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United States, Illinois, Carlinville

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I am a mid-westerner at heart; I have an easy smile, gregarious and demur, spirited and sassy. I think you have to love yourself and love life to enjoy the everyday things as well as the spectacular. I live by the golden rule. I have been described and as having a good energy with integrity a wicked sense of humor and a contagious laugh. Kind in heart, compassionate, intelligent, confident and intuitive... open minded, honest, loving and happy. Friends compliment me on being a sweetheart; amusing and playful but also introspective and patient. I am unassuming and approachable, even tempered and looking for the same. I am pretty good at letting things go so I can just relax and enjoy myself… I am happy, not because of my circumstances, but because I choose to be. I believe the best things in life happen when you least expect it; I never take things for granted. I would be pleased to meet someone who possesses self confidence and a bit of attitude with a well rounded intelligence. Someone who can see a movie without falling in love but can recognize when there just may be some potential for something truly great. I like a man with a ready smile… with crinkles and twinkles in the eyes… whose hands can caress, and command, and caress again. I like a man who carries himself in a way that shows that he's comfortable in his own life and ready to enhance yours. I want a man who takes the reins in life, and finds humor in the vagaries of day-to-day living. I value intelligent men who deserve my honesty and trust. I like to spend time with someone mature and responsible with a good amount of life experience and fun thrown in. I love a great sense of humor in others and like to joke around myself. I also appreciate someone who can be playful. I like to have someone to share both the thrilling and mundane with. I’m seeking someone in a similar circumstance as mine; one who has found himself on his own for one reason or another and is seeking a responsible, happy, confident, ethical person to share conversation, go on little adventures and generally spend quality time with. I enjoy the romance of dating (the flirting, the butterflies, flowers and stolen kisses). For me, the perfect relationship is based on respect and friendship with a healthy dose of sexual chemistry. I find it is difficult to be mad at someone I’d rather be kissing. I am looking for love, and I know that starts with a simple hello. Still, love is elusive, as it should be. You can't fall in love with everyone you say hello to. That would be exhausting!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Museums Chinese Indian Vietnamese Animation Mystery Romance
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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am fit, fun,smart,and looking for the same. I am a hard worker but know how important it is to create balance I look at dating as a tool to weed through the botom dwellers in hopes of catching a shark! I am here until I find a connection that takes me where I want to be...I am on here to get off of here :) so bring it!! I have one son in college at UMD who is a freshman ,and one son in 11th. He lives with me full time and I love it! I am a way cool mom....I love football NFL mostly, so if you don't watch the Sunday games we may not see eachother lol! I will not tell you my team.....it's best kept secret :)For the record,I have very little time to get in a car and drive to you, so if you are willing to drive to me most of the time then do let a girl know :). ANYWHERE . . .Be creative...not coffee at Starbucks....you will want to spend more time with me than that :)

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  • Affrikah from Carlinville | Woman | 50 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Affectionate,, energetic, fun and trustworthy are words those close to me would use to describe me. I am a summer person, I love the beach (LBI) and pool. As a summer baby, I love the water! Yet I enjoy the first snow fall and some cold winter nights...Love to read, travel, and entertaining in as well as out. I love walking, biking and would rather be outside than in the gym but not battling winds or heat...so the gym has to work. I am foodie but also like to eat healthy.Enjoy the theatre and all that NYC has to offer, nothing like the city at Christmas! Equally enjoy hanging with friends and family, or just taking in a quiet night at home if the mood fits.Football on a cool fall day is a great way to spend a Sunday afternoon!As much as I love summer, fall is the season to take in the cool breeze, falling leaves and long drives on the open road.I enjoy a wide range of music and love to sing. I hope one day to take the time and learn to play the guitar or piano. Enjoy spending time with my 22 year old son who lives with me...did I just type 22....seriously don't know where the time went! My new motto.. "fabulous at 50!"I have learned over the past few years without cliche': life is way too short and to take second chances and grab it with 2 hands. So take a chance...Taking pride in personal appearance is important to me. As for first impressions, I look for eyes that speak to me, a smile that lights up our world and hands that show me a sense of strength! Family values, integrity,faith, honesty and sense of humor are qualities that attract me to a man. He should have a heart of gold to match mine. He should have passion and compassion.I am a straight shooter and wear my heart on my sleeve...not always the best quality but will never keep you guessing! Hope to take small steps and see where the road leads ...I am a bit old fashioned and think at times we should still stand behind a man and admire his strength. Remember kiss slowly,forgive quickly and don't live life with regret. Live Love and Laugh... A meet and greet that leaves us both wanting a second date from that amazing first kiss...it's all in the first kiss...

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  • Dot from Carlinville | Woman | 48 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Thanks for stopping by.I enjoy the outdoors camping, hiking and canoeing in the summer. I love taking drives to places I have not been before. A nice picnic, watching the sunset, cuddling on the couch with a good movie........ It is not really easy to post on here what you are really like so if there is anything you want to know please ask. First dates are pretty awkward so I would prefer maybe a walk or something brief to see if it leads to a common interest or a spark (yes I think there has to be a least a little one)

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