the general public. If things progress, maybe you can go on a little scavenger hunt for the others. ;) If you would like a response from me, please have pictures, it's only fair. And guys, if all of your pic's are of you in sunglasses and a hat, do us gals a favor and post at least one without 'em. And I thought it should go without saying but apparently not; we really do not find shirtless bathroom mirror pic's attractive, most of us find them a turn-off.And bonus points if you're an asset in the Zombie Apocalypse. ;) A great date is more about the "who" than the "what", that being said, I appreciate creativity and uniqueness, but an acceptable first "meet" would be meeting for drinks at some place casual. A first "date" is a whole different story. ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    UPDATE :....I m not like most women on here. I m a little more old fashion ...I m not going to text...call ...email...or ask you out first. I have been on n off this sight for way too long...no I m not anymore picky than you are.Well I m on the count down for deleting my account.wish everyone the best of luck.UPDATE ***I m giving this 3 more months and I will delete my account. Tired of all the BS. I truely want to believe someone on here was raised to resepct a woman.PPLEASE READ THERE MIGHT BE A TEST WHEN YOU FIRST *** SEE IF YOU REALLY READ PROFILES........ Well Guys I m back. After finding the wrong person on here again I m willing to try one last time.I m not looking for a one night stand. How can I ask you to respect me if I dont respect myself.I m pretty much country. But I can feel just as comfortable in short and a tshirt or a little black dress and heals.Guys these are pictures of me not of my cousin..lol) dont bother. I m a very outgoing LADY. I dont think I m average, but by no means am I big. I like to use the word fluffy...lolWe all are getting older and have it to show in one way or another. So if your looking for Barbie keep on looking.1) Hello Sexy....I m not Sexy I m Simple. Sexy is something you will or should determine after we meet and get to know eachother.2) I want to Make Love to you.....Dont you have to be in Love with someone to make Love to them???? I m a Lady. I m not a bible thumper, but I believe in god. I think for a relationship to last there has to be 3 people in it. The man the woman and God is the glue that holds it together.I m looking for love....and I would like to think I would fall in love with someone then make love to them....not have sex with them and the try to fall in love with them.I have seen it all on this sight and heard even more.Bottom line guys I m not looking for someone to live with.I m looking for that on guy who gives me chills when I see him calling.That guy I think about and a smile runs across my lips, thinking about our last kiss.I may be old but I still believe in romance. I want the fairy tale...true lasting love.So Guys if you made it this far thank you for taking the time to read my profile.If you ***, please if your not looking for the same then. Do us both a favor and save us both some time. And if all goes well with it than we can plan on the first date. Hope if it goes well we can watch the sun rise.

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Looking for a friendship… I believe that’s the best way to start anything! Then we can move on from that and see where things take us....Profiles are hard to fill out. They do not capture the inner person! Looking for someone fun, interesting, caring with some humor. To share a few laughs, enjoy one another's company in the great outdoors or just inside spending time together chatting over dinner, watching a movie, simple things. Needing someone who brings life back to me it's been missing for way too long! Life can be busy at times for me, so not always available that's something we will have to work out together..I like the things mentioned above and I'm always open to new adventures ... that's what life is about....Let's chat and see what we have in common and go from that !! keep it simple..... :)

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

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