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Brandie, 46

United States, Illinois, Carbondale

Offline, last seen Tue, 18 Aug 2026 17:59:53

About Me

My life is cake.. I am looking for the frosting..I have a terrific life and would love to find someone to share it with. My kids are fantastic, my friends are the best and now I am ready to have a great guy to call my own.What is he like? Smart, funny and secure.. And since this is My wish list, tall, clean cut and HWP too please. He looks good cleaned up and probably even better after a few days in the woods. We all have baggage but hopefully his is of the carry-on variety, not the 4-piece matching set variety. Now for some deal breakers: Distance.. Please be somewhat local.. I have done the long distance thing and it doesn't work for me. If you have anger issues, control issues or jealousy issues, please pass me by. Ditto if you are still married.. Jeez, do I really have to say that? Also, please don't expect me to respond if you don't have pictures on your profile. Sorry..On the positive side, I look good in jeans or a little black dress. I am comfortable in a dive bar shooting pool or at your company function. I can start a fire, love college football (LSU!!) and the Yankees. I can cook and love to entertain in my home. My friends would tell you that I am smart, funny and the party starts when I arrive. I am not a gym rat, but I do enjoy being active. I am sure there are other things I should mention, but this is a start. Interested? Something quick and public.. Coffee? Happy hour?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Irish Portuguese Action Biography Family & Kids Martial Arts
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