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Marian, 47
United States, Illinois, Carterville

Offline, last seen Sat, 20 Jun 2026 06:35:44

About Me

I am a very positive person who loves to laugh and can always find something to laugh about on a daily basis. I am looking for someone who knows how to enjoy life and does not worry or stress about things you cannot control. Life is to short to spend it worrying! I work hard in my career to support myself and my 16 year old son, and I like to enjoy my time off. I am looking for someone who likes to have fun and wants a relationship without drama. Passion yes!! Drama no!!!!!!I love the outdoors! I like to be active and I workout when time allows, whether its a full workout, long bike ride, or long walk on the beach. I love music! I like all types of music and spend a lot of time in the summer at outdoor concerts. I play the piano and write lyrics. I LOVE to cook! Eating out is nice, but eating in and cooking for a friend or boyfriend is fun for me! I also loved to be cooked for or cook together with a friend. I am a positive thinker and have learned I do not want to be friends or have a relationship with a negative thinker. Life is too short and negative thinking is a waste of time. When in the right relationship, I am a very affectionate giving personI hope to find someone who I can connect with as a friend and then see where it goes from there.Note...please do not.send messages in the middle of the night asking me why I am on so latte. My phone stays logged in some times and it looks like I am online when. i am not. Believe me, I do not stay on this awful site 24 hours. Day...lol Coffee or drink with the possibility of a longer date if both agree.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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