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Devin, 46
United States, Illinois, Carbondale

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About Me

looking for a good guysomeone who likes to do stuff, maybe even sometimes reads stuff…thinks stuff and isn't afraid to talk about stuff.someone with integrity and heartsomeone who is kind and genuine and not a douche ;Dyou: CUTE/SEXY (!), fun personality, funny (smartass works too), passionate, sincere and truthful (as in, HONEST) i seem to get along great with younger men, maybe cos i'm immature? ;D please don't be a hunter...SO not into that.and please do not come with a crazy ex who ruined you, or a ton of other unpacked baggage...know what i mean?! i think you do :)me: artistic & creative, sensitive, good sense of humour, laid back, honest, and kind of shy (like to chat a bit on here before meeting). i like; going to galleries, live music, the ocean (lived in BC for 16 years and miss it a lot), kissing, reading (a lot), learning, being silly, passion, nature, driving around looking at stuff, book stores, good conversation over a pint or a coffee and being around men who aren't afraid to talk...openly...as in, share their thoughts (good and bad). i'm not high maintenance or materialistic and i think fun can be had doing anything if you're with someone you like ;Dwhat i am NOT: fancy, a show pony, aggressive, sleazy, perfect; i can be very sensitive and probably a tad sarcastic...i've been told many times that i 'think too much'...is that even possible? :Di'm NOT into games…can you communicate your thoughts in an honest way? yeah, sometimes that takes COURAGE...i know, that can be real scary! but i believe communication is IMPERATIVE to avoid misunderstandings...i hope you do too. looking for a good-hearted, SINCERE, fun, passionate, BALANCED guy...is that too much to ask? i hope not!don't be a meanie/douchebag/asshatPS: not sure how i feel about full beards or 70s mustaches... what's up with that?having said that, i think the mustache has to also have a beard attached...goatees are nice:)PSS: if u have a screw loose and/or are a compulsive liar/player...not interesteddon't just look (in real life or on here...say hi!) :) pint at a pub or something creative/interesting...no Timmys (too much like a job interview and bad coffee to boot)!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Play Musical Instrument English French Family & Kids Shooting Sports
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