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Mertie, 50
United States, Illinois, Carlinville

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About Me

~ This is hard for me, I could write a book about myself. There's no fun in that. You would know too much already... Lol Here is a GLIMPSE. ~ My Moto is to LIVE, LOVE, and LAUGH...-one. I am grateful every morning I open my big brown eyes and see my feline babies waiting for Momma to wake up and play.. ~ First let me say I am loyal to a fault, and want the same in return. TRUST is Essential in a relationship, respect, honesty...~ I'm 50 and single starting on a new path in life. I’m currently a full time student pursuing a new career. I am highly artistic , creative, energetic, love life, and so much more. My goal is to have my own business. ~ My hobbies are photography, cooking, writing, interior decorating and much more. I have a spontaneous side, I am committed to all I do I'm always willing to try new adventures as long as it doesn’t involve risking my life. Lol~ I'm a down to earth, independent, intelligent woman with a good sense of humor, life is to short so being happy, fun, and silly makes the days easier. and serious when the situation calls for it, ~ I love music, concerts, the theater going to movies, (I pretty much like all genres in both music and movies) reading, I love to cook...I love I am grateful for the life, good bad, and indifferent times I have experienced. I am grateful for what but most of all who I have in my life. I'm looking for someone to date and spend time with, take one day at a time and see what destiny has in store for us. I believe in taking one day at a time and letting life take its course, things happen for a reason even though we may not like the outcome .Its part of a bigger picture. There is so much more to say, just ask and you shall receive. I believe in my creator and without him I wouldn't have survived all that I have. It hasn't killed me , so it's made me stronger. My faith keeps strong and lifts me in the hard times as well. ~ Wishing all Peace, Love and Joy ....~ LRMM.... (Does anyone know what this stands for ?) P.S. If you drink socially and can't live without it in a day, please move on .I am not the Gal for you . P.S.S - If I don't respond to an *** 24 hours don't block me as a user its and YOUR LOSS. I am not conceded just comfy in my own shoes. P.S.S.S I don't recommend staying up late to read, change, upload pix to profile, it requires more coffee the next morning... Hehe (insert humor)Good Luck in your search ***\\***Please***\\\***Put This***On Your***Account If***You Know***\\\***Someone***\\***Who Died***\***Of***\\\***Cancer***\\\***Or who maybe suffering from it***\\\***Or is a survivor! Something simple, mutual decision.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Kate from Carlinville | Woman | 49 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    If you're married and/or looking for a one night stand no need to continue. I'm looking for a relationship as well as a friendship.....I'm not into dating a bunch. I'm just coming out of a 20 year marriage where I had neither for many years.....coexisted for the kids. I'm looking for companionship and romance as well as being able to laugh and have fun. I am not a bar scene person and I'm not a partier....I am very simple, casual, and easy going.....I just want to be able to be me. I am not a drama queen, princess or diva....I'm all about comfort. I tend to be shy at first until I get to know someone then look out! I have two teenagers that live with me full time and they are my life. Very casual, perhaps just coffee, meeting at a mutual place to talk and get to know one another. Hopefully laugh and create a friendship.

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  • Veta from Carlinville | Woman | 47 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    No city for me.. I hunt, fish, hike, camp, horseback ride (I have 3) and snorkel. I like to travel, just get in my truck and go and where ever I end up well I spend a few days. I also like to just relax at home with a good movie, or pack my truck up with a cooler and chairs and head to the Drive-in. I hate to cook that does not mean I can't cook. I'm really am a good cook but since my children have gone and left me I just don't do it anymore. But I have to say I'm a new grandma and now I love spending time with my grandson he brings joy in my life. Meet and take the dogs for a walk in the park,or Conversation over a nice bottle of blended red wine.

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  • Lakiesha from Carlinville | Woman | 48 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Smart, Sassy, quick witted, funny, committed Christian looking for the same. I'm a middle school band/chorus/theater teacher with a degree in vocal performance. I like to try new things and consider myself to be adventurous. I've been to Africa, Germany and Honduras and would love to travel to even more places if given the opportunity. I have a large family and we are all very close. I spend quite a bit of time with my niece and nephew...taking them to all the latest family-friendly movies. We like to go to amusement parks or the gym together. I'm in the process of serious weight loss and have been quite successful up until now, but I still have quite a bit to go before I reach my goal. I mention that because my lifestyle currently includes very healthy eating and regular workouts. I would like to meet someone who will be supportive toward that goal.I'm not looking for someone to complete me, I'm looking for a mate...someone with whom life can be shared. I love to laugh and use humor regularly. I enjoy learning and am driven to know more about just about everything. I'm conservative and Christian, but not judgmental or critical. I believe that to be like Christ is to be loving, period. If you like what you read here, send me a message. I'm trying this site out to see where things go. Life is too short not to share it with someone you love, so let's see if we can live it together.I'm looking for someone who's a Christian, who's honest, ready to be in a relationship leading to marriage, and willing to explore the possibilities that a relationship can offer. I like a man who is attentive, but not smothering. A man who is intelligent, chivalrous, has a great sense of humor, and is a bit old fashioned.I have to be honest and say that I am NOT looking for an ***, chat or pen pal. I am looking to meet someone face to face and develop a real relationship. I would like to exchange a few ***, chat with you and talk with you on the phone a few times and then move to a face to face meeting. I want to look into your eyes as we talk, hold your hand and kiss you if the mood strikes. We can't do that unless we actually transition from this site to a face to face meeting! There's no sense investing a great deal of time and effort developing a false sense of a relationship if we don't ever plan on taking the next step, so what are we waiting for? Let's get started! I'm ready...are you?So, enough about me...what about you? I can promise you that I will be a respectful partner. I will not nag or belittle you. I will be supportive, loving and attentive. You will be well-fed and well-loved. You will not be blasted with all the things that need to be done when you see me after a long day. I will greet you with a hug and a passionate kiss. Your friends and family will love me, and I will reciprocate. I'm open to just about anything, but I believe that the best first dates are informal with an emphasis on really getting to know each other. An afternoon coffee works great...if things work out, the date can turn into dinner! :) If it doesn't, you've got a boost of energy for the rest of your day, and you got to make a new friend. I call that a win-win.

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