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Raisa, 50
United States, Illinois, Centralia

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About Me

I don't know about you but I find this difficult. What do you say to get someone's attention? But not just ANYone's attention. The right one. That special one. You've got a 60 second window to communicate all the great things about you that your friends and family already know from years of experience. Add to that the cheesy phone *** never seem to highlight your 'best side'. I get it.So, I'll break the ice, as it were. I like gardening. Fine wine. Good beer. Cooking. Manners. People who know and appreciate their roots. People who know how to relax and laugh. And those who know when to pause for a solemn moment. I enjoy those who respect old people, love the furry people (read pets), and enjoy the little people (read children). I like to give back to the community whenever I can. I like to go to the farmers market and support/interact with the folks who nourish us. I love the idea of reconnecting with our community via charity work. I cherish the time when neighbors cared about each other and expressed interest in each others well being and place in the community. About me. I've been through a rough three years with my ex husband. I've managed to fight the urge to become a man-hating super diva. Don't get me wrong, I've got lots of diva going on. But hating is just not my style. I'm working towards being the best me I can become. I'm taking an active role in my health. I'm embracing my 'singleness'. I'm embarking on new adventures. I've started to sing...even though my cats have requested that I stop. In short, I'm a work in progress. You may pause briefly to take my measure. But be advised, I'll be different tomorrow. Catch me if you can.**AND For those of you who are "not looking for anything serious..." F*** you. Relationships are serious. Man up, already. If something is worth having then it's worth working for. If you're looking for easy then buy some porn and leave me be. Cheers Maybe just a short meeting for a drink. Let's see if we click. Let's see if we clash. Somewhere quiet where we can get to know each other without a lot of distractions (live bands, scantily clad waitresses, dancing clowns,etc).

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Skyla from Centralia | Woman | 46 years old | Gemini
    Skyla

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Hi guys.. hope you are enjoying your day.. I enjoy being outdoors, love weekends away to different places and trying new things. I am up for anything new and exciting that life has to offer. I have decided to go back to college and change my career. I will be done with my bachelor’s degree this year and looking forward to it. I love being around people and making new friends wherever I go. I like all kinds of music but I mostly listen to classic rock. I am constantly joking around and enjoy making people laugh.. Life is too short to be serious all the time... ;)I am looking for a man with a great sense of humor or at least pretends to laugh when I say something funny ;) I am extremely easy going so I am looking for someone that has that same trait as well.. I have had two long term serious relationships from this site so I am convinced this site works as long as you are both looking for the same things.. Hopefully this will be my last time in the fish pond... ;) Happy fishing.. :)Please note: If you are still married and living with your wife I am NOT interested...****PRIVACY NOTICE:Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one. Our first date doesnt have to be adventurous and exciting, if we grow into a relationship I will never forget the first date regardless of what we do.

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  • Dorinda from Centralia | Woman | 49 years old | Scorpio
    Dorinda

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I'm new in the area & ready to get out & enjoy life! I'm not into the bar scene, game players, or friends with benefits!! I'm old school, VERY honest & have a big heart unless I'm toyed with, then you better run, lol.My dog is my baby & goes almost everywhere with me.I am a smoker & usually only date the same.I respect & love animals & nature, I like a variety of music, rock-n-roll being my fav.I enjoy cooking, especially with a partner! Drinking wine, & an occasional night on the town. Go on a hike or drive or over for dinner

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  • Ossie from Centralia | Woman | 47 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am outgoing with a shy side.The friends I make are dedicated and for life, cause I value trust and honesty. I raised a awesome son, and now I am on my own living my life as a single woman. Just missing one piece to the puzzle. Is it you? I renjoy classic rock, pop, and very little country. I like to curl up and watch a good movie. I am NOT into head game. Ask me anything,and I promise to answer appropriate questions. When I find that special person, I am deadicated to him, and I expect the same from him. I will not answer any messages from man without a picture First dates can be awkward. So for our first meeting, I just sooner go to a coffee shop and chat,maybe a movie and just get to know you better.

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