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Zola, 50
United States, Illinois, Carlinville

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About Me

I am a mid-westerner at heart; I have an easy smile, gregarious and demur, spirited and sassy. I think you have to love yourself and love life to enjoy the everyday things as well as the spectacular. I live by the golden rule. I have been described and as having a good energy with integrity a wicked sense of humor and a contagious laugh. Kind in heart, compassionate, intelligent, confident and intuitive... open minded, honest, loving and happy. Friends compliment me on being a sweetheart; amusing and playful but also introspective and patient. I am unassuming and approachable, even tempered and looking for the same. I am pretty good at letting things go so I can just relax and enjoy myself… I am happy, not because of my circumstances, but because I choose to be. I believe the best things in life happen when you least expect it; I never take things for granted. I would be pleased to meet someone who possesses self confidence and a bit of attitude with a well rounded intelligence. Someone who can see a movie without falling in love but can recognize when there just may be some potential for something truly great. I like a man with a ready smile… with crinkles and twinkles in the eyes… whose hands can caress, and command, and caress again. I like a man who carries himself in a way that shows that he's comfortable in his own life and ready to enhance yours. I want a man who takes the reins in life, and finds humor in the vagaries of day-to-day living. I value intelligent men who deserve my honesty and trust. I like to spend time with someone mature and responsible with a good amount of life experience and fun thrown in. I love a great sense of humor in others and like to joke around myself. I also appreciate someone who can be playful. I like to have someone to share both the thrilling and mundane with. I’m seeking someone in a similar circumstance as mine; one who has found himself on his own for one reason or another and is seeking a responsible, happy, confident, ethical person to share conversation, go on little adventures and generally spend quality time with. I enjoy the romance of dating (the flirting, the butterflies, flowers and stolen kisses). For me, the perfect relationship is based on respect and friendship with a healthy dose of sexual chemistry. I find it is difficult to be mad at someone I’d rather be kissing. I am looking for love, and I know that starts with a simple hello. Still, love is elusive, as it should be. You can't fall in love with everyone you say hello to. That would be exhausting!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am fit, fun,smart,and looking for the same. I am a hard worker but know how important it is to create balance I look at dating as a tool to weed through the botom dwellers in hopes of catching a shark! I am here until I find a connection that takes me where I want to be...I am on here to get off of here :) so bring it!! I have one son in college at UMD who is a freshman ,and one son in 11th. He lives with me full time and I love it! I am a way cool mom....I love football NFL mostly, so if you don't watch the Sunday games we may not see eachother lol! I will not tell you my team.....it's best kept secret :)For the record,I have very little time to get in a car and drive to you, so if you are willing to drive to me most of the time then do let a girl know :). ANYWHERE . . .Be creative...not coffee at Starbucks....you will want to spend more time with me than that :)

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    Darcey

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

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  • Autumn from Carlinville | Woman | 50 years old | Aquarius
    Autumn

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I'm old fashioned. I treat everyone the same, and it disappoints me to see how the world is today. People criticizing because of their social status or appearance.lets get real we are not children dont want to play games life is to shortwell guys I have had about enough bs if you are serious contact me if not move to another fishing hole I'm looking for a man that's tough on the exterior, but not afraid to show love and affection. I want someone who can make me laugh, who can give a good back rub, and who likes to hold hands and go for walks. For me the perfect man would be understanding, compassionate, loving, caring and funny. I'm looking for a serious relationship, not for a one night stand. I want someone I can grow old with; sit on the porch with and look at the stars. I guess you could say I'm looking for a lifetime partner. Something simple, a nice setting where we could sit and talk and get to know each others likes and dislikes, goals, and aspirations. A setting where we could both be ourselves would be my ideal first date.hey if you just want to chat contact someone else I am looking for the love of the rest of my life

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