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Ruthie, 48

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About Me

I can see my life entering a new phase soon, and I am determined to find the right person to share it with. I've raised my son by myself and as such my personal life has taken a backseat for oh say the last decade ... but I don't regret it at all. As I find myself with more time and freedom, I look forward to meeting the one person I can build a lasting, intimate partnership with. My past was quite turbulent. It's mostly uneventful now, and I like it that way. Don't confuse that with boring, however, there's fun everyday and I laugh so so so often. My first job in life is my son, and I have worked hard to give us both a great life. I am eager to invite the right person to join the fun. My job-job is hi tech sales, it's high pressure but I love it. I seem to be always on the run and I like to decompress at the gym, hiking, riding my road bike or of course a great happy hour. I love my small circle of friends and am eager to share the joys in my life with those around me. Taking the time to get to know me, you'll find that I'm independent, energetic, successful, low drama, funny, smart .. .and one heck of a cook! My match? I appreciate height, intelligence, humor, energy and independence. I'm looking for that connection, that person who's got my back while I have his, who makes me stretch farther and experience more than I will on my own. You're still reading? Without strong family ties of my own, I'm definitely searching for that in a LTR (have no fear, your mom's gonna love me!) I have a huge heart that gets hurt easily, so if you're not sincere please click to the next profile (I hear she's easy). Seriously, please be at least a year out of your marriage. I almost forgot the most important part. I make a great partner! I'm there, but not incessantly. I give and receive love, but am not needy. I am passionate, but not psychotic -- and old enough to know the difference. My ideal first date? A quiet spot, coffee shop, wine bar, park bench .. Someplace relaxed so we can share more about ourselves, hear and see each other. This time should give us both ample opportunity to size each other up :-) Ha! That sounds a lot colder than I intended, but you get the idea!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lashunda

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am a 49 yr old woman looking for a friend first and see how things progress from there. I am very self-suffient, I enjoy walks in the moonlight,,picnics,, holding hands,,animals(no creepy crawlers!!!!),, photography,,scrapbooking,,cooking...... Dinner and conversation.....

  • Veola

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I'm finally at a stage in my life where I can start doing things that make me happy. My family and children have always been my biggest priority and still are but they do not need my full attention anymore. Most of my children now have families of their own. With my free time I enjoy traveling, camping, hiking, motorcycle events and most community activities. What I would like to find is someone who has similar interests, an awesome sense of humor, is creative, hard working, and honest. I am not in a hurry to settle down into a serious relationship but I would not rule it out if I were to find Mr. Right. I suppose I have to start somewhere so it might as well be here. Fun is top on list for a first date...either there is a connection or not. There is no reason to waste each others time if there is not a mutual interest. If there is that's great...if not I heard there are plenty of fish....lol

  • Tashina

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Im tired of the game players...No one has been serious...Just playing around with fellings.I try to be a good person...i try to trust in people.Sometimes i find i cant trust as easily as i would like since there are way to many players out thete... but untill that trust is broken....i still give it. with a open mind.A little about me....I was married 31 years. Dumped for a married woman....and thrown out into this strange unfamilure world to start over again.I am the mother of seven. All grown but my 10 year old daughter that lives with me.I am the proud grandparent of 24 grandkids...As for fun...im very open...if it seems fun im willing to try it....i do enjoy the outdoors......camping and fishing is top on my list. Spent three weeks at the lake...and tought my daughter to fish...I enjoy plesant conversation...taking slow walks.. sitting out under the stars...hanging out at the creek. Playing pool.bowling. 4wheelers long drives to nowhere.. most of all....being able to spend time with someone that wants me around. I am just me...i dont want to be anything im not....yes im country...i like going barefoot most days...i live in town...no choice there...but love being away from here.Guess thats about me in a nutshell. Thank you for reading. And spending a little time with me here.Good luck to all of you... Spending time with each otherHaving coffee...lunch...or dinner...or just sitting and talking.. going for a walk. Or watching a movie togeather..im not hard to please..

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